Single in Belfast (merged discussion)

miserly_mum

Depends how you define a "nice" girl really

My advice is never judge a book my its cover.

Not all nice girls wear a twin set and pearls.

I'm as rough as a badgers bottom, swear like a trooper when i'm stressed and am not backward about coming forward... but have a heart of gold, something my long term partner and soulmate took the time to find out.

wifeforlife

talksalot81 wrote: »

Im going to be a pain and warn.... dont take too long! It is easy for someone to get attached to someone based on online conversations. It is easy to 'fill in the blanks' that you do not know when online and can be a real shock (and disappointment) when you meet them for real.

I have never done it via facebook (mainly due to being married when FB became popular!). Do you just surf for pictures or words in their profile and send them a message?

I joined facebook as I felt too old for bebo and I wanted to keep in touch with my friends who where off travelling around Austailia, theres a new application on it called Zoosk, basically you look through other zoosker's and you can wink at them or flirt with them, it's specifically a flirting application. I think it's a good idea if your shy, and it gives you a chance to chat without seeming like a weirdo :rotfl:

Our very own Martin Lewis is on facebook, and lots of other mse'ers, I've a few of them as friends and we chat regularly.

Are you ever online in the evenings in the moneysavingarms, it's good craic, I've met lots of people after chatting in there

Cate

Belair

miserly_mum wrote: »

as rough as a badgers bottom.

How does everyone know that a badgers bottom is rough?

I need to know.

miserly_mum

Belair wrote: »

How does everyone know that a badgers bottom is rough?

I need to know.

Well first find a nice badger, drinks,dinner,maybe a box of chocolates.........:D

steveymp

miserly_mum wrote: »

I'm as rough as a badgers bottom, swear like a trooper when i'm stressed and am not backward about coming forward... but have a heart of gold.

Damn shame your married, my type of girl I bet you call a spade a spade too :T

Belair

miserly_mum wrote: »

Well first find a nice badger, drinks,dinner,maybe a box of chocolates.........:D

Hmmm... Any Badgers out there? :rotfl:

zfrl

Surely he's looking for beaver rather than badger?

miserly_mum

zfrl wrote: »

Surely he's looking for beaver rather than badger?

Now don't you get me started on beavers...........:rotfl:

Belair

zfrl wrote: »

Surely he's looking for beaver rather than badger?

No, he's a beaver.:rotfl:

miserly_mum

duckie78 wrote: »

Tell me can any one recommend were you could find a nice decent single girl,l have to admit it so so hard trying to meet a nice down to earth one,come on any idea's
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On a serious note to Duckie78, decent ,nice girls are everywhere.

If you just take the time to get to know women as people first and potential girlfiends second.

Also if you try not to have a "type" .

My OH was so NOT physically my type when we first met. But his personality, sense of humour and wonderfully caring nature bowled me over.

Its a strange thing, but the more i got to know and like him as a person the more attractive he became to me. Now I can't keep my mitts off him