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  • Enjoy your bank holiday BC!!

    OMG yes, the pink shrimps vs chocolate would be a deal breaker for me too!  My DH came back with dark chocolate buttons today without realising and I can't stand dark chocolate!  
  • MissRikkiC
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    Blackcats said:
    thanks loveactually.  If the weather is yucky on Monday I'm going to make a pot of tea and spend the afternoon watching a film.  

    Spent some money today.  OH went to the shop with a list and a clear explanation of everything on the list and came back with some bizarre variations to the list.  For example bunch of flowers as a thank you gift translated into 2 hanging baskets and a chilli plant 🤷‍♀️.  Chocolate for the grandkids turned into bubble blowing wand 😂. Chocolate for me equals a packet of pink shrimp sweets 😱

    he did redeem himself with a few yellow stickered bargains.  




    This made me LOL. I think they think theyre being clever...  but theyre just not!
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  • QueenJess
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    Oh yikes. That shop would have properly stressed me out! I don't think DH would dare come back with different things from the list these days 🤣
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  • Blackcats
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    Yes indeed!  The shop left me feeling a mixture of perplexed and irritated.  Even worse was to come when I investigated the foamy shrimps and found that they weren't even full sized shrimps - they were teeny, tiny toddler shrimps.  

    We had a conversation yesterday about having lots of eggs to use up and decided to make a crustless quiche tomorrow.  We went to the butchers today and I had to wrench half a dozen eggs from OH's hands - he said the box looked nice 😏.

    Interestingly though he never buys "stuff" - his clothes last forever and he uses things up, repairs and re-purposes things.  I think it's just the food shopping where he goes a bit wonky.  

    I had a lovely 9 day bank holiday Monday today.  Went for a walk to a beautiful place with a flask and a sandwich.  Gets some chores done and settled down for an episode of Midsummer Murders.  

    I need to check bank account tomorrow - all the direct debits for the month should have gone out now and I want to see if what's left in the account is similar to what I think should be there.  
  • Sun_Addict
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    Many years ago I sent Mr SA to do the big shop on his own when we’d unfortunately been burgled and I had to stay home to wait for the police. I gave him a list, he couldn’t find most of the things on it and came back with mostly beer, chocolate and peanuts. Needless to say he was never asked to shop again 😐
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  • CRANKY40
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    I like pink shrimps so I would have been happy. The late MrC was alright at shopping as long as the list was quite specific. The packing let him down though - he was strangely proud of using the least number of carrier bags possible which was ok if there wasn't anything particularly squashy bought. I quickly learned not to add bread to the list if he was shopping....
  • Blackcats
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    SA. Beer, peanuts and chocolate 🤣.  Cranky - I've eaten the pink shrimps - they were in the car and I got stuck for 2 hours on the London orbital motorway of doom.  
    No money spent today.  I've got some items in my amaz*n basket that I'll have a further think about before I press buy.
    still working through the freezer for at least one meal per week.  Will use some frugal recipes next week from my recipe folder.
  • savingholmes
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    At least the shrimps weren't wasted then...
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  • Blackcats
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    Yes indeed -  no food waste from the foamy shrimps.

    tough week here - my mum is in the last phase of her life.  She has been poorly for a while but is rapidly deteriorating.  It's desperately hard to see her slipping away.  She doesn't appear to be in any pain which is a blessing.

    so it's been very haphazard food wise for me - got home late one night and had fish and chips, sausage sandwich yesterday.  I did make a nice salad tonight as was getting slightly worried about scurvy 🥺.  I've been kind to myself and done an online Ocado shop for food.  I was aware of the higher cost of items but I can overlook that at the moment.  Tried to put a mixture of healthy stuff as well as quick and easy options.


  • Sun_Addict
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    So sorry to hear about your mum. It’s an awful time, been there myself. Take care of yourself, it will be a tough time. 
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