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Things the opposite Sex do which they think is Attractive but isn't?

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  • Penguin_
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    The way people horde (think that's the word I'm looking for) matches on dating apps & don't actually interact with matches.



    Or when you finally do manage to have communication with them & it's going well, you ask them if they'd like to meet for a drink/dinner or something & you're suddenly ignored/unmatched.
  • NBLondon
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    Penguin_ wrote: »
    The way people horde (think that's the word I'm looking for) matches on dating apps & don't actually interact with matches.

    Or when you finally do manage to have communication with them & it's going well, you ask them if they'd like to meet for a drink/dinner or something & you're suddenly ignored/unmatched.
    Is that something that people do because they think it's attractive? Or is it the online version of "playing hard to get"? Or indeed do they hoard (that's the word for keeping things) the matches as a form of self-congratulation "I've got so many that I can pick and choose!"?
    I need to think of something new here...
  • Penguin_
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    NBLondon wrote: »
    Is that something that people do because they think it's attractive? Or is it the online version of "playing hard to get"? Or indeed do they hoard (that's the word for keeping things) the matches as a form of self-congratulation "I've got so many that I can pick and choose!"?


    I have no idea, perhaps it's so when they open their app they can see the long list of matches they have.
  • Penguin_
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    Lots of piercings and badly done tattoos. Urgh!


    I must say any tattoos for me, I've never found them attractive.
  • Abbafan1972
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    For me it's Tattoos in certain places on the body and ear stretchers - they make me squirm, yuk!
    Striving to clear the mortgage before it finishes in Dec 2028 - amount currently owed - £19,575.02
  • fred246
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    Breast implants in healthy young women. Horrible unnecessary operation.
  • boliston
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    women who use a snapchat filter and think it makes them look good
  • thor
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    Women with short hair. I always get flamed for saying it but I have never seen a women who looks more attractive with shorter hair.
    Also botoxing lips. Guaranteed to make you look worse.
  • HRH_MUngo
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    Break wind ostentatiously.
    I used to be seven-day-weekend
  • NBLondon
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    High, breathy, "little girl" voices.  Some can't help it - that is just the way their voice box works - but those who exaggerate it for effect.
    I need to think of something new here...
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