Your biggest regret

SandraX

I have two on equal footing.
1. Looking at my ex-husbands' phone. (Saw my husbands messages, sexy/flirty ones, got me suspicious, dug and dug deeper and found out my he was deceiving me and he then left me - so regretted looking at his mobile)

2. Sharing a secret with a friend/work bout my one mistake ie a criminal record, ie assault.
(I was provoked by my sisters' ex so I slapped him and he called the police) My pretend friend
shared this secret with another, they told personnel and I lost my job as a cleaner in a hospital for not disclosing the truth.

What regret/s do you have?

74jax

1 - surely your regret is marrying him? not finding out?




I don't think i have any..... certainly can't be that big as they don't come to mind.

Comms69

I'm guessing the assault was whilst you were working at the hospital - the rules about disclosure are quite strict.


In any case - my biggest regret. Trying to fix a relationship for 8 years, which to be honest clearly didn't work after the 3 year mark.

candygirl

Not listening to my Mum !!! She really did know best:rotfl: :rotfl:

stormbreaker

candygirl wrote: »

Not listening to my Mum !!! She really did know best:rotfl: :rotfl:

Listening to my Mum too much! I would have had a completely different life if I had not

ManofLeisure_2

No regrets because I don't believe in ''looking back''. Always felt it's more important to ''keep looking ahead''.

moneyistooshorttomention

Probably mine boils down to - having been far too naive for my own good for far too long.

I could probably have done with having a hefty dose of cynicism about things way sooner than I did....:cool:

So these days it's "majoring on doing the best I can in available circumstances" (yep....I've been called a survivor more than once....which I take as a compliment) whilst still maintaining a watching brief so to say for any chances that come along to move my life in a more "ideal for me" direction.

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Being an introvert and too shy in my teens to the point that I don't have any non-work friends in my 20s

comeandgo

Not playing more with my children when they were little.

Pollycat

Sunny_Intervals wrote: »

1) Wasn't it better to know than to continue being deceived?


2) Your "friend" did the right thing. The mistake was assaulting someone and lying about it.

I can't argue with this ^^^^.


The OP's 2nd regret shouldn't be about sharing a secret but about lying to HR.


Two can keep a secret if one of them is dead.

suejb2

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