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  • Morning P, hope the head isn't too bad and things are ok today, stay strong ;)

    Reading the DT/ Shakespeare conversation from last night, I think we should all go and see this - David Tennant in Hamlet - http://david-tennant.com/temp/id200.html :D:p;)
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  • Sea78
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    Hey Pania - thinking of you this morning - hope you've gone to see Hypno for some TLC and coffee!!!
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  • Lemon_Tree
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    Pania
    It's my time to be worried about you. Sorry i wasn't around last night to support you. You're going through such a tough time, but i agree with others your OH is being a pain in the butt cos he's feeling guilty which isn't going to make your life any easier.

    You are more than welcome to stop here if you need to, the sofa bed it comfy. Especially if you need to be away from Norwich at the turn of the year.
  • ZTD
    ZTD Posts: 24,327 Forumite
    pania wrote: »
    morning to any fellow early worm passing by, back up again already and holding my head!!!! wheres the anadin??????? ;-)

    That's only six hours after you left! That's not sleep... :eek:
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  • chevalier
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    HI Pania
    Sorry if this is a bit random, but have a bad cold and so medicated to the gunnels

    Why if he is being a wally would YOU have to move from Norwich. If he is in the wrong he can bloody well move.

    I too can't cope with lies. And to have him tell you that he will keep on doing it, shows to me that he doesn't love you, he holds you in comtempt. It shows that he is aware that his lies hurt you, AND HE DOESN'T CARE THEY DO.

    Personally I would go to your family on your own, having first changed the locks to your pad, and thrown his stuff out onto the street......, but then I am in an evil mood because I am too ill to be with my family tonight, have to wait until tomorrow when I hope I will be better.

    *ding* sound of the alarm going off to remind me to take the next lot of tablets
    chev
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  • have pm'd you...hope you're ok?
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  • lunar
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    Hi pania, i hope you are having a better day, been thinking about you today. Take care, ill be checking back on you.
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  • silence not golden..,are you ok p?
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  • spud30
    spud30 Posts: 16,872 Forumite
    Hope you're OK Pania hun x
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  • pania
    pania Posts: 8,258 Forumite
    Hi there guys, wow, so much love and support after so little time away, thank you to everyone. Had the journey from hell down to Kent this morn, traffic was awful!! OH and I argued all the way and are now playing happy families eep. Still I have my mums loving arms just a room awa and that has been the best therapy in the world. lots of tears and lots of sad faces but, chev I totally agree with the contempt. He never used to be like this. I know he doesn't respect me, he told me so, so why not just leave me be if thats how he feels.
    Hypno, ISOM and lemontree, the offers of places to stay is such a lovely thing to do, That visit to cardiff, blast down the A140 and unlimited tea and sympathy are very firmly on the to do list!!!
    Six hours disrupted sleep is playing havoc with my feelings and I promise a full, updated, war and peace stylee post in the morning. Squirrel, I completely agree re DT in hamlet, lets do it!!!

    Love to all and thanks for being here.
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