Talk me down please 2

pollyanna_26

I've been offline for a few weeks. I've come to the conclusion me and tech are cursed. i ended up with a very dark screen and a charger that wouldn't charge. Dropped the new laptop of at the family techs two weeks ago and it's now sorted with a new charger.

Sending positive vibes for good news re the job. After all the horrors I agree with elsien . You pick yourself up and move forward and if this job isn't for you it's their loss not yours at least there isn't anyone holding you back now and messing with your head.

As you now I'm a great fan of Nanny Ogg and her cat so I hope you keep the name.

You will get the memories of Froo, Boo and the cats. Many years on I still have moments remembering my beloved Ollie. He was a real character and the things I now remember are his hilarious escapades with his frog friend and his adoration of Freddie Mercury. We lost him too young at the time we lost Freddie but grief turned to imagining him dancing across the skies with freddie both wearing matching glittery outfits.

Keep in your mind although your soon to be ex blamed you the blame is with him and no one else. If you'd stayed you and the dogs would have been at the mercy of his skewed behaviour and lord knows how things would have progressed.

I know you've reported the issue over your address being revealed but if you haven't told someone from the Hub please do. They'll be used to dealing with that. It's a serious breach of privacy.

pollyx

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mellymoo74

Luckily it's Warden controlled and fob access so I still feel safe friend took me today, talked me down cos my confidence is shot and picked me up
I am now on the couch in trackie bottoms watching serial killer stuff 
At least following my sending them a sample of my evidence they have stopped contacting me. 
I will pass it onto the Hub when I have my call with them and the ombudsman though as they have put me at risk. 

mellymoo74

So today I should find out about the job, bit scared. 
Also had an old neighbour trying to get hold of me last night about ex and the dogs so more mind games I think

pollyanna_26

Hope all is ok with the job call today but if not there are other jobs out there.

No idea how your old neighbour tried to contact you but you have to ignore any contact from your old life. You've moved on and whether it was mind games or not it isn't part of your life now. Stick with those you trust,your friend, brothers and those who truly care for you as you make a new and better future.

pollyx

mellymoo74

What if they are alive?
Sick of the games to be honest 

mellymoo74

In other news Greebo lives with me from Sunday so yay for fluffy kittens 

elsien

Fingers and toes crossed for you for the job melly.
Are your ex neighbours sensible people who might actually know what's happened to your pets, or people who are just being used to mess with your head? Would a family member be able to contact them on your behalf while not giving anything away about you/your situation. I can see why you would want to know for sure. 

mellymoo74

Have no idea
He's well meaning but a coke head so.... 
I cant grieve them again, I just can't 

pollyanna_26

mellymoo74 said:

Have no idea
He's well meaning but a coke head so.... 
I cant grieve them again, I just can't 

I was about to ask if it was the nice next door neighbour think she had a grandaughter. However reading the post I've quoted it isn't. Best not to contact however well meaning it's possible he's being manipulated too. You cannot go through the grieving again when it's probably yet one more messing with your head tactic. You have the memories of the good times with Froo and Boo.. You are not to blame for anything the toxic one did.

pollyx

gettingtheresometime

mellymoo74 said:

Have no idea
He's well meaning but a coke head so.... 
I cant grieve them again, I just can't 

Be very wary of the neighbour Melly.
You never know what this neighbour has been promised if he can get you to meet up.
I really don't want to scare you but want you to be aware that if he did ask to meet up there may be an ulterior  motive.