New me New start, Pania's positive Progress!

The_Dragon

pania wrote: »

Thanks Delta and Hi Verbatim!!! good to see you guys on here!! My debt at it's highest was £39k eek eek eek and eek!!! Thats nearly a mortgage in itself!! then when i came back on here in June last year it was down to £34ish but had taken forever to get down that low, going back up slightly more times than a yo yo in full flight!!
i can smell the 25k milestone now!! still high but a whole £14k lower than it was!! wahey!!

Wahay indeed Pania! You and Hypno are an inspiration on debt shifting!

pania

ok back down to earth with a bit of a bump.

OH took the day off work as a sickie today and is spending the day being a complete and utter deliberate nasty piece of work. Not as in arguing just making really nasty horrible comments and calling me names.
It is sooo upsetting even though i try to not let it get to me. I've just said to him can't he see that it upsets me to which i was talked over and called names. God roll on may so i can get out of here not so sure how much more of this i can take without snapping which would be completely wrong. Going to have a bath and get out of his way for a while.
Sorry just had to get it out, I was in a really good mood too. balls.

The_Dragon

pania wrote: »

ok back down to earth with a bit of a bump.

OH took the day off work as a sickie today and is spending the day being a complete and utter deliberate nasty piece of work. Not as in arguing just making really nasty horrible comments and calling me names.
It is sooo upsetting even though i try to not let it get to me. I've just said to him can't he see that it upsets me to which i was talked over and called names. God roll on may so i can get out of here not so sure how much more of this i can take without snapping which would be completely wrong. Going to have a bath and get out of his way for a while.
Sorry just had to get it out, I was in a really good mood too. balls.

Can you not chuck him out Pania? I thought you had broken up with him?

pania

in the process of dragon, wish i could sometimes!!! need to do it properly to avoid financial destitution! so just putting up for now until the time is right and we can go our seperate ways. Tiddly pom.

spud30

At least with behaviour like this, it will reinforce the fact that your are making the right decision, wont it Pania

redsquirrel80

spud30 wrote: »

At least with behaviour like this, it will reinforce the fact that your are making the right decision, wont it Pania

Quite! If he doesn't start behaving you could always threaten him with a mob of angry DFWers x

spud30

redsquirrel80 wrote: »

Quite! If he doesn't start behaving you could always threaten him with a mob of angry DFWers x

There would be plenty of willing volunteers

pania

yep it sure will spud and squirrel you can bring the anger anytime!!! ;-)

pania

spud30 wrote: »

There would be plenty of willing volunteers

I'm sure i could "accidentally" leave the door unlocked one night that i am out!!:D

little_miss_troubled

Hi Pania

Read your post and I wanted to wish you good luck for your challenge. U sound so postive and the list that you had made up is everything that I keep telling myself I must to :embarasse however year later Im now paying for it

Good luck :beer: