Money Moral Dilemma: Should we reimburse our guest's train tickets?

PurpleGoldFish

Of course you should. You cancelled at short notice and you friend is out of pocket. Why is this even a question? It’s just decency.

harz99

Yes, of course!

LesD

Yes.

(Why do I have to use 10 characters for such an obvious answer?)

My_Own_Back_Door

Yes, she'll need that money to rebook.

jackyann

I do think a bit depends on how well off either side is. I am 'elderly' and a lot better off than most of the kind young people who might invite me. I also often choose to book the cheapest ticket, knowing it's a bit of a gamble.
I agree that an offer might be nice, which I expect all but the most hard-up to refuse.
However if the younger people are not well off, and they know that the 'elderly' friend is, then a simple apology is all that is necessary. I am remembering that this was illness, not a whim.
I know it's hypothetical, but hope you all have a lovely time together when the visit 'happens'!

venderqueen

I so agree that you should have offered straight away, a bit surprised you are asking.

iclayt

You should advise other in how she can claim a refund less an admin charge, and if she can't get a refund offer to pay next time you arrange a visit.

tooraloola

I replied to the wrong post

tooraloola

Train tickets are not cheap. It is regrettable you had to cancel but you should just send her the money or at the very least a gift card

LexiD87

She will most likely refuse but I think it's only fair you offer to reimburse your relative for the train ticket.
Think about if the shoe was on the other foot; you would appreciate the offer.