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DMP mutual support thread part 13 !!
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Suseka97 said:April22 said:Hi Everyone
After years of thinking I could cope, experiencing multiple bereavements, and unfortunate health issues, I finally came to the realisation I needed help.
I have £104k of unsecured debt spread across credit cards and loans with; Shawbrook, Nationwide, AMEX, MBNA, Tesco, and Virgin.Just openly writing this and being honest is a huge step for me.
I completed Step Change’s DMP forms yesterday - and today the plan has been set up to start on May 1st at £900 a month for the next 9.8 yrs.
I didn’t default and up until now have never missed a payment (I know you will tell me that was wrong because you want to get defaults but it’s how I’ve done things)
I have read a lot of comments on here, and step change said the same to me - that it is what I can afford and not what creditors want me to pay - but I just wondered how long before people heard if their plan was ‘accepted’ by the creditor. I felt a sense of relief knowing I put the forms in, but still not at peace until I know this…
And do they usually tell Step Change or myself?As I spend the next decade on this journey(!) I hope to share with this forum.The good and the bad…Thank you and nice to e-meet you all
April x
Now, as you've already pointed out - most of us would have advised you to hold out for those defaults but, ultimately, it's up to you if you want to jump straight in and see how things work out. Hopefully your creditors will play ball and you'll get those defaults, because that ensures interest and charges stop (with a side benefit that the 6 year clock, to repair your credit file, starts ticking).
As to the question of how long it takes to hear back from creditors as to whether they've accepted the DMP offer - well, some will do so quickly, others may not - but whether they do or don't is irrelevant. SC will simply send the proposed payment, even if they outright reject it. You may hear from them direct, or you may hear nothing at all - every creditor is different.
All you need to do is trust the process and let matters take their course and do pop back again if you need any further help along the way.
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Morning all
I have been on a DMP with StepChange for 12 months and I'm interested about switching to a self managed DMP. What is the best way of starting this? Contacting StepChange to cancel the DMP and then contacting my debtors with an offer of payment? or do I keep to same amount that SC were paying?
5 of my debts have defaulted whilst on the DMP, 3 have not (Admiral, Very and Updraft). Before I started the DMP I didn't pay any of my debts for 5-6 months so I could start my DMP with a few defaults at least. Shall I stop paying these three until they default me? Should I ask them to stop the interest?
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10a05 said:Morning all
I have been on a DMP with StepChange for 12 months and I'm interested about switching to a self managed DMP. What is the best way of starting this? Contacting StepChange to cancel the DMP and then contacting my debtors with an offer of payment? or do I keep to same amount that SC were paying?10a05 said:5 of my debts have defaulted whilst on the DMP, 3 have not (Admiral, Very and Updraft). Before I started the DMP I didn't pay any of my debts for 5-6 months so I could start my DMP with a few defaults at least. Shall I stop paying these three until they default me? Should I ask them to stop the interest?1 -
Suseka97 said:10a05 said:Morning all
I have been on a DMP with StepChange for 12 months and I'm interested about switching to a self managed DMP. What is the best way of starting this? Contacting StepChange to cancel the DMP and then contacting my debtors with an offer of payment? or do I keep to same amount that SC were paying?10a05 said:5 of my debts have defaulted whilst on the DMP, 3 have not (Admiral, Very and Updraft). Before I started the DMP I didn't pay any of my debts for 5-6 months so I could start my DMP with a few defaults at least. Shall I stop paying these three until they default me? Should I ask them to stop the interest?
I'll raise a formal complaint. Should they backtrack the interest accrued over the last 12 months? Should I stop making payments to these three in the hope they then default me?
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Paid off my DMP with the help of family. The debt was about 11k. Interestingly enough, they asked why I hadn't just asked to pause/lower the household contributions I was making (was living at home)?
I called Stepchange to ask what their advice would have been had I gone to them for guidance on whether a DMP was appropriate. They said the same thing: if a large chunk of my income went to household contributions when living with parents, ask them if its possible to reduce that.
I then called the company that advised me to get a DMP, and they said they can't give advice on my expenses.
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Fellalis89 said:Hello all,
I wondered if I could seek some guidance on my SOA below and what to do regarding my next steps. I will be starting a new job as of next week, so wages are an estimate using MSE tool. Due to this my true payday payment won't be reflected until 25.05.22.
Petrol is an overestimate with contingency built-in due to current inflation rates. Hopefully, it isn't this high but I'd roughly guess I would need a full tank per week which is around £70-£80 per week (depending on which petrol station I go to) and I have to include there are five weeks in some months so building the safety net in this pot seems needed. This is because my new job is 1.5 hours away and I will be travelling 3 times per week, plus driving around as normal. I could be wrong but I'd hate to under budget and struggle getting to work.
