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So I've stuck some music on, put my pj's on and am alternating between some housework and updating playlists / mooching on here. So far I have collected all the washing from ds bedroom and made his room look almost presentable again. It still needs a damn good clean but it now has visible carpet and an open window


The rest of upstairs is tidy too, all needs a good clean through later.
Downstairs isn't too bad, the kitchen is clean, the lounge / conservatory are tidy but need a clean.
I do feel tired though so it may well be an early night with an early morning clean tomorrow
I do need to do some online shopping to get ds some birthday bits to open. He has no ideas what he wants, I have no ideas either so it will probably end up being generic trainers / trackies kinda stuff. Mortgage Total: £49,992/ £75,000
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So glad the week has been more positive. PJs and music is a good way to spend the evening. Time for you to relax and unwind.0
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blackcatsx2 wrote: »So glad the week has been more positive. PJs and music is a good way to spend the evening. Time for you to relax and unwind.
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Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
"A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.
***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb. ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger.
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blackcatsx2 wrote: »So glad the week has been more positive. PJs and music is a good way to spend the evening. Time for you to relax and unwind.
From me too.I am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.
Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
"A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.
***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb. ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger.
One debt remaining. Home improvement loan. 21 months left.0 -
Glad to hear things have improved, or at the least you have some unwinding time ahead of you.Debt Free Stage 1 - Completed 27/08/2020
Debt Free Stage 2 - Completed 50/181 Payments0 -
When I dropped ds off yesterday to his Dad I asked him if he could have him longer today as he's not at school tomorrow. He had planned to meet to return him at 12. He said it shouldn't be a problem and he'd text me to let me know what time. Just received the text ... can we meet at 1pm

Bearing in mind he hasn't seen ds for 6 weeks silly old me thought he might want to spend some more time with him :cool: Mortgage Total: £49,992/ £75,000
2026 Mortgage Overpayments Pot £5790 -
So I have a quiet ds back - when I finally got him to explain what was wrong he said his Dad had forgotten his birthday :eek: So, ds knew his grandparents would be at his dads this weekend (rare) so assumed that as it's his birthday in 10 days they would be celebrating it this weekend (he's not seeing his Dad again until mid August). But no - they had been invited for a baby shower for new girlfriend. Ds is pretty gutted. Bearing in mind I said to his Dad that he could come back late today it would have been nice to include him in the shower, but no, he dropped ds off to get home so they could then start the shower .... is there a more incompetent father out there??? Any child would feel rejected by all that but knowing how fragile ds mental state is right now it beggars belief :mad: :mad:Mortgage Total: £49,992/ £75,000
2026 Mortgage Overpayments Pot £5790 -
I wholeheartedly agree - it really does beggar belief. It's a good job DS has got you!0
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I am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.
Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
"A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.
***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb. ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger.
One debt remaining. Home improvement loan. 21 months left.0 -
£145 withdrawn via quidco from Sky :beer:
Tonight ds and I have been to a local model railway group - several old men in a big shed basically but he liked it
Mortgage Total: £49,992/ £75,000
2026 Mortgage Overpayments Pot £5790
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