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Buffy's 30 Month Plan

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  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 95,401 Ambassador
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    Glad that you have booked a weekend away xxx
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  • RosaBernicia
    RosaBernicia Posts: 4,909 Forumite
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    Also glad you have booked some time. Boundary protection sounds like a thing here.


    Rosa xx
    Debt free May 2016... DFW#2 in progress
    Campervan paid off summer '21... MFW progress tbc
  • It is in 89 days time. I can do that.

    Tomorrow I am going to clean my room out. Sod the bloody conservatory.

    XXXX
    Nevertheless she persisted.
  • Absolutely. It’s less than 3 months
    Mortgage at 01.01.14 £119,481.83:eek: today £0 Emergency fund £5.5/5.5k & £200/200 cash.:jWeight 24/02/19 14st 7lb now 12st determined to stop defining myself by my mistakes. Progress not perfection.:T100%through my 1% mortgage challenge. 100% through my pb challenge.
  • Sun_Addict
    Sun_Addict Posts: 23,974 Forumite
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    Fab news on the tax rebate :j

    Glad you've booked yourself a break, something to look forward to.

    Text the crush and say let's have a catch up, treat him to a drink from your rebate. Act now or regret it later :)
    I get knocked down but I get up again (Chumbawamba, Tubthumping)
  • RosaBernicia
    RosaBernicia Posts: 4,909 Forumite
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    89 days is a long time in other ways though. Can you book a day out a month so you have something set every few weeks?


    Yes text the crush :D


    And also yes prioritise the rooms you spend time in - it makes the most of it if you have limited effort to spare, and spending time in the tidier rooms means you feel better and more able to do the rest. For me, anyway - the bedroom and bathroom always get done before anything else.
    Debt free May 2016... DFW#2 in progress
    Campervan paid off summer '21... MFW progress tbc
  • I did the bathroom and attempted to sort the room. I think I am too depressed. I honestly don't care at this point. I don't want to go work tomorrow. I am tired of being there and wish I had given my notice in feb.

    I spoke to, texted the crush. I am doubtful now, I honestly think he views the whole experience so negatively and he made a comment about me being older than him (four years) and that massively bothered me. It is odd, we are definitely in the same place in our lives, wishing we had a house and a long term relationship/kids but something is putting me off.

    Weird.

    Any how, I don't know how to be happy at the moment. I think I just need to get tomorrow over with, I am stressing about work way too much.
    Nevertheless she persisted.
  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 95,401 Ambassador
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    If you are stressing out that much definatly time to make a plan xxx
    I am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.

    Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
    "A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.

    ***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb.
    ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
    One debt remaining. Home improvement loan.
  • RosaBernicia
    RosaBernicia Posts: 4,909 Forumite
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    Yes, that sounds like plan of action needed. A babysteps plan though, with anti-burnout nurturing stops built in.



    Massive eye roll at the age thing... and if your intuition is backing off then fair enough, energy is better spent on finding a better crush :D
    Debt free May 2016... DFW#2 in progress
    Campervan paid off summer '21... MFW progress tbc
  • Definitely like the idea of a new crush! :) XXX
    Nevertheless she persisted.
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