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Single, six kids and going to be debt free!

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  • Seasidegal58
    Seasidegal58 Posts: 6,018 Forumite
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    Pleased to read you're feeling better MO4K - and well done on cracking ahead with the covers and shorts!  I hope the first day of the cleaning project goes well.🧹🧹🧹

    Another here who loved 'Luther' and Iris Elba!😍. Ruth Wilson was great in it too and her interaction with Idris was so good. 

    Have a lovely planting day!
    Finally Debt Free! - July 2016 🌟
    Finished Emergency Fund- £10,000 April 2017
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    RETIRED: MAY 2021!!!!😀🎆
    My diary: “Seasidegal's Scrimpy Retirement Diary!”
  • Mumoffourkids
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    Ok so today has been an up and down day. It started ok, but then went downhill, but got better at the end of the day. My eldest and myself had an argument the night before and so she isn’t helping with the youngest two at all now and isn’t speaking to me. It’s starting to get me down as she only seems to be nice to me when she wants something. And I can never tell what kind of mood she is going to be in. Last night it really affected my mental health but this morning I decided it was a new day and I wasn’t going to let it get me down. 

    It started off ok but oldest boy got in a strop as everything was too loud and he couldn’t concentrate on his work. He went off and did very little. Middle girl did some work but got bored easily. I tried doing some of my list but found that I had the four youngest kids all needing me for some reason at the same time and none of them seemed able to wait. Eventually middle girl did her work and oldest boy managed to do most of his. But tomorrow I have decided we are going to have an easier day and hopefully get finished by lunchtime so the kids can do what they want for the afternoon and I get some time sewing.

    On the plus side, the main areas of my house are looking so much cleaner and tidier. I still haven’t tackled the conservatory, the landings or the stairs or the kids rooms for that matter. But the eldest two girls tend to tidy their own rooms so it’s only eldest boy’s room that I need to sort out really. Middle girl has a den in the corner of my room so that stays pretty tidy. Oh and I have been hanging out the washing for the last couple of days so I have caught up on a lot of washing and haven’t had to use the tumble dryer as much. It does mean I have a load of clothes to sort and put away though. But I can do that tomorrow.

    Onto the weekly list
    - seven days of 30 days to an organised house 2/7
    - make cushion covers 0/5
    - make shorts 0/3
    - make t-shirts 0/3
    - plant lettuce seeds 10/10
    - plant pea seeds 0/10

    So I’ve done the daily tasks so far and kept up the cleaning routine. I have also planted a load of lettuce seeds. I want to get some shorts and t-shirts made tomorrow afternoon and maybe a cushion cover and that will feel like I have had a good day.

    Im off to catch up with another episode of Luther now in bed and then off to sleep.
  • Seasidegal58
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    You're  doing fantastically well so far MO4K. You put me to shame with the cleaning. I don't think I would do so well with six children to cope with!😱. And the sewing as well!  I take my hat off to you. 👍
    Finally Debt Free! - July 2016 🌟
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  • Drawingaline
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    My conservatory is a state atm too!!! Everything else has been visited for cleaning and sorting, but I keep putting the conservatory off. 
    Debt free Feb 2021 🎉
  • Mumoffourkids
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    You're  doing fantastically well so far MO4K. You put me to shame with the cleaning. I don't think I would do so well with six children to cope with!😱. And the sewing as well!  I take my hat off to you. 👍
    Drawing Aline said:
    My conservatory is a state atm too!!! Everything else has been visited for cleaning and sorting, but I keep putting the conservatory off. 
    I’m not so sure about that SSG. I didn’t do too well yesterday. I still did the main bits of cleaning in the main areas but didn’t organise and tidy anything extra. Again today I’ve done the main bits of cleaning but the only extra I have managed is to put some oven pride I had in the oven overnight to soak. I really need to get on with the extra tasks although I suppose at the moment, the fact that I am keeping up with the daily cleaning routine is good. I probably need to focus on one extra thing a day to get sorted and then slowly build in the extra cleaning tasks. It is so hard doing it with the kids off school. I tend to do the kitchen and living room in the evening when they have gone to bed as if I did it during the day, it would just get messy again.

    My conservatory turned into the toy room as I wanted the toys out of my living room. Consequently the youngest two get all the toys out and spread them around the floor. It really needs sorting out yet again, I’m sure I sorted it out not that long ago as well!

    Another area that needs a load of work is my landing. It is quite large and because we just have too much stuff, there are three bookcases, a shoe cupboard and a towels and sheets cupboard on the landing. I really need to sort out the landing at some point. I need to add it in to my never ending to do list!

    I didn’t get any of my weekly list done today but yesterday I did make up 2 t-shirts and a cushion cover. I have been asked to make some cushion covers for someone so I wanted to have a practise run before I cut into their fabric. It came out really well. I have done piping around the edges of the cushion cover and it just looks so beautiful. 

    Over the next few days I am also going to be making some scrubs bags for our local hospital. They shouldn’t take me too long to make but I do need to get going on them. I seem to spend most of the day sorting the kids out and then find myself cleaning and tidying in the evenings so run out of time to sew. This weekend I will definitely do some sewing as I’m going to give the kids the weekend off doing school work unless they ask to do some!
  • Drawingaline
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    Our conservatory was also a toy room for years. It is now a lego/games workshop room. I try and ignore it as much as possible. 
    Debt free Feb 2021 🎉
  • Drawingaline
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    Booking someone to clean our oven is one of the first things I will do once it's safe! I normally get it done in March so it's overdue and I just won't do it myself. £60 well spent in my eyes 😂
    Debt free Feb 2021 🎉
  • Mumoffourkids
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    I couldn’t endure the embarrassment of someone seeing how dirty my oven was. I’d had to clean it before they came round!
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