Savings Diary: BDays, Xmas, Controlling Impulsive Spending

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After spending a week trawling through different forums and seeing how well everyone is doing and all of the advice, I've decided to join!
All through my teen years I saved almost everything without fail. Now I'm in my early twenties, living away from home with some housemates, and have to admit the boredom of furlough has hit me hard. In just the first 9 days of February I spent over £200 on non-essentials and realised I need to get a grip
I'm a student that also works part-time in retail. I have a Lifetime ISA account to help me save for a home and it's going well so far. However wanting to move out with my boyfriend in a couple of years I have a long way to go!
I have made a conscious decision to spend less on non-essentials and make the most of Multibuy Offers and discounted prices on essentials and gifts.
Any money that I have saved from discounts and offers is going into a separate savings account for B-days and Xmas (keeping an eye on clearance sales for the best deals on potential gifts for those closest to me - although have to be careful not to be tempted into buying for myself!). Any leftovers will just roll-on to next year.
I'm also including the cost of any luxury buys that I come perilously close to purchasing or when my housemates buy takeaway, I include the cost of what I would purchase if I were also ordering. This in itself is motivational as I can immediately see how much money I'm saving from avoiding impulse purchases!
As of yesterday (11/02/2021) I have already put away £91.43 into this separate account!
£49.99 of that simply comes from not purchasing a skincare/make-up set that's currently on offer! I have never used their products before and realised if I liked anything from the bundle I will only end up spending more as a result as each item is roughly £10-£20 each!
Being so new I'm unsure of categories but wanted to keep myself a little online diary to hold myself accountable and stay motivated, will probably update progress every time I've saved up a decent wee bit
All through my teen years I saved almost everything without fail. Now I'm in my early twenties, living away from home with some housemates, and have to admit the boredom of furlough has hit me hard. In just the first 9 days of February I spent over £200 on non-essentials and realised I need to get a grip

I'm a student that also works part-time in retail. I have a Lifetime ISA account to help me save for a home and it's going well so far. However wanting to move out with my boyfriend in a couple of years I have a long way to go!
I have made a conscious decision to spend less on non-essentials and make the most of Multibuy Offers and discounted prices on essentials and gifts.
Any money that I have saved from discounts and offers is going into a separate savings account for B-days and Xmas (keeping an eye on clearance sales for the best deals on potential gifts for those closest to me - although have to be careful not to be tempted into buying for myself!). Any leftovers will just roll-on to next year.
I'm also including the cost of any luxury buys that I come perilously close to purchasing or when my housemates buy takeaway, I include the cost of what I would purchase if I were also ordering. This in itself is motivational as I can immediately see how much money I'm saving from avoiding impulse purchases!

As of yesterday (11/02/2021) I have already put away £91.43 into this separate account!
£49.99 of that simply comes from not purchasing a skincare/make-up set that's currently on offer! I have never used their products before and realised if I liked anything from the bundle I will only end up spending more as a result as each item is roughly £10-£20 each!
Being so new I'm unsure of categories but wanted to keep myself a little online diary to hold myself accountable and stay motivated, will probably update progress every time I've saved up a decent wee bit

