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  • killerpeaty
    killerpeaty Posts: 2,658 Forumite
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    My foot isn't great but been doing the exercises, thank you for asking! I'm hopeful. But I did not get to sleep until about 4am last night, I'm usually asleep at 9.30!

    It was my birthday, I've been playing dragon quest monsters (which was a gift) a lot. It's soooo my childhood and I don't have the memory for the combinations of monsters I want to make so I might have to keep notes. 8 or 9 year old me did not have this issue!

    Not been able to concentrate at work so I'm catching up today. Thankfully they are super kind and letting me WFH. Just realised that I haven't said what it is, tendonitis apparently. I don't know what it is but apparently I have a mild case and should be covering in 6-8 weeks. So happy about this!

    Sorry if this is hard to read, brain is fuzzy from the lack of sleep 
  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 95,571 Ambassador
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    Happy birthday to you 🍰🌼
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  • newgirly
    newgirly Posts: 9,337 Forumite
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    Happy birthday Kp, hope it was a good day 🥳 💐
    MFW 67 - Finally mortgage free! 💙😁
  • themadvix
    themadvix Posts: 8,762 Forumite
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    Happy Birthday for yesterday KP! Glad your foot seems to be improving too.
    Mortgage free 16/06/2023! £132,500 cleared in 11 years, 3 months and 7 days

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  • greent
    greent Posts: 10,764 Forumite
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    Belated birthday wishes, kp! 🥳🎂
    I am the master of my fate; I am the captain of my soul
    Repaid mtge early (orig 11/25) 01/09 £124616 01/11 £89873 01/13 £52546 01/15 £12133 07/15 £NIL
    Net sales 2024: £20
  • killerpeaty
    killerpeaty Posts: 2,658 Forumite
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    Thanks all!

    I'm having a bit of a moment. It's coming toa but where decisions need to be made with regards to my uncles house. So in an ideal world, I would like to purchase, renovate and then live in it as it's a house that is a large part of my life. Our family has lived in the house for over 100 years.

    However, in order to do it, I will have to buy with my sister. However she's told me today that she has less savings than this time last year because of the medical costs she's had which includes regular physio and now her teeth.

    She lives with mum, barely pays rent or bills. I understand that these the medical fees are expensive but she earns pretty good money. Why doesn't she have savings? If she can't afford her life now, how is she going to afford her portion (which is 39% when split by income proportions). 

    I don't know. I just... I just don't want to be drowning by being chained to her.
  • Merlin's_Beard
    Merlin's_Beard Posts: 1,483 Forumite
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    I think definitely think carefully before tying yourself to someone you don't trust financially, but only you can say how real your worries are!
    Start mortgage date: August 2022; Start mortgage amount: £240,999; Original mortgage free date: August 2056
    Current mortgage amount: £226,957.97
    Start student loan 2012: £29,750; current student loan: CLEARED July 2025
  • killerpeaty
    killerpeaty Posts: 2,658 Forumite
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    Thank you. I'm still very worried. More worried actually, my mum piped up that we should be buying as joint tenants rather than tenants in common with different percentages. I calculated that I would be paying 71%. Plus giving up living on my own.
  • South_coast
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    It sounds like you'd be more carrying her than chained to her. Only you can make the decision, but my unsolicited outsider's opinion is that it sounds like a terrible idea
    Mortgage start: £65,495 (March 2016)
    Cleared 🧚‍♀️🧚‍♀️🧚‍♀️!!! In 5 years, 1 month and 29 days
    Total amount repaid: £72,307.03. £1.10 repaid for every £1.00 borrowed

    Finally earning interest instead of paying it!!!
  • killerpeaty
    killerpeaty Posts: 2,658 Forumite
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    Some idiot went into work knowing her leg wasn't going to like it and ended up with sick days and now on naproxen.

    All things financial are out the window. No thoughts are held in this smooth brain right now.
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