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Bought a car and seller reported me for theft

jr92897
jr92897 Posts: 8 Forumite
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Hi, so I bought a car recently and paid the seller in freshly withdrawn cash. Lets say it was £2500. I lost a note while counting the money in my car, so I told him to double check the £2480 was all there. He said it was about £150 short so I recounted the money and it most certainly wasn't. He then counted it again and discovered I was only £20 short and so I agreed to bank transfer this to him when I arrived home, which I did. I drove off with my new car and the keys - he's happy, I'm happy. Later, he calls and messages me continuously saying I've only given him £2120 and I owe him £360.

Now I've told him several times that we BOTH counted the money whilst it was on his desk and we AGREED I only owed him £20 (which I did transfer to him, of course). He's now threatening to call the police, and probably will, to report me for theft. He says he didn't count one pile of money whilst I was there and that it was only me who did, but even if that's true surely that's his problem? And it WAS all there. Again, he was happy enough to let me drive off with the car.

Where do I stand? And where does he stand? He signed the log book in front of me but did not give me a receipt, nor did I ask for one (didn't even cross my mind, didn't think I'd need to). He's an older guy, and I don't believe he's counted it incorrectly but he MUST have lost some of the money or something.

Thanks in advance
A bad day living beats a good day dead.
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  • worried_jim
    worried_jim Posts: 11,631 Forumite
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    Call his bluff, he's blagging you. Police won't care as it's a civil matter and you have a reciept for the car, a record of a £20 payment to him and the cash withdrawal record.
  • waamo
    waamo Posts: 10,298 Forumite
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    Did you get a receipt? I can't see the police being interested as this sounds like a civil dispute.
  • jr92897
    jr92897 Posts: 8 Forumite
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    Thanks for the replies. I was thinking it was a civil matter. but wasn't sure. I do not have a receipt though (lesson learned).
    A bad day living beats a good day dead.
  • EssexExile
    EssexExile Posts: 6,506 Forumite
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    Keep any messages on your phone as proof of the disagreement if he accuses you of stealing the car.
    Tall, dark & handsome. Well two out of three ain't bad.
  • tacpot12
    tacpot12 Posts: 9,428 Forumite
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    Not getting a receipt for a car is about the most basic mistake you can mistake. How are you going to prove that you own the car in future? The V5 is only a record of the registered keeper, it proves nothing about ownership.
    The comments I post are my personal opinion. While I try to check everything is correct before posting, I can and do make mistakes, so always try to check official information sources before relying on my posts.
  • jr92897
    jr92897 Posts: 8 Forumite
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    Tacpot: All the messages on my phone between us are pretty solid proof that car now belongs to me. There are millions of car buyers in the UK who've at some point purchased a used car privately, and I have a strong suspicion that a large percentage of those do not have a receipt to prove ownership.
    A bad day living beats a good day dead.
  • Tiexen
    Tiexen Posts: 740 Forumite
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    For anyone selling a car:


    http://www.theaa.com/car-buying/buyers-sellers-contracts


    If you're selling a used car, print two copies of our car seller's contract and complete them in front of the buyer. Each party should sign and keep a copy of this document as proof of sale.

    Car details

    Make ..............................................................


    Model...............................................................


    Registration number...........................................


    Mileage.............................................................

    • Vehicle identification number matches V5C? yes/no
    • Registration Document completed by buyer/seller yes/no
    • Registration Document (V5C) exchanged yes/no
    • Buyer has received V5C/2 (green slip) yes/no

    The undersigned purchaser acknowledges receipt of the above vehicle in exchange for the cash sum of £.........., this being the price agreed by the purchaser with the vendor for the above named vehicle, receipt of which the vendor hereby acknowledges. It is understood the vehicle is sold as seen, tried and approved by the purchaser.


    Purchaser..........................................................


    Vendor..............................................................


    Date.................................................................
  • Socajam
    Socajam Posts: 1,238 Forumite
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    tacpot12 wrote: »
    Not getting a receipt for a car is about the most basic mistake you can mistake. How are you going to prove that you own the car in future? The V5 is only a record of the registered keeper, it proves nothing about ownership.

    The first big mistake was paying cash - a banker's draft is the same as cash - no mistake there.
  • mollycat
    mollycat Posts: 1,475 Forumite
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    jr92897 wrote: »
    Tacpot: All the messages on my phone between us are pretty solid proof that car now belongs to me. There are millions of car buyers in the UK who've at some point purchased a used car privately, and I have a strong suspicion that a large percentage of those do not have a receipt to prove ownership.

    Although you probably wish you did get a reciept, (but I don't expect it's crucial), I suspect the point you make is correct.

    In decades of buying selling cars at the (ahem) "shallow" end of the pool I have hardly ever been asked for a reciept, nor have I ever bothered getting one.

    Not saying what I've done is correct, would respectfully disagree that it is a "schoolboy error". Much more basic mistakes to make than that.
  • reddwarf2002
    reddwarf2002 Posts: 608 Forumite
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    As others have said, it would have been better to pay using a different method.

    There are elderly people out there that are forgetful and make errors and then think maybe the other person has short-changed them.

    Conversely, there are also people out there that will prey on the elderly and their forgetfullness and because they can no longer are able to fend for themselves, which can look exactly like in your scenario too.
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