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Thanks MF.
Just paid just over £200 to target CC which takes it down to £7.6K.
DD was desperate to declutter - so I set her on the coat cupboard. She's found me 2 pairs of good sandals, 1 pair of stretchy trainer/sandal shoes which are good for me now. I have agreed to part with a few things so she is pleased with me LOL. DS has just put the emptied 'bookcase' / shoe rack that was in there - and then declutter the remaining shoe rack in the hall. I've asked her to try and sell some boots, a pair of barely worn trainers and brand new unworn sandals for me. Will let you know how we get on.Achieve FIRE/Mortgage Neutrality in 2030
1) MFW Nov 21 £202K now £174.8K Equity 32.77%
2) £1.6K Net savings after CCs 14/8/25
3) Mortgage neutral by 06/30 (AVC £25.3K + Lump Sums DB £4.6K + (25% of SIPP 1.2K) = 31.1/£127.5K target 24.4% 15/8/25
4) FI Age 60 income target £16.5/30K 55.1%
5) SIPP £4.8K updated 29/7/253 -
I did have my suspicions it would not be easy to transfer that pension albeit with a large CETV. I, like Tahlullah gave up on trying to transfer mine although it had a much lower CETV and I just claimed it this year. I am not sure why it would be easier to transfer at 55 any more than 50 though. I was under the impression the reason the pension transfer specialists advise against transferring a DB pension is because of the security you are given up by moving it to a DC scheme and potentially withdrawing it all. I was not aware that age of transfer application made any difference to the material reasons why pension transfer specialists advise against moving to a SIPP.
Why do you need extra life insurance? Do you not have death benefits as part of your current pension? Surely at your age that will now be fairly expensive?
You have 5 years though to get rid of the debt, overpay the mortgage and build up some savings so you are in a good position coming up to retirement. You may also be in a position to move to somewhere further out then as presumably your DD will be living independently or almost by that time.I’m a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on the Debt free Wannabe, Budgeting and Banking and Savings and Investment boards. If you need any help on these boards, do let me know. Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any posts you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button, or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own and not the official line of MoneySavingExpert.
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Thanks ES - I've been told by most pension transfer specialists that if I was trying to take it to use immediately - that I would have less of an issue drawing it at 55 - than transferring it now and risking the market collapsing between now and 55 - and then being unable to retire early. The thinking is that as soon as you take your 25% TFLS - you have mitigated your risk somewhat. Some of them also think my transfer value will continue to rise - so they say why take the risk or the costs of administering the fund yourself.
The thinking behind the life insurance element - is that if part of the reason I want to transfer the money is to ensure that DH has decent retirement benefits even if I die - that it would be a better decision to buy life insurance to cover that risk. Their argument is we have sufficient disposable income to buy extra life insurance without putting my guaranteed pension at risk. I would also be seen as lower risk if we had a decent EF and were less reliant on the pension. Similarly if DH's pension and my other pension was greater... so we are less reliant on the DB pension I am trying to transfer - so that if something went wrong we wouldn't end up destitute and trying to sue. We both have great life insurance in our current roles - but if we left those roles and didn't take up traditional jobs our life insurance coverage would drop dramatically. Outside our jobs we have about £133-170K of life insurance. It probably would be logical to at least get some quotes done.
To be recommended for transfer you have to meet certain tests - the first of which is to satisfactorily answer the question: Why now?. Acceptable reasons include terminal illness or potential insolvency of the pension provider. At 55 the range of answers expand to include flexibility in drawdown, inheritance etc... HTH. I am annoyed that they don't make it more explicit that the so called freedoms aren't really accessible below age 55. I could then have saved myself a lot of heartache and hassle. As it is I just have to hope that they offer something as or more generous by the time I can act upon it.
So we will continue with our current plan - try to keep our jobs - and pay off debt by Jan 21. Then save up a 6 month EF by July 21. Then we can look at whether we are ready to move in practice once DD completes 6th form and the current pandemic settles down (assuming it does). I don't want us to get to the end of our lives feeling like we lived someone else's idea of what our lives should be. The £ from our jobs is great but we both want to move and have a more rural lifestyle. As MF said earlier we can use the time between now and then to spruce up our home, hopefully add value and make it more saleable.Achieve FIRE/Mortgage Neutrality in 2030
1) MFW Nov 21 £202K now £174.8K Equity 32.77%
2) £1.6K Net savings after CCs 14/8/25
3) Mortgage neutral by 06/30 (AVC £25.3K + Lump Sums DB £4.6K + (25% of SIPP 1.2K) = 31.1/£127.5K target 24.4% 15/8/25
4) FI Age 60 income target £16.5/30K 55.1%
5) SIPP £4.8K updated 29/7/255 -
my my cleaning service starts back on Tuesday. Part of my believes it’s wrong to feel this excitedMortgage at 01.01.14 £119,481.83:eek: today £0 Emergency fund £5.5/5.5k & £200/200 cash.:jWeight 24/02/19 14st 7lb now 12st determined to stop defining myself by my mistakes. Progress not perfection.:T100%through my 1% mortgage challenge. 100% through my pb challenge.5
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I'm loving the positivity of your diary and that was a great list of things to be thankful for.