Any advice and guidance would be much appreciated!! TIA xStatement of Affairs & Personal Balance Sheet
Summary
Monthly Budget Summary Amount(£)
Total monthly income 2,043 (estimate of new income as of 25.05.22)
Monthly expenses (incl. HP & secured loans) 1,568.19
Available for debt repayments 474.81
UNsecured debt repayments 856.04
Amount short for making debt repayments -381.23
Personal Balance Sheet Summary Amount(£)
Total Assets (things you own) 127,000
Total Secured & HP Debt -77,729
Total Unsecured Debt -27,355
Net Assets 21,916
Household Information
Number of adults in household 1
Number of children in household 0
Number of cars owned 1
(3)Income, Expense, Debt & Asset Details
Income Amount(£)
Monthly income after tax 2043
Partners monthly income 0
Benefits 0
Other income 0
Total monthly income 2043
Expenses Amount(£)
Mortgage 290
Secured/HP loan payments 0
Rent 0
Management charge (leasehold property) 0
Council tax 96
Electricity 68.5
Gas 68.5
Oil 0
Water Rates 28.78
Telephone (land line) 0
Mobile phone 10
TV Licence 13.37
Satellite/Cable TV 36.3
Internet services 0
Groceries etc. 160 (dog food and household products included)
Clothing 40
Petrol/diesel 400 (estimate)
Road tax 2.5
Car Insurance 36
Car maintenance (including MOT) 45
Car Parking 0
Other travel 0
Childcare/nursery 0
Other child related expenses 0
Medical (prescriptions, dentists, opticians etc.) 0
Pet Insurance/Vet bills 14.25
Buildings Insurance 4.5
Contents Insurance 4.5
Life Assurance 0
Other Insurance 0
Presents (birthday, christmas etc.) 16
Haircuts 10
Entertainment 80
Holiday 20
Emergency Fund 60
(Unnamed monthly expense) 0
Account Fee 17 (to be cancelled, replace with breakdown cover)
Amazon 7.99
Gym 39 (ends July 22)
Total monthly expenses 1568.19
Secured & HP Debt Description Debt(£) Monthly(£) APR(%)
Mortgage 77729 (290) 4.24
Secured & HP Debt totals 77729 - -
Unsecured Debt Description Debt(£) Monthly(£) APR(%)
Admiral Loan 9479 322 13.09
Lloyds Loan 2710 153 22.3
MBNA Card 4572 50 20.93
Car Finance 6467 141 7.9
DWP 139 10 0
Sofa Finance 255 42.52 0
Virgin Card 2933 87.52 23.29
Capital One Card 800 50 0
Unsecured Debt totals 27355 856.04 -
Asset Description Value (£)
Cash 0
House Value (Gross) 120000
Shares and bonds 0
Car(s) 7000
Other assets (e.g. endowments, jewellery etc) 0
Total Assets 127000
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10a05 said:Suseka97 said:10a05 said:Morning all
I have been on a DMP with StepChange for 12 months and I'm interested about switching to a self managed DMP. What is the best way of starting this? Contacting StepChange to cancel the DMP and then contacting my debtors with an offer of payment? or do I keep to same amount that SC were paying?10a05 said:5 of my debts have defaulted whilst on the DMP, 3 have not (Admiral, Very and Updraft). Before I started the DMP I didn't pay any of my debts for 5-6 months so I could start my DMP with a few defaults at least. Shall I stop paying these three until they default me? Should I ask them to stop the interest?
I'll raise a formal complaint. Should they backtrack the interest accrued over the last 12 months? Should I stop making payments to these three in the hope they then default me?
I had to push for a number of defaults and was mostly successful, not always getting it backdated to to within that 3-6 timeframe it's fair to say - but sooner than originally applied. Several months, if not a year, later I recall getting two letters relating to some Barclaycard accounts in which they said that having reviewed their records they found they had not treated me fairly and they refunded me the additional interest and charges that had accrued, along with compensation. This came totally out of the blue, I had not raised an issue, nor had I complained. Go figure!
Anyway, I would definitely stop making payments to those that are refusing to default - to see if you can force their hand.0 -
natlie said:Hi,
I’m 2 years into DMP now and I had a from MBN* this week who had transferred my account to Westcott saying they’d made a mistake last year when they defaulted me as I had continued to make payments and that as a gesture of goodwill they have deleted the default and cleared my £4100 balance. Anyone heard of this before, I can’t believe it!!!!
thanks
Nat
StepChange told me that they had heard of a number of clients getting the same letters recently too.
Debt Feb 21 - £51,388.81 May 25 £22,743.91 55.74% paid off
HSBC Loan £14,106.85
Link Financial £6,898.17
Tesco CC £901.19
PRA £837.70
NCO Paid!!
Next Paid!!
Klarna Paid!!1 -
Morning 😊
I know I am getting ahead thinking of moving house when I’m just starting my DMP journey! But I want to understand how things will work as it’s very important to me to be able to move house in say 6-7 years.If all my accounts have dropped off my credit file by then, but I still am in the DMP, will I have to include all the debts? And will it just be that they will be taken into the affordability calculation? Or is there a way round it? Thanks0 -
Hi Guys
I just thought I’d post an update.
It’s been 2 weeks since I entered my DMP - 2 out of 6 companies have accepted the payment offer, and 4 have ‘acknowledged it’
(step change said that’s just them saying it’s not the minimum payment so they won’t ‘accept’ it - although I’m not paying the minimum on the 2 that did accept it)
I think this is good news.I must say I feel a huge weight lifted between the DMP and the support from the lovely people in this group. I have heard this so many times and thought it was made up - but I can honestly say I’ve been sleeping so much better this past week. I’ve also been honest and told my family I’m entering into this plan. They didn’t react the way I dreamt up that they would - they have been so supportive.
I can finally see a light at the end of a long tunnel
April x2
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