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Domestic abuse - Need to end tenancy early?

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  • ...apparently moving in with his mum and dad isn’t an option any more.

    He never intended to leave at all. You called his bluff and now you know that he is a liar. Hold that thought in your mind when you next communicate with him - he's not going to tell you the truth.

    I know it's not much help but here is a virtual hug for you (HUG).
    "The problem with Internet quotes is that you can't always depend on their accuracy" - Abraham Lincoln, 1864
  • OP - I’m so sorry you’re going through this.

    There is help available. Do you feel up to disclosing what’s happening to someone? If you do - tell them. It doesn’t have to be the police, it could be your GP or your midwife. They can put you in touch with people who can help keep your safe whether you decide to stay or go home. They can put you in touch with a specialist advocate who might be able to help you with your accommodation.

    If you’re not up for that, there’s a helpful forum on the Women’s Aid website, there’s lots of women on there who’ve come out the other end who can give you advice. It’s not going to be easy and there may be some costs to pay but it is possible to get out, if you want to.
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