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Hope the CAHMS appointment goes positivitly.I am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.
Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
"A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.
***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb. ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger.
One debt remaining. Home improvement loan. 21 months left.0 -
Thanks Beanie - it went okay, a bit weird really; ds was really good and engaged completely with it today, he was very open and told her how he's feeling, everything that's happened since the last appointment etc. She listened lots, asked lots of questions, then basically said "It sounds as though your feelings of depressions etc are due to your lack of friends, so you need to go and find some friends,there's nothing really we can offer" but then went on to say they'll see him again in December :cool:
So pretty much we're on our own
Nothing I didn't already know but frustrating as if making friends for ds was easy we wouldnt be here in the first place :cool:
In other news, we popped to Wasterstones afterwards and got 2 of the 3 texts he needs for English literature using a book token he's had knocking around for a couple of years
I also have ordered a £5 Amazon voucher from Swagbucks, as usual this won't be added to the savings pot until I spend it on a gift then I can transfer the money from the gift fund.
So tonight is chicken korma night, maybe a bit of pottering, and enjoy the return of the Apprentice
Mortgage Total: £49,992/ £75,000
2026 Mortgage Overpayments Pot £5790 -
Jeez. You could not make it up.
A fat lot of help that was ~~not.
I just dont know what to say TBH.I am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.
Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
"A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.
***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb. ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger.
One debt remaining. Home improvement loan. 21 months left.0 -
Morning all, yesterday involved another meltdown, today ds is off to his Dads so I will get some calm time today

£10 withdrawn from a survey site, I've hit my swagbucks target every day this week which I'm pleased with too
I don't really have any plans yet this weekend, there's no football today so I may go and do some Christmas planning or tidy the garden up a bit, not sure yet.Mortgage Total: £49,992/ £75,000
2026 Mortgage Overpayments Pot £5790 -
Another £5 Amazon voucher ordered too
Mortgage Total: £49,992/ £75,000
2026 Mortgage Overpayments Pot £5790 -
Ds has been dropped off at the station, a cup of tea has been drunk, my bed has been stripped and remade, looking forward to a nice clean bed after Strictly tonight, followed by a lie-in tomorrow

The first load of washing is in, the dishwasher is on, windows are open, my room just needs a clean and hoover. Time for a list I reckon, nothing too urgent just bits and pieces I can get done while pottering this weekend:- All rubbish out
- Empty dishwasher
- Clear washing mountain
- Ironing
- Clean ds bedroom
- Clean my bedroom
- Clean bathroom
- Clean downstairs loo
- Water indoor plants
- Sort the central heating
- Clean the marks off the carpet
- Hoover through
- Sweep floors
- Buy lightbulbs and fit
- Clear paperwork pile
- Reach Swagbucks target
- Empty out handbag
- Sevearl trips to the tip
- Tidy up front garden
- Food shopping
- Sort pots in the back garden
- Sort garden furniture
- Check banking
- Clean out the car
- Buy petrol
- Watch the Apprentice on catchup

- Collect stuff from Boots
Mortgage Total: £49,992/ £75,000
2026 Mortgage Overpayments Pot £5790 -
That’s some list!I am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.
Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
"A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.
***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb. ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger.
One debt remaining. Home improvement loan. 21 months left.0 -
I was fairly productive but then got sidetracked by some online bingo

Anyway, time to update the list:[STRIKE]All rubbish out[/STRIKE] DONE
[STRIKE]Empty dishwasher[/STRIKE] DONE
Clear washing mountain 3 LOADS DONE, THE REST WILL BE TOMORROW
Ironing
[STRIKE]Clean ds bedroom[/STRIKE] DONE
[STRIKE]Clean my bedroom[/STRIKE] DONE
[STRIKE]Clean bathroom[/STRIKE] DONE
[STRIKE]Clean downstairs loo[/STRIKE] DONE
[STRIKE]Water indoor plants[/STRIKE] DONE
Sort the central heating
Clean the marks off the carpet
Hoover through
Sweep floors
[STRIKE]Buy lightbulbs and fit[/STRIKE] DONE
Clear paperwork pile
Reach Swagbucks target
Empty out handbag
Sevearl trips to the tip
Tidy up front garden
Food shopping DONE A FEW BITS, NEED TO ORDER FOR DELIVERY
Sort pots in the back garden
Sort garden furniture
Check banking
Clean out the car
[STRIKE]Buy petrol[/STRIKE] DONE
Watch the Apprentice on catchup
Collect stuff from Boots SHOP WAS SHUT, WILL DO MONDAY
So we went to the shops, I spent £18.87 in Sainsburys on bits and pieces, but I returned some trousers that ds wouldn't wear (£14) so only £4.87 to pay, then I can claim £1.10 back from checkoutsmart, and I scanned a swipe and win vouchers which gave me £1 worth of nectar points and the till gave me another voucher worth £2.50 of nectar points. So all in all, I end up 27p worse off :money: :money:
I also spent £43 on filling up the car with petrol and £6 on the light bulbs. Is it just me or are they nowadays sooo confusing?? Why did they mess with all the w and v ratings?
So, time to tidy and clean downstairs then a strictly fest in front of the telly
Mortgage Total: £49,992/ £75,000
2026 Mortgage Overpayments Pot £5790 -
I've finally got to todays Swagbucks target, it was a slog to get there today
Mortgage Total: £49,992/ £75,000
2026 Mortgage Overpayments Pot £5790 -
I got lucky this morning and got a couple of 70 point surveys in the bag so was ok. But weekends are generally dire! Still, it all adds up!0
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