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  • Its mad sounds like a terrorist interrigation more than an interview. I know before we start ed the DMP we spent a fortune (£1,000s) on one CC and no-one batted an eveylid.
    Good luck, I'm sure it will all get sorted.
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  • they may be separate interviews but you can go in together, if anyone tries to stop you ask on what authority and decline the interview till you have legal representation as you feel uncomfortable being alone and interviewed, take a personal voice recorder, if you are cautioned decline the interview till you can have a solicitor present, if they record the interview you have a legal right to a copy.
    They can't go together so the interviewer has the opertunity to trip them up if their stories don't match. That doesn't stop her taking support with her from someone else.
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  • Thank you CG77, Max and Broken Hearted, your support is much appreciated :) BH, especially, thank you. I know and understand your feelings towards BR and I'm touched at your kindness :)

    I'm still more than a little shell-shocked to be honest...... my head is spinning with thinking what did I do wrong (as in wrong 'enough' to warrant a BRO) and maybe I'm suffering with some selective memory loss, but I honestly can't think of anything :confused:
    You can't control everything in life....... your hair was put on your head to remind you of that :p

    Proud to be BSC no. 103
  • Just a thought - Fermi, if you have a moment, maybe this thread would be better tacked onto the end of my diary thread? Keep all my ramblings in one place then ;)

    Thank you :)
    You can't control everything in life....... your hair was put on your head to remind you of that :p

    Proud to be BSC no. 103
  • dalip
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    Lady Scarlett it may not be you. It may be they want/need to determine that you were not involved with any gambling before they decide if Sir potless deserves one.D
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  • Oh Scarlett, just seen this and I'm so sorry for you!

    How awful to be halfway through, thinking everythings ok and bam!
    Keep your chin up girl, it sounds like you're cheering a bit already, I hope everyone on this forum gives you the help and support you need as your diary certainly has helped a lot of others, me included.

    Why on earth would they wait this long?? How stupid!! I'm sure the BRO/BRU line was just pretty standard talk, like at the end of the original OR interview, mine said to me and hubby that they would be in touch if there was any dodgy dealings discovered.

    I took it as normal stuff they have to say like terms and conditions lol, but hubby took it as an underlying threat they would be constantly checking up on us and will definatley be getting in touch with us soon.....

    Maybe I'm the one whos deluded lol....

    I really hope this all gets cleared up soon for you without too much stress for you and your family. Let us know how you get on.

    Molly
    x
  • dalip wrote: »
    Lady Scarlett it may not be you. It may be they want/need to determine that you were not involved with any gambling before they decide if Sir potless deserves one.D

    Loving the "Lady Scarlett"..... I feel like I should be wearing a long flowing dress, a fur trimmed hat and sporting a heaving bosom ;)

    Not sure D...... he said on the phone it was to discuss MY spending in the last 2 years and too see if a BRO was appropriate for ME. He mentioned something about wanting to discuss certain things that had come to light since he'd started his investigations _pale_
    You can't control everything in life....... your hair was put on your head to remind you of that :p

    Proud to be BSC no. 103
  • peachyprice
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    Scarlett, I think it all goes back to Potless gambling, I wonder if they're getting at he was gambling so you were having to use CC's more than you would have?
    Accept your past without regret, handle your present with confidence and face your future without fear
  • MollyBear wrote: »
    Oh Scarlett, just seen this and I'm so sorry for you!

    How awful to be halfway through, thinking everythings ok and bam!
    Keep your chin up girl, it sounds like you're cheering a bit already, I hope everyone on this forum gives you the help and support you need as your diary certainly has helped a lot of others, me included.

    Why on earth would they wait this long?? How stupid!! I'm sure the BRO/BRU line was just pretty standard talk, like at the end of the original OR interview, mine said to me and hubby that they would be in touch if there was any dodgy dealings discovered.

    I took it as normal stuff they have to say like terms and conditions lol, but hubby took it as an underlying threat they would be constantly checking up on us and will definatley be getting in touch with us soon.....

    Maybe I'm the one whos deluded lol....

    I really hope this all gets cleared up soon for you without too much stress for you and your family. Let us know how you get on.

    Molly
    x

    Ah thanks Molly. Just been reading your thread about your interview and IPA :eek: You're going through the mill a bit there aren't you? Really hope it all gets sorted for you too and thanks for taking the time to support me here, when you've got enough problems of your own :)
    You can't control everything in life....... your hair was put on your head to remind you of that :p

    Proud to be BSC no. 103
  • Loving the "Lady Scarlett"..... I feel like I should be wearing a long flowing dress, a fur trimmed hat and sporting a heaving bosom ;)

    Not sure D...... he said on the phone it was to discuss MY spending in the last 2 years and too see if a BRO was appropriate for ME. He mentioned something about wanting to discuss certain things that had come to light since he'd started his investigations _pale_

    Which may be easy for you to explain once he asks, just cos they think there is something, doesnt mean there is;)

    And Peachy may have a point maybe they think some where to support Pottless,s gambling, so may be disapointed once you explain
    Thats it, i am done, Blind-as-a-Bat has left the forum, for good this time, there is no way I can recover this account, as the password was random, and not recorded, and the email used no longer exits, nor can be recovered to recover the account, goodbye all …………. :(
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