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Can’t find a deed of variation
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Tinamw said:Sorry. I was waiting for more news.
Our current solicitor has found a letter from Sol1 (I presume) notifying a letter or DoV was sent to my father and asking him to get us to sign.
There are 3 of us. I’m not sure if there was a solicitor dealing with my mother’s estate, except for the letter mentioned above. I don’t remember signing anything for anything at the time, but I’ve mentioned how upset we all were, especially as there was no warning of her demise. She literally dropped down dead.
For example, if you could prove your father received the money in question, and all three children were to swear that they never gifted this money to their father, would this be sufficient to for HMRC to be satisfied that either a dov must have existed, or your father's estate now has a debt to the children for this amount? If that would not be sufficient would it possible to get a court to rule on the matter (and what would that involve)? (Questions for solicitor, not the op.)
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Sudden thought...a DOV doesn't actually have to be a formal deed prepared by a solicitor. It could be a simple letter, provided it meets certain formalities. Could it be that you're looking for the 'wrong' thing?Googling on your question might have been both quicker and easier, if you're only after simple facts rather than opinions!0
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But none of us can remember signing anything.0
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Tinamw said:But none of us can remember signing anything.Googling on your question might have been both quicker and easier, if you're only after simple facts rather than opinions!0
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Sudden thought...a DOV doesn't actually have to be a formal deed prepared by a solicitor. It could be a simple letter, provided it meets certain formalities. Could it be that you're looking for the 'wrong' thing?https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/comment/78033934/#Comment_78033934
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I really can’t remember what happened. I feel I would have known if there was a six figure sum that I signed away.
Your mother made a will.
Have you seen it?
Was probate obtained and if so who was the executor?
Was an executor's account opened?
What records are available in respect of your mother's bank accounts etc?
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Tinamw said:But none of us can remember signing anything.0
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naedanger said:Sea_Shell said:How would finding the DoV help?
This is normally done the other way round, ie your Dad is left everything, but does a dov to you so the amount never hits his estate.
By doing a dov you've effectively moved that money into your father's estate from yours.
Are you now wanting to somehow repudiate the DoV?
It may be simpler to show that the children didn't receive their inheritances at the time of their mother's death and therefore should receive them now, as creditors of their late father.
A more interesting question, of course, is whether any IHT was paid on the mother's estate?Googling on your question might have been both quicker and easier, if you're only after simple facts rather than opinions!0 -
Marcon said:naedanger said:Sea_Shell said:How would finding the DoV help?
This is normally done the other way round, ie your Dad is left everything, but does a dov to you so the amount never hits his estate.
By doing a dov you've effectively moved that money into your father's estate from yours.
Are you now wanting to somehow repudiate the DoV?
It may be simpler to show that the children didn't receive their inheritances at the time of their mother's death and therefore should receive them now, as creditors of their late father.
A more interesting question, of course, is whether any IHT was paid on the mother's estate?
It would certainly be interesting seeing if there was any IHT return from the time of their mother's estate. With luck it may even have included a dov. And it should show the amount of the spousal exemption (and by implication the amount the children inherited at least as far as HMRC were told). Even if the children had inherited then there may not have been much, or any, IHT at that time because presumably most of the total inheritance was covered by the spouse's exemption.
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Hi. Me again.
I now have a copy of my mother’s will. The pertinent bit is - ‘I give free of tax to those of my children who shall survive me and if more than one in equal shares such sum as at my death equals the maximum amount which could be given to them by this Will without Inheritance Tax becoming payable in respect of my estate.’I’ve also been in touch via web chat line to HMRC. They won’t discuss anything about my mother’s estate. I have to talk to her executor. I told them it was my father who died in October 2020. I suggested a seance. I asked what level of proof HMRC would need to accept we’d never signed a DoV, or received any bequests at the time of my mother’s death. HMRC say they need to see the DOV and could it have been sent to them? I didn’t ask what information they’d need to find out if they had ever received the DoV, although I did give them my mothers full name, DoB and DoD. They also suggested I get in touch with a solicitor for professional advice.
Are there any specialist solicitors who deal with HMRC in this type of scenario? Any advice gratefully received.0
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