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Estate Agent Refusing to Show us Property because we are not in a position to proceed

WeB
WeB Posts: 71 Forumite
edited 19 October 2018 at 2:55PM in House buying, renting & selling
We saw a property we are really excited about today. So I called the estate agent to request a viewing. She was very friendly right up to the point where she viewed our file and realised we would need to sell our property first.

At that point, she basically said she would not be able to show us the property, as the owners had requested for it not to be shown to people who couldn't proceed. I was quite surprised by this and when I asked for more information (as I had not heard about this being done before), she said that with winter around the door a lot of owners had requested to only show their property to people who didn't have to sell first, in an attempt to stop visits that didn't go anywhere and time being wasted.

This seems really odd to me. Especially as here by the sea side winter is a very difficult time to sell. Even when I argued that we wouldn't need a mortgage when we sold our house to buy the new house, so wouldn't budge.

Is this a common thing and am I just getting upset about nothing? I obviously can't guarantee that if we were to see the house that we would buy it, but not showing us seems like shooting yourself in the foot. :mad:

EDIT: As has been pointed out to me, it is the owners refusing this, not the EA. I can't change this anymore, but I stand corrected.
EDIT2: It's clear that this is a common thing, which answers my main question and concern.
EDIT3: I understand that it is the seller's choice, that is fine. :)
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  • davidmcn
    davidmcn Posts: 23,596 Forumite
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    WeB wrote: »
    here by the sea side winter is a very difficult time to sell
    So, doesn't that apply to your house too?
  • eddddy
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    WeB wrote: »
    I obviously can't guarantee that if we were to see the house that we would buy it, but not showing us seems like shooting yourself in the foot. :mad:

    Realistically, if the current owners of the house want to 'shoot themselves in the foot', you cannot stop them.

    Maybe as it's a seaside location, the locals get lots of 'dreamers' viewing, who like the idea of moving to the seaside etc, but never really act on it.


    Obviously the EA wants a sale to earn their commission, so it's unlikely to be them who's putting up unnecessary barriers.
  • hb2
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    It is up to the vendor, if they only want people who have sold to be shown the property that is their choice.
    It's not difficult!
    'Wander' - to walk or move in a leisurely manner.
    'Wonder' - to feel curious.
  • WeB
    WeB Posts: 71 Forumite
    davidmcn wrote: »
    So, doesn't that apply to your house too?
    Absolutely, which is why I wouldn't exclude anyone who might be interested in purchasing it.
  • WeB
    WeB Posts: 71 Forumite
    eddddy wrote: »
    Realistically, if the current owners of the house want to 'shoot themselves in the foot', you cannot stop them.
    Get that. It's just odd.
    eddddy wrote: »
    Maybe as it's a seaside location, the locals get lots of 'dreamers' viewing, who like the idea of moving to the seaside etc, but never really act on it.
    Considering we live down the road and want to upgrade, it's less relevant, but still possible.
  • ReadingTim
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    WeB wrote: »
    Is this a common thing and am I just getting upset about nothing? I obviously can't guarantee that if we were to see the house that we would buy it, but not showing us seems like shooting yourself in the foot. :mad:

    Maybe. But it's their foot, their house, and so their rules. Like it or lump it.
  • lincroft1710
    lincroft1710 Posts: 19,088 Forumite
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    If there is a Rightmove or Zoopla listing or brochure with floorplan and informative photos, that should give you an idea if it definitely is the house for you.
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  • Surrey_EA
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    [STRIKE]Estate Agent[/STRIKE] Property owner refusing to show us their property because we are not in a position to proceed
  • WeB
    WeB Posts: 71 Forumite
    If there is a Rightmove or Zoopla listing or brochure with floorplan and informative photos, that should give you an idea if it definitely is the house for you.
    There is, which is why we think it would work for us. But I'm not going to move ahead without seeing it.

    I guess I should reconsider putting ours on the market first. I'm just nervous that ours will sell before we've found something better. Not sure how the EA would feel at that point, with them having found me a buyer and me unwilling to sell until I've found a new place. And that's not me being fastidious, it's a serious concern I have.
  • saajan_12
    saajan_12 Posts: 5,295 Forumite
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    WeB wrote: »
    a lot of owners had requested to only show their property to people who didn't have to sell first, in an attempt to stop visits that didn't go anywhere and time being wasted.
    ..
    but not showing us seems like shooting yourself in the foot. :mad:
    By your definitions of a shot, yes. To them, their time could be more precious than a quick sale. People have different priorities.
    WeB wrote: »
    Especially as here by the sea side winter is a very difficult time to sell. Even when I argued that we wouldn't need a mortgage when we sold our house to buy the new house, so wouldn't budge.

    So yours would also be hard to sell.. if you do find a buyer then they could need a mortgage, meaning as a chain, everyone still needs to wait for a mortgage application to go through, potential for that to be declined etc.
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