Sorry to hear about the pension transfer, hopefully you'll be able to get a better deal in the future when the time comes. Good luck with your plans, and how exciting to be debt free by the beginning of next year!"Good financial planning is about not spending money on things that add no value to your life in order to have more money for the things that do". Eoin McGee4 -
Just catching up on your diary. Well done to your DS on his impressive degree grade and earnings through lockdown to date.paydbx2025 #26 £890/£5000 . Mortgage start £148k June 23 - now £138k.
2025 savings challenge £0/£2000 EF £140. Savings 2 £30.00. 174 -
in_need_of_direction said:my my cleaning service starts back on Tuesday. Part of my believes it’s wrong to feel this excitedDebt free Feb 2021 🎉5
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jwil said:I'm loving the positivity of your diary and that was a great list of things to be thankful for.
Sorry to hear about the pension transfer, hopefully you'll be able to get a better deal in the future when the time comes. Good luck with your plans, and how exciting to be debt free by the beginning of next year!Honeysucklelou2 said:Just catching up on your diary. Well done to your DS on his impressive degree grade and earnings through lockdown to date.Drawingaline said:in_need_of_direction said:my my cleaning service starts back on Tuesday. Part of my believes it’s wrong to feel this excited
I've worked a really long day today - over 11.5 hours and have an early start tomorrow too. I didn't work at the weekend though in the end. The good news is I now no longer owe any flexi and am back in credit. The bad news is that I am shattered. I have 2 meetings and a report to complete tomorrow but after that things should settle back to normal. DH and I did manage to get out for a nice circular walk earlier with the dog so that was nice.
I inspected my garden and pulled what I think is a beetroot which looks ready. I bought some rainbow coloured ones. I now need to work out what I am doing with it LOL. Once I've worked it out - I have some others to harvest. I have broccoli stems now which is exiting. I found that my petit pois have started to develop pods which is exciting - I didn't think any of them had survived but it turns out a few have. I have started to be able to tell them apart from sweet peas too which is also positive. My little lavender plug plants are about ready for potting on and I have some tomato and spinach seedlings to pot on too. It's due to be bad weather again though so I may wait until the weekend.
Have a good week all whatever the weather.Achieve FIRE/Mortgage Neutrality in 2030
1) MFW Nov 21 £202K now £174.8K Equity 32.77%
2) £1.6K Net savings after CCs 14/8/25
3) Mortgage neutral by 06/30 (AVC £25.3K + Lump Sums DB £4.6K + (25% of SIPP 1.2K) = 31.1/£127.5K target 24.4% 15/8/25
4) FI Age 60 income target £16.5/30K 55.1%
5) SIPP £4.8K updated 29/7/254 -
Well today DH got an unexpected bill for £50 that he overlooked in April. That will mean that I will have to dip into our EF slightly this month but not as much as originally expected. I have worked close to 20 hours in 2 days so am shattered. I am now in a literal darkened room while DD tidies up our room and puts our clothes away. I am paying her - but its a nice role reversal.
Both kids glasses are ready already from our trip to VE on Saturday! So dropping them off to get them around 11 tomorrow. I hope DD likes hers. I am going to try and buy her some cheaper sunglasses online and/or get her some contacts again for her new prescription from Mr As.
Generally things are going okay this week. The weather is rubbish though but that makes working easier. I get paid a week tomorrow and that's when I hope to restart paying off our debt in earnest again. DH has a week off work coming up - and I've asked him to relay our pond - so here's hoping. That probably won't be cheap though... but pretty if he can get the pipe work mended we had a water feature that ran down into the pond and recirculated. He also needs to lay the foundation for a shed we bought - we now have all the parts - just need him to do the work. I've painted the fence behind it ready.. Still working slowly around the fence painting it - DD seems to have given up. I still need to plant a few things too.Achieve FIRE/Mortgage Neutrality in 2030
1) MFW Nov 21 £202K now £174.8K Equity 32.77%
2) £1.6K Net savings after CCs 14/8/25
3) Mortgage neutral by 06/30 (AVC £25.3K + Lump Sums DB £4.6K + (25% of SIPP 1.2K) = 31.1/£127.5K target 24.4% 15/8/25
4) FI Age 60 income target £16.5/30K 55.1%
5) SIPP £4.8K updated 29/7/254 -
Don't get banking too many hours in advance, can't have you getting ill and tired.
The glasses were done quick. I'm sure there will be some nice sunglasses for DD somewhere.
Roast beet is delicious, sliced in a salad to see the colours or as a chutney. I think you will be eating the peas as you shell them. Don't rush yourself to plant and paint everything and try to rope DD back in or withhold payment!
Please don't push yourself too much, you are still in recovery.Mortgage started 2020, aiming to clear 31/12/2029.3
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