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Very comprehensive budget! I'm so jealous of your mortgage payment, ours is £1650pm!
Do you find the dental insurance worth it? Seems expensive, but I guess it depends what you get done. We're with an NHS dentist and it costs us £72 a year for the family.
Likewise, I'd twitch at paying a cleaner, but I'm guessing you've decided the money/time equation works. Tbh if I had your monthly surplus, I'd probably get one tooDFD March 2025 (£35000 paid off)
FFEF £10000/20000 saved4 -
Hi Grogged and Ohsh...
Thanks for the positive comments on my art, books etc.
On the dental side - I have bad teeth so find it worth it. DH is not much better than me. Before I used to balk at paying for a crown etc and would instead end up losing a tooth - and ended up with partial early dentures!! So having dental insurance is a must now.
Our mortgage is only so low as it has no forced repayment element to it. It needs paying by August 2031 though so once we're CC debt free we have to 'fix' that. Given our mortgage rate is so low 1.05% - it makes more sense to invest the money I think - particularly if we could get the returns that some do of 7% or more per year - and then the compounding effect of that. Not that such returns are guaranteed but the general direction is up.
Our cleaner is a God-send. None of us possess the tidy gene - and at times things get bad enough I think we could qualify for P1P as we need help. She cleans and tidies - and during this period offers some social time too. She comes 3.5 hours per week. I would love her to come twice a week (or every day....)
My long term goal is to find a way of replacing working full time at our day job with alternative income streams including passive income, pensions etc. I might see what £ there is in notecard / postcard book printing too as I could create some series from the artwork I've done in the last year. I bought a tripod in the summer to use for taking photos of my art but haven't got around to using it yet. I think our increasingly digital world offers a lot of opportunities. I could also create 'downloadable prints' to sell on 3tsy.
I've kept £100 of my xmas £ to one side with a view to buying podcasting equipment - but am going to make myself wait and trial's DH's work stuff first. You can pay anything from £40 to multiple hundreds and up and I don't want to invest and then have my interest fizzle. DS is interested in doing some podcasts too. I'm considering doing some motivational videos. You can join subscription services - which include a range of video shorts to choose from which you can splice together - so considering something like that. I also have a pool of poetry I've written that is gathering 'metaphorical' dust. It's not normally a huge money earner - but teamed with pretty cards/artwork some of it could sell. I plan to explore that too - but I am most interested in print as you go type services and ones that do drop shipping as I tend to be too disorganised/disinterested to do parcels etc.
I feel like I broke through a huge barrier finally putting my book up for sale (regardless of what I earn from it). I'm hoping to capitalise on that momentum while it is still there. Traditionally we have given stuff away rather than sold - and while there is merit in that there needs to be balance too.Achieve FIRE/Mortgage Neutrality in 2030
1) MFW Nov 21 £202K now £174.8K Equity 32.77%
2) £1.6K Net savings after CCs 14/8/25
3) Mortgage neutral by 06/30 (AVC £25.3K + Lump Sums DB £4.6K + (25% of SIPP 1.2K) = 31.1/£127.5K target 24.4% 15/8/25
4) FI Age 60 income target £16.5/30K 55.1%
5) SIPP £4.8K updated 29/7/258 -
I vote for your art as a source of passive income.
Your detailed budget illustrates how far I have to go in creating a working budget. I need to decrease my food budget and increase my clothes/shoes/bags budget to a more realistic sum!If you have built castles in the air, your work should not be lost; that is where they should be. Now put the foundations under them
Emergency fund 800/1000
Buffer fund 0/100
Debt Free (again) 25/0720253 -
Thanks DIA. When I first joined MSE - I posted up our budget on the DFW board - which helped me know which areas I needed to tackle. When I first joined - I spent over £100pcm on clothes etc... When we first were in debt - we cut our personal spends to closer to £30 then upped it to £50 and a year or so ago £100 each. I don't normally have the surplus I should - so putting it up here is kind of a promise to myself that I will do it. I told DH yesterday how much I was hoping to pay off this month - and he suggested I set an easier target. But TBH I've found - as long as he has his £100 spends, occasional clothing £ (I used to spend his on me LOL), Nflx or similar and the odd takeaway he's happy. DD was fine with me doing a tight budget as long as Chinese takeaway was still in it once a month... I've offered to knock £5 off DD's debt if she cleans and tidies lounge... She said she would but hasn't yet. I want to try and burn away the debt as quick as we can and just get it over with while I am still motivated.
