We're aware that some users are experiencing technical issues which the team are working to resolve. See the Community Noticeboard for more info. Thank you for your patience.
📨 Have you signed up to the Forum's new Email Digest yet? Get a selection of trending threads sent straight to your inbox daily, weekly or monthly!

its a bit lonely

Options
2

Comments

  • I’m the same. I’m on my own too. Decided against mixing with family. My choice but it is difficult. I’ve been calling family and friends though and exchanging texts. 
  • Thanks for all the comments. I'm ok. I think I am anyway. its just that I'm not usually one to show my feelings. and I just crack on and get on with life. but it was like someone or something stopped me and said 'not so clever now eh'. but I'll get over it. onward n upward.

  • AntoMac
    AntoMac Posts: 2,669 Forumite
    Tenth Anniversary 1,000 Posts Name Dropper Combo Breaker
    It’s good to cry Clive. Nothing to be ashamed of
    27/5/17 Mort 64705 BTs 1904031/12/17 Mort 59815 BT 1673007/04/20 Mort 49208 BT 1572128/07/20 Mort 47387 BT 1263414/11/20 Mort 45905 BT 10134 20/05/21 Mort 42335 BT 686811/08/22 Mort 32050 BT 2915Sealed Pot Challenge 16 Number 5
  • I think you can be strong 99% of the time but then something small or trivial can send you over the edge so there's nothing wrong in getting upset.

    my mum's  on her own ...sister has already FaceTimed her to open presents & I'll do that tonight. 
  • fred246
    fred246 Posts: 3,620 Forumite
    Sixth Anniversary 1,000 Posts Name Dropper
    I was right all along. Christmas should have been banned this year. Should be like the Olympics. Once every 4 years would be plenty.
  • fred246
    fred246 Posts: 3,620 Forumite
    Sixth Anniversary 1,000 Posts Name Dropper
    Don't worry Clive the Queen's speech will be on soon. That will cheer you up!
  • Merry Christmas, Clive.  Sorry you're feeling lonely. There's no shame in feeling upset, either.  I hope your evening is relaxing and tomorrow is a better day.
  • its ok. just got christmas dinner for one in the oven. i got a turkey breast wrapped in bacon, spuds sprouts. i think it nearly ready.
  • Hi Clive 
    It’s perfectly ok to acknowledge that you feel sad rather than bottling everything up. Sending you virtual hugs and love 
  • JGB1955
    JGB1955 Posts: 3,850 Forumite
    Sixth Anniversary 1,000 Posts Name Dropper
    fred246 said:
    Don't worry Clive the Queen's speech will be on soon. That will cheer you up!
    I'm not sure about that - it brought a tear to my eye (and I've WhatsApped my children. grandchildren and brother today).  Strange times we live in.... tomorrow is another day.
    #2 Saving for Christmas 2024 - £1 a day challenge. £325 of £366
Meet your Ambassadors

🚀 Getting Started

Hi new member!

Our Getting Started Guide will help you get the most out of the Forum

Categories

  • All Categories
  • 351K Banking & Borrowing
  • 253.1K Reduce Debt & Boost Income
  • 453.6K Spending & Discounts
  • 244K Work, Benefits & Business
  • 598.9K Mortgages, Homes & Bills
  • 176.9K Life & Family
  • 257.3K Travel & Transport
  • 1.5M Hobbies & Leisure
  • 16.1K Discuss & Feedback
  • 37.6K Read-Only Boards

Is this how you want to be seen?

We see you are using a default avatar. It takes only a few seconds to pick a picture.