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Finally Debt Free After 34 Years, But Still Need to Live Frugally

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  • HairyHandofDartmoor
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    Sun_Addict wrote: »
    It would be a weight off your mind if you could get some tegular income courtesy of a job. When Mr SA was self employed we never knew how much was coming in from week to week. Now he's only on disability benefits the income is a lot less but at least we know what's coming in.

    I hope you enjoy your weekend as much as you can xx

    Thanks SA :). It is the irregularity that causes all of our problems. I long for a regular income now.
    Finally Debt Free After 34 Years, But Still Need to Live Frugally
    Debt in July 2017 = £58,766 😱 DEBT FREE 31 OCTOBER 2017 :T 🎉
    EMERGENCY FUND 1 = £50/£5,000. EMERGENCY FUND 2 = £10/£5,000.
    CHRISTMAS SAVINGS = £0/£500. SEF = £1,400/£12,000 PREMIUM BONDS ME = £350. PREMIUM BONDS DH = £300.
    HOLIDAY MONEY = £0 TIME LEFT TO PAY OFF MORTGAGE = 5 YEARS 1 MONTHS
  • Cherryfudge
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    I hope you have a good weekend :). One of the odd things about online friends is that they are never any further away - so although your DH can't be there with you, you still have your MSE community.

    Teddy is a good idea too. :)
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  • HairyHandofDartmoor
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    Cherryfudge wrote: »
    I hope you have a good weekend :). One of the odd things about online friends is that they are never any further away - so although your DH can't be there with you, you still have your MSE community.

    Teddy is a good idea too. :)

    Thanks Cherry that is very true :).
    Finally Debt Free After 34 Years, But Still Need to Live Frugally
    Debt in July 2017 = £58,766 😱 DEBT FREE 31 OCTOBER 2017 :T 🎉
    EMERGENCY FUND 1 = £50/£5,000. EMERGENCY FUND 2 = £10/£5,000.
    CHRISTMAS SAVINGS = £0/£500. SEF = £1,400/£12,000 PREMIUM BONDS ME = £350. PREMIUM BONDS DH = £300.
    HOLIDAY MONEY = £0 TIME LEFT TO PAY OFF MORTGAGE = 5 YEARS 1 MONTHS
  • WannabeFree
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    Hope you have a lovely weekend HH
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  • [Deleted User]
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    Wishing you a safe journey and a relaxing time with your extended family. You're doing a really good thing for your stepdad and you may even enjoy the weekend yourself once you're on your way. Even if you don't it's not for long,you'll soon be back with OH.

    Take care x
  • HairyHandofDartmoor
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    WannabeFree wrote: »
    Hope you have a lovely weekend HH
    x
    carbootcrazy wrote: »
    Wishing you a safe journey and a relaxing time with your extended family. You're doing a really good thing for your stepdad and you may even enjoy the weekend yourself once you're on your way. Even if you don't it's not for long,you'll soon be back with OH.

    Take care x

    Thanks both of you :).
    Finally Debt Free After 34 Years, But Still Need to Live Frugally
    Debt in July 2017 = £58,766 😱 DEBT FREE 31 OCTOBER 2017 :T 🎉
    EMERGENCY FUND 1 = £50/£5,000. EMERGENCY FUND 2 = £10/£5,000.
    CHRISTMAS SAVINGS = £0/£500. SEF = £1,400/£12,000 PREMIUM BONDS ME = £350. PREMIUM BONDS DH = £300.
    HOLIDAY MONEY = £0 TIME LEFT TO PAY OFF MORTGAGE = 5 YEARS 1 MONTHS
  • System
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    Safe journey HH and enjoy the visit. X
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  • HairyHandofDartmoor
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    Thanks Cumbria :)
    Finally Debt Free After 34 Years, But Still Need to Live Frugally
    Debt in July 2017 = £58,766 😱 DEBT FREE 31 OCTOBER 2017 :T 🎉
    EMERGENCY FUND 1 = £50/£5,000. EMERGENCY FUND 2 = £10/£5,000.
    CHRISTMAS SAVINGS = £0/£500. SEF = £1,400/£12,000 PREMIUM BONDS ME = £350. PREMIUM BONDS DH = £300.
    HOLIDAY MONEY = £0 TIME LEFT TO PAY OFF MORTGAGE = 5 YEARS 1 MONTHS
  • HairyHandofDartmoor
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    Stepdad is picking me up at 9.30 so I've got tons of time to get ready. The weather's not great, a bit gloomy and rainy. Hopefully we'll drive away from the rain.

    I can't believe it's December! We still haven't had our heating on :T luckily it's mild again now, so no need for indoor gloves :). I'll probably be boiling hot at my niece's house :eek:.

    DH and DS1 want to start watching Christmas films when I get back. We'll start with the awful ones on Netflix and finish up with the better ones nearer Christmas :). There's loads I haven't seen, like Polar Express and Bad Sants. Elf is my all time favourite :).
    Finally Debt Free After 34 Years, But Still Need to Live Frugally
    Debt in July 2017 = £58,766 😱 DEBT FREE 31 OCTOBER 2017 :T 🎉
    EMERGENCY FUND 1 = £50/£5,000. EMERGENCY FUND 2 = £10/£5,000.
    CHRISTMAS SAVINGS = £0/£500. SEF = £1,400/£12,000 PREMIUM BONDS ME = £350. PREMIUM BONDS DH = £300.
    HOLIDAY MONEY = £0 TIME LEFT TO PAY OFF MORTGAGE = 5 YEARS 1 MONTHS
  • Seasidegal58
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    I hope you enjoy your break Hairy. I know you wrote that you were nervous of being away from OH but perhaps a fresh weekend will help you clear some cobwebs away.

    I hear you on the Christmas films - I have It's a Wonderful Life, White Christmas and A Christmas Carol (the old 1940s version) at the ready.........:)
    Finally Debt Free! - July 2016 🌟
    Finished Emergency Fund- £10,000 April 2017
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