I've just set up my author page on Am*** & G00dr**ds. Getting there slowly.Achieve FIRE/Mortgage Neutrality in 2030
1) MFW Nov 21 £202K now £174.8K Equity 32.77%
2) £1.6K Net savings after CCs 14/8/25
3) Mortgage neutral by 06/30 (AVC £25.3K + Lump Sums DB £4.6K + (25% of SIPP 1.2K) = 31.1/£127.5K target 24.4% 15/8/25
4) FI Age 60 income target £16.5/30K 55.1%
5) SIPP £4.8K updated 29/7/258 -
£5 for the tidying is a decent deal for your DD. My kids were terrible around the house - rarely tidied up after themselves and seemed to have a serious allergy to the dishwasher.
its great to read your latest posts - so positive and energised. I think the break from work has worked wonders for you.Are you back to work on Monday? I am 😕. I need to get my bedtime and getting up time adjusted back to office regime 😱5 -
Happy New year.
Well done on getting your book published it must feel incredible. Sounds like you have some good motivation atm. Lots of luck with clearing your debt and your new income streams, just imagine where you could be this time next year.Mortgage Aug 2019 161,000 :eek::eek::eek:Nov 2019 156,500:T Jan 2020 153,122:T, Apr 2020 149,500, Apr2021 139, 675, Oct 2021 136,823, Dec 2021 136,120🙂EF 0/12,000 (0%)😕 (5062.44 was ERC), Jan 2023 128,650. Our Mortgage is never going to be as high as it is today. :jOnwards and downwards to a better life for our family. :jJust keep swimming4 -
Zero budgeting is good and how I've run my finances since moving, causes others to sweat when they see £20 to last 3 weeks!
Do you use a full box of hair dye each time? It's another thing I stretch out and only use half a box.
You've many ways of creating a passive income and the more you can get on the go, the lower the risk if one isn't generating enough for a period of time.Mortgage started 2020, aiming to clear 31/12/2029.4 -
Blackcats said:£5 for the tidying is a decent deal for your DD. My kids were terrible around the house - rarely tidied up after themselves and seemed to have a serious allergy to the dishwasher.
its great to read your latest posts - so positive and energised. I think the break from work has worked wonders for you.Are you back to work on Monday? I am 😕. I need to get my bedtime and getting up time adjusted back to office regime 😱longway2go said:Happy New year.
Well done on getting your book published it must feel incredible. Sounds like you have some good motivation atm. Lots of luck with clearing your debt and your new income streams, just imagine where you could be this time next year.MovingForwards said:Zero budgeting is good and how I've run my finances since moving, causes others to sweat when they see £20 to last 3 weeks!
Do you use a full box of hair dye each time? It's another thing I stretch out and only use half a box.
You've many ways of creating a passive income and the more you can get on the go, the lower the risk if one isn't generating enough for a period of time.
It never occurred to me not to use the whole box - plus DD says my hair is so thick it needs the lot.
I agree spreading the risk would be good.Achieve FIRE/Mortgage Neutrality in 2030
1) MFW Nov 21 £202K now £174.8K Equity 32.77%
2) £1.6K Net savings after CCs 14/8/25
3) Mortgage neutral by 06/30 (AVC £25.3K + Lump Sums DB £4.6K + (25% of SIPP 1.2K) = 31.1/£127.5K target 24.4% 15/8/25
4) FI Age 60 income target £16.5/30K 55.1%
5) SIPP £4.8K updated 29/7/256 -
My budgeting works because it's just the two of us and we always have food in.
Until my haircut months ago my hair was down my back and had I not randomly cut a few inches off I would have been sitting on it. I still only used half a box doing it myself. Give it a try one time, what's the worst that can happen? A few grey's not covered, a lowlights effect.
Mortgage started 2020, aiming to clear 31/12/2029.4 -
Your posts are always thought provoking - thank you.
I'm hoping to finish the book today"Good financial planning is about not spending money on things that add no value to your life in order to have more money for the things that do". Eoin McGee3
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