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April 2020 - loss of loved one and dealing with aftermath...

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  • cbrown372
    cbrown372 Posts: 1,513 Forumite
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    I'd be inclined to let the local police and council know that the house will be empty and locked up for the forseeable future so they can keep an eye on things?
    Its not that we have more patience as we grow older, its just that we're too tired to care about all the pointless drama ;)
  • hb2
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    OP, I am so sorry for your loss. A difficult time, made worse - as so many things are - by the current situation :(
    It's not difficult!
    'Wander' - to walk or move in a leisurely manner.
    'Wonder' - to feel curious.
  • Gers
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    Don't forget about Royal Mail redirection for post - I posted the link on the other thread.  It's an essential.
    Hope you get things sorted soon.
  • 74jax
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    Gers said:
    Don't forget about Royal Mail redirection for post - I posted the link on the other thread.  It's an essential.
    Hope you get things sorted soon.
    Thank you, I need the death cert for that but I have the form ready to proceed. 
    Forty and fabulous, well that's what my cards say....
  • Gers
    Gers Posts: 13,183 Forumite
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    What a lovely thing you have put together - I know it'll all go well.
  • badger09
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    @74jax

    Virtual hugs and hope it all went as well as you deserve. The death of a parent is a horrible thing to go through in 'normal' times and these are far from normal. You have given your mam the best send off you you possibly could, which all we can ever hope to do for our loved ones.

    Take care of yourself
  • cbrown372
    cbrown372 Posts: 1,513 Forumite
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    @74jax I will think of you at 2.00 and love the idea of you wearing pink.
    Its not that we have more patience as we grow older, its just that we're too tired to care about all the pointless drama ;)
  • hb2
    hb2 Posts: 1,399 Forumite
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    I hope that everything went smoothly for you today.

    My Mum specified that she didn't want people wearing black to her funeral, so OP wearing pink doesn't fill me with horror at all.
    It's not difficult!
    'Wander' - to walk or move in a leisurely manner.
    'Wonder' - to feel curious.
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