Check history of teenager's MSN activity and conversations how?

Dumbledore55

DFC

I don't take your comment as a criticism but I don't think I said at any point that he wanted to tell me. I think he was very relieved that I found out and dealt with it with him because I'm not sure he actually knew himself what to do.

He had been caught up in the moment thinking he was getting attention from a girl and it was only after the event that it struck him it could have been a man or 'friends' playing a joke on him or anything. Then, natuarally, there was the embarrassment factor preventing him from telling me.

He has no idea I can monitor all his conversations, I've told him that I've set up the computer to alert me to anything out of the ordinary.

If it had been a 'real girl' I'd have dealt with it differently.

Tao - good luck with whatever you decide. its a fine line between invading privacy and protecting your children, but only you know what's best for your daughter.