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Finally Debt Free After 34 Years, But Still Need to Live Frugally

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  • Chrystal wrote: »
    Sending you (((hugs))) HH and hoping all goes well with your Mum. X
    So sorry to hear that Hairy. Hope your Mum is feeling better soon Xx
    Thinking of you and yours, hope they can help your Mum with the pain.

    Thank you. I'll be able to find out more from the doctors in the morning.
    Finally Debt Free After 34 Years, But Still Need to Live Frugally
    Debt in July 2017 = £58,766 😱 DEBT FREE 31 OCTOBER 2017 :T 🎉
    EMERGENCY FUND 1 = £50/£5,000. EMERGENCY FUND 2 = £10/£5,000.
    CHRISTMAS SAVINGS = £0/£500. SEF = £1,400/£12,000 PREMIUM BONDS ME = £350. PREMIUM BONDS DH = £300.
    HOLIDAY MONEY = £0 TIME LEFT TO PAY OFF MORTGAGE = 5 YEARS 1 MONTHS
  • My mum is worse so I've been at the hospital most of the day :(. She is in terrible pain and there was some mention of early stages of kidney failure. It's very worrying :(.

    Sending hugs at this difficult time {{{{hugs}}}}}.
  • Seasidegal58
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    I'm so sorry to hear the news about your poor mum. I do hope they have been able to alleviate her pain and that they have positive news for you all today.


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  • jwil
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    Sorry to hear about your Mum, hope you get some answers today xx
    "Good financial planning is about not spending money on things that add no value to your life in order to have more money for the things that do". Eoin McGee
  • My mum is worse so I've been at the hospital most of the day :(. She is in terrible pain and there was some mention of early stages of kidney failure. It's very worrying :(.

    What a worrying time for you, sending positive vibes and big hugs your way xxx
  • My mum died early yesterday morning, so I won't be able to post for a while.
    Finally Debt Free After 34 Years, But Still Need to Live Frugally
    Debt in July 2017 = £58,766 😱 DEBT FREE 31 OCTOBER 2017 :T 🎉
    EMERGENCY FUND 1 = £50/£5,000. EMERGENCY FUND 2 = £10/£5,000.
    CHRISTMAS SAVINGS = £0/£500. SEF = £1,400/£12,000 PREMIUM BONDS ME = £350. PREMIUM BONDS DH = £300.
    HOLIDAY MONEY = £0 TIME LEFT TO PAY OFF MORTGAGE = 5 YEARS 1 MONTHS
  • Omg, I can feel your devastation. My thoughts are with you and your family. Take care of yourself and know that we are all here ready to support in whatever way we can
    Mortgage at 01.01.14 £119,481.83:eek: today £0 Emergency fund £5.5/5.5k & £200/200 cash.:jWeight 24/02/19 14st 7lb now 12st determined to stop defining myself by my mistakes. Progress not perfection.:T100%through my 1% mortgage challenge. 100% through my pb challenge.
  • beanielou
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    So very very sorry to hear this.
    Take care of you xx
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  • Chrystal
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    Sincere Condolences HH. ((((hugs))))
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    Sometimes, you have to learn to forgive yourself.

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    Today is a gift. That's why it is called the present.

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    but by getting rid of the things that make you unhappy
  • Seasidegal58
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    I'm so very sorry to hear your sad news and my thoughts will be with your and your family. As inod has posted, we all will be here for you when you are ready to post again.
    x
    Finally Debt Free! - July 2016 🌟
    Finished Emergency Fund- £10,000 April 2017
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