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Buffy Keeps on the Straight and Narrow
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How lovely to read that you sound so happy
Plans sound fab xx I get knocked down but I get up again (Chumbawamba, Tubthumping)0 -
the hilarious thing about the note is I put the wrong date on it!!Nevertheless she persisted.0
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:rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:Buffythedebtslayer wrote: »the hilarious thing about the note is I put the wrong date on it!!I am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.
Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
"A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.
***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb. ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
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Hurray~~So pleased for you :j :j
Are they finishing tomorrow?I am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.
Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
"A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.
***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb. ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
One debt remaining. Home improvement loan.0 -
How did you find out that you used the wrong date?Mortgage at 01.01.14 £119,481.83:eek: today £0 Emergency fund £5.5/5.5k & £200/200 cash.:jWeight 24/02/19 14st 7lb now 12st determined to stop defining myself by my mistakes. Progress not perfection.:T100%through my 1% mortgage challenge. 100% through my pb challenge.0
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in_need_of_direction wrote: »How did you find out that you used the wrong date?
He came out and yelled at me on Sunday - I suspect he listens to us at times somehow cos we haven't been out in the garden!
Fence was finished today. Predictably Mum isn't happy but she really did upset today. She knows I am doing everything I can but I think it is a mix of guilt that we are having decent life and getting things done (many of them things she and my sister/bil were meant to do) and she is completely torn, I am doing things, fixing, tidying, solving, as it is all I can do, I can't force my sister to leave the house, I can't make my BIL better. I can only straighten up the house and garden and the reality is nothing can actually make her happy. She feels too much guilt. She is glad about the fence but has definitely regressed to a few year post losing Dad when she was utterly miserable and it was hell due to the situation with my sister.
so although this is a good thing I am sad there was no celebration just mum being sad.
But I went and paid the builder, who is lovely that was a positive. And everyone else is happy for me and I feel so much better.
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Glad the fence is done Buffy. I'm afraid life goes on and you can't put everything on hold just because BIL is ill. Your mum needs to understand that.I get knocked down but I get up again (Chumbawamba, Tubthumping)0
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Glad that YOU feel better xxxI am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.
Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
"A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.
***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb. ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
One debt remaining. Home improvement loan.0 -
Eventually Mum and I had a bit of a heart to heart. She is really worried about my sister and we both spoke about how much we can't do and what should we do. I mean I cannot fathom how she is coping. Simply cannot.
But it was good for Mum and I to get it all out in the open.
All we can do is push on and hope for better.
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Buffythedebtslayer wrote: »Eventually Mum and I had a bit of a heart to heart. She is really worried about my sister and we both spoke about how much we can't do and what should we do. I mean I cannot fathom how she is coping. Simply cannot.
But it was good for Mum and I to get it all out in the open.
All we can do is push on and hope for better.
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This is true xxxI am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.
Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
"A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.
***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb. ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
One debt remaining. Home improvement loan.0
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