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Can we stop employees from having direct contact?

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  • BorisThomson
    BorisThomson Posts: 1,721 Forumite
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    I think you're massively reading into this.

    The STAFF may be asking for a discriminatory reason, but the manager is not. he is asking because it is annoying his staff.

    really they need to block her though.

    The employer has a duty to protect an employee from discrimination. In this case they have actively supported the workers that are discriminating against the female worker. They are vicariously liable.
  • BorisThomson
    BorisThomson Posts: 1,721 Forumite
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    Are you now going to take proper legal advice OP?
  • I have already put it in writing to her over email. I!!!8217;m going to have to speak to her about now and follow up I think, I can!!!8217;t let this fester over the weekend.

    Her and one of the guys were getting on a bit too well for a while if you know what I mean? My best guess is that his wife has put her foot down and that is why he has brought it to me. Maybe he doesn!!!8217;t want to say that that!!!8217;s what happened.
  • Just emailed the HR company now that put our policies together.
  • fairy_lights
    fairy_lights Posts: 9,220 Forumite
    Her and one of the guys were getting on a bit too well for a while if you know what I mean? My best guess is that his wife has put her foot down and that is why he has brought it to me.
    Holy crap. So her male colleagues accepted her as a contact/friend whatever on social media, sent a few friendly messages, until one of her male co-workers wives got funny about it. And now she's been accused of inappropriate contact and a blanket ban on her communicating with her colleagues has been put in place? Sounds like a bit of a witch hunt.
  • BorisThomson
    BorisThomson Posts: 1,721 Forumite
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    I have already put it in writing to her over email. I!!!8217;m going to have to speak to her about now and follow up I think, I can!!!8217;t let this fester over the weekend.

    Her and one of the guys were getting on a bit too well for a while if you know what I mean? My best guess is that his wife has put her foot down and that is why he has brought it to me. Maybe he doesn!!!8217;t want to say that that!!!8217;s what happened.

    In what was the man sanctioned for his part in this? You've taken punitive action against the woman because of a mutual relationship.

    Please don't say anything more to any employee until you have advice. If that means leaving it until Monday, then so be it. Don't make it any worse.
  • suki1964
    suki1964 Posts: 14,313 Forumite
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    Surely this should never have become a management issue unless it was using works systems

    Surely the person at fault here is the male colleague who shared his private social media address with her
  • They!!!8217;re a great bunch of lads. Apparently the his wife does think there!!!8217;s something going on with the girl at work. I have walked into a domestic
  • fairy_lights
    fairy_lights Posts: 9,220 Forumite
    They're a great bunch of lads.
    Messaging other women in a way that makes their wives uncomfortable and then blaming the woman? Yeah, great bunch of lads.
  • They have work mobile phones but they!!!8217;re allowed to use them for personal use, it!!!8217;s an unlimited contract so we just cover the bill every month for each of them.
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