Care Costs - How Much???!!!

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  • Being cared for in your home is a great option for those who have sufficient liquid assets to afford it, and it can be cheaper the residential care, as their are no accommodation costs involved. If I need any level of care, under no circumstances do I want to burden any of my family with doing it, and if I can possibly avoid it I don’t want to go into residential care, so a certain amount of savings have been ring-fenced in case home care is required.

    If never needed it might result in some IHT that could have been avoided, but that is a price worth paying for piece of mind.
  • Morglin
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    edited 21 February 2020 at 10:18AM
    Mickey666 said:
    A friend's mother has recently had to move into a care home.  very sad but all too common etc etc.  But what has astounded me is that it is costing £1200/week!.  I don't know the full details but that's not really relevant to my question . . . which is, has anyone here any experience of home care alternatives, because it seems to me that at if care homes are charging 40, 50, 60k per year it must surely be cheaper to employ a full-time home carer.  Indeed, many retired people have spare bedrooms in their homes so why not even a live-in carer?  Perhaps this is what we used to call a 'housekeeper' in the good old days?  They get somewhere to live, rent-free, plus a 'living allowance' and they run the household for the elderly owner.  OK, maybe not so appropriate if there are serious medical conditions, but for basic old-age frailty it must surely be an option.  After all, I don't think there was the prevalence of care homes in the 'good old days' - or perhaps 'extended families' were more the norm back then?  - but they certainly seem to be raking in the profits these days.  Is there really no alternative?





    My dad has complex needs and his home charges £1800 per week. (London prices!)

    Employing a carer wouldn’t have worked, because he needs two carers at a time for lifting etc., and obviously, you also have to allow for time off, holidays etc.

    One carer couldn’t work night and day - although this would depend on level of need.

    i sold the house to pay for this, but, luckily, they have assessed him as being eligible for NHS Continuous Care funding, so we're not having to pay at the moment.

    its an expensive nightmare.

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  • 3stones
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    Care / nursing homes were actually closing at the rate of one a week a few years back despite an increase in demand, Increasing costs and the cutting of government subsidies were cited as reasons why It become a business to get out of rather  than get into.
  • 3stones said:
    Care / nursing homes were actually closing at the rate of one a week a few years back despite an increase in demand, Increasing costs and the cutting of government subsidies were cited as reasons why It become a business to get out of rather  than get into.
    Yes you are right, people think it is a licence to print money but there are so many costs they've never even thought of.
  • Mickey666 said:
    Mickey666 said:
     I guess I'm just struggling to understand where £100k/year actually goes when all the media reports seem to suggest that carers are very low paid workers, probably minimum wage.


    Yep, carers get paid peanuts, they aren’t the only costs though.  Care homes also have to pay for the fabric of the building (rent maybe, repairs, upkeep), utilities, food, laundry, specialist equipment like hoists and chairs, consumables like soap/toilet paper/cleaning products, social and enrichment activities.  Probably loads more that I haven’t thought of too, and then on top they have to make a profit because our society has decided for some reason that caring for vulnerable people is a business opportunity rather than a collective responsibility. 
    Yes, care homes have loads of overheads as you rightly say, plus commercial/liability insurances, management overheads and other things . . . whereas a person requiring care presumably already has a home so it’s not really all those overheads they need, only the incremental actual care.  Perhaps it’s a cultural thing together with the demise of the extended family?  Once we had multi-generational homes or at least families all living close together so care needs were more shared within the family.  I know that times change but sometimes wonder if there’s a hidden price to pay for our progress.

    A lot of the time the home is no longer suitable without major adaptations, and sometimes the home can’t be adapted at all (upstairs flat with no lift, lots of steps to front door, tiny bathroom that can’t be made accessible, doors too narrow for chair/bed/hoist to fit through etc etc.)
  • 3stones said:
    Going back a few decades I think people died younger of more natural causes, suet puddings and the like did for a lot of people. I'm sure a much lower percentage of people  ever got to the age of needing specialist nursing care.
    And lots ended up in the workhouse.
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