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I highly recommend writing down a budget of income / expenditure of all fixed outgoings and bills, the allocate some 'pocket money' to yourself for treats; that can be weekly or monthly but when it's gone, it's gone.
- I've got mine on a spreadsheet, set up for the whole year so I know in advance what everything is and where the money will be going.
With saving, treat it like any other bill and pay it on payday or when your bills come out. If you wait until closer to your next payday the risk is there won't be anything left to save.
Set a budget for food shopping. With my budget if I don't spend it, or don't spend all of it, I move it to savings.
Another thing I do when my bills come out or I use my debit card, is round up the pennies to the next pound, those pennies get moved to savings whether it's 1p or 99p. It really does mount up.
Learn the difference between 'need' and 'want'.
'Needs' are new tights as your only pair have laddered, your boots have holes in the sole and you've no others, pasta or other food item because there's none in the cupboard.
'Wants' are things like spare tights, another pair of boots but in a different colour, make-up where you've already got some. Have a think for at least a day, ideally a week or longer, then see if you still want it.
We can offer many money saving hints and tips. Our diaries are not just for updating when we have reached a target, but for supporting others and also chatting. So don't feel like you can't update with happy news, when you've had a bad day or if you feel ill. Your diary is yours so make good use of it, as it will keep you on track.
Have a read through other diaries in this section, just have a huge cup of coffee and settle in, some ideas may be of use to you.
I'm really loving reading through the forums and am so grateful for all the tips I find! I have plenty of games for my console, a small stockpile of booze and studying for college to enjoy myself during lockdown
Savings is designated just for gifts and home deposit at the moment, but once the world is back to somewhat normal I'll swap unnecessary luxury purchases with occasional nights out and/or date nights, experiences/memories are better than an item of clothing I'll barely wear
In just over a day I wanted to spend £83.87 on non-essentials!
I also struggle with my mental health and deal with obsessive tenancies, unfortunately my most recent one has been spending! But I've had 3 whole days of not spending any money and I'm really proud of myself
Instead of spending to alleviate boredom, I've: organised my makeup box to see how much I own so I can remind myself I don't need anymore, decanted makeup samples into small travel pots so they can stay sealed instead of just sitting in a sachet, decanted my shampoo and conditioner into pump bottles so I can better control how much I use, and organised all my makeup/Skincare samples and gifts into a seperate box just to visually see the little freebies, presents and discounts I've managed to nab since December
For the past two years or so I've had a lump sum just sitting in a savings account accumulating very little interest and I'm fortunate enough to not need a large emergency fund, so I've bit the bullet and put half of it into my Lifetime ISA account so it will gain more interest and count towards my government bonus! My biggest goal is to save for a house so if I'm not using it for anything else and watching a few pennies add on each year I'm not doing myself any favours! The other half I'm retaining in that savings account I will slowly add to bit by bit for things like furniture etc when I do get my own house.
Have you visited the freebies section?
Often items / vouchers are given away by companies on a first come first served basis. I've used it a few times for things I would normally use and it saved me a few quid.
If you continue checking and organising everything, you'll know what you have and what you need, maybe even spot things you don't use anymore.
You've done really well not buying things, organising and taking the big step of moving money to your LISA. Saving for a home is exciting!
I've had a look at the freebies section but I'm a bit anxious about submitting my details of name and address to things, but I did join a group on FB about bargains and coupons so if anything good for dinners or gifts come up I can have a look
Also have a 3ds XL that I haven't used in years which I'm planning to sell, silly me already did my spring clear out before finding this site so could have kept a few other things to sell but I'll know for next year
Thank you so much for the advice and encouragement!
It's all coming together for you 🤗
I have a few suggestions - Take sandwiches to work and avoid fizzy pop i saved £10 a day when i did that. I keep a spending diary and that has been a real eye opener as last year my cutting back enabled me to pay for things like insurance without raiding my savings. I also think taking online shops from your desk top is a good idea!!!
@savingwannabe Hi, thank you so much! I definitely owe it to my dad, as soon as I got my first job he sat down and spoke to me about savings, recommended a minimum percentage to put away on payday, then anything leftover also got went into savings
I have a spreadsheet set up to track how much I spend every month, and when I do go back to work I'll make sure on the days I'm entitled to lunch that I take something in, even a pizza slice from Greggs does add up! For fizzy drinks I'll only ever purchase multipacks that are part of a deal so it isn't as expensive!
I've been looking more into money required to go towards buying a home, didn't realise how much had to be paid for alongside the mortgage, so many fees and checks to be done
I'm definitely getting some spending withdrawals, OH treated me to a McDonalds today as Valentines lunch (doesn't sound super romantic but he knows me well and I do love McD's
And finally making use of some skincare samples I've received recently, skin is feeling rejuvenated