I ended things with my BF but he wants me to stand by him. Feeling torn.

Aced2016

suejb2 wrote: »

He's covering all his bases, He has tried to get back with her and failed you are and always will be sloppy seconds!
Get out he doesn't know if he wants Arthur or Martha.

Arthur or Martha ! This made laugh a lot !! Very accurate though.:rotfl:

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But the Arthur, Martha thing isn't the important issue.., its the fact that he is prepared to cheat on two people while he figures himself out. If he took those people's feelings into account (which in spite of his supposed emotional turmoil he isn't because if he wasn't putting himself first always, he wouldn't be cheating) he wouldn't be cheating (yes I know I repeated myself).

Walk away. Do it calmly and with certainty, knowing however much it hurts you are saying 'I don't deserve to be treated like this'. You are doing it for you.

I met someone a long while ago who was divorced.., first time we met up, he said he still loved his wife. I chatted to him from then on but we never met up. And I saw how he treated other people. He was taking out his rage and hurt on other women. I was sooooo glad I backed off before I got emotionally involved, he was a disaster. he was just looking for a mop for his rage.

Your man may not be the 'rage' type, but he is still looking for an emotional mop. You deserve someone who wants YOU, not a thing.