“Rock bottom became the solid foundation on which I rebuilt my life.”

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  • WannabeFree
    WannabeFree Posts: 4,438 Forumite
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    Morning,
    Smalls away to school.

    No major plans today. Have my to-do list to work through along with arranging some appointments. Need to write December goals too. Won't be much debt busting until after Xmas I don't think as I won't be back at work until Jan.

    Had a good chat last night and received just the right replies to make me feel I have made the right decision on somethings, still a way to go though. I feel like a total burden though :o

    Just having a coffee then will get started on the to do stuff

    Have a good day x
    “Once you hit rock bottom, that's where you perfectly stand; That's your chance of restarting, but restarting the way.”
  • Toni'sfriend
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    Had a good chat last night and received just the right replies to make me feel I have made the right decision on somethings,
    Glad to hear that but don't ever think you're a burden and go back to work when you feel fit enough.
    Have adventures. laugh a lot and always be kind.
  • UncannyScot
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    Toni'sfriend wrote: »
    Glad to hear that but don't ever think you're a burden and go back to work when you feel fit enough.

    Absolutely second that ^^^^^ (((((HUGS))))) :A
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  • WannabeFree
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    Toni'sfriend wrote: »
    Glad to hear that but don't ever think you're a burden and go back to work when you feel fit enough.

    I don't really have much choice about work. I do feel I'm letting them down though.

    And I am a burden :o total bothering someone when they should be doing other (better) things :o
    UncannyScot wrote: »
    Absolutely second that ^^^^^ (((((HUGS))))) :A

    :cool: work?
    “Once you hit rock bottom, that's where you perfectly stand; That's your chance of restarting, but restarting the way.”
  • Toni'sfriend
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    Everyone needs a little help sometimes. Why should you think that your needs are less important than someone else's?
    Have adventures. laugh a lot and always be kind.
  • WannabeFree
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    I don't really know what to reply to that :o :rotfl:

    I just don't like bothering anyone :o x
    “Once you hit rock bottom, that's where you perfectly stand; That's your chance of restarting, but restarting the way.”
  • Toni'sfriend
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    The whole point is you're not bothering them. They are here to help you. Just as we are (or should be) here to help one another.
    Have adventures. laugh a lot and always be kind.
  • EssexHebridean
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    WannabeFree wrote: »
    I don't really know what to reply to that :o :rotfl:

    I just don't like bothering anyone :o x

    Nobody does - but we do need to remember that when folk say "If I can help, just ask" they do mean it, otherwise they wouldn't say it! People generally speaking WANT to help those they like, so consider accepting that help being as kind to them, as they are to you, perhaps?

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  • WannabeFree
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    I'm learning slowly :o;)

    Erm breakfast :o

    I'm quite lost for what to say today all in a confused muddle :o
    “Once you hit rock bottom, that's where you perfectly stand; That's your chance of restarting, but restarting the way.”
  • WannabeFree
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    Ever just want the merry go round to stop and let you get off?

    Yep. That describes today.
    “Once you hit rock bottom, that's where you perfectly stand; That's your chance of restarting, but restarting the way.”
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