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  • doingitanyway
    doingitanyway Posts: 10,070 Forumite
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    Re the pension. It sounds as if you are doing good research and will make the best decision for you and your family.
    Great work with your garden so glad you can enjoy it. We all work so hard paying for our homes it is nice to have the opportunity to enjoy them!
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  • savingholmes
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    In other news - one of my cucumber plants has 3 flowers on it - all of its leaves are like paper with yellow spots though. All of my bean plants have pretty red and white flowers on them. I lost another pound so back to 12lb weightloss which is good. DD has felt ill all week - snuffly nose after meeting up with her friend for a walk. We hope it is just hayfever and walking in the rain but who knows. None of us have caught it which seems positive. It's pouring down with rain here which is disappointing.

    We read the meters this weekend - we are now £83 in credit on gas and electric which is good. I am expecting our water bill to be way worse. I looked at our neighbour's house online - they are seriously house proud and their house looks stunning! I was then fighting feelings of inadequacy. It should be pretty much the mirror image of ours with one or two tweaks but it compared really well with an interior designed brand new home. Oh well... I found some Utube - M Forleo who was seriously motivating so that lifted me a little.
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  • PurpleFairy26
    PurpleFairy26 Posts: 3,903 Forumite
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    Interesting your thoughts on pension. I have a meeting with a FA this week about my DB pension so interesting. 

    As for your neighbours house. May look nice but houses like that are rarely practical for living in! 
  • enthusiasticsaver
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    You are correct SH in that my offer was a lot lower (less than 20 years) and if in fact I had been offered 45 times (I have never heard of anyone getting that high an offer) then I would fight for it too as there is obviously more wriggle room in market fluctuations. Did you say  the advisor you are considering is asking for an upfront fee before advising you though.  Don't most of them take the fee from the transfer amount?  What is to stop the advisor charging and then advising against?  
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  • Blackcats
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    I can't contribute any input into the pension discussion, however, I do know that lots of people are re-evaluating their futures and making plans for a different normal.  I know your pension plans have been on your mind for a while now and looking at houses is also a way of thinking of a future life.  I wouldn't feel inferior about your neighbour's house - it's always nice to have a nose around in an on line peek but definitely not worth feeling inferior about.  I'm sure your house is a lovely happy home. 
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