We're aware that some users are experiencing technical issues which the team are working to resolve. See the Community Noticeboard for more info. Thank you for your patience.
📨 Have you signed up to the Forum's new Email Digest yet? Get a selection of trending threads sent straight to your inbox daily, weekly or monthly!

Fall too Pieces

Options
199100102104105114

Comments

  • Well my days being a quiet one, surveys and old movies i am trying too get my head round what too do re my ex. I dont know whether too keep fighting or let things be. This is the 4th or 5th time in 18months we have reconciled then split a month or two later. She is okay but her kids i just dont know if i can deal with and at hers i feel a skivvy as her kids are putting it bluntly tramps.

    I am meeting my old man for a few beers in an hour. Maybe he can give me some wisdom.

    Money wise i am okay i wont be moving too Hawaii any time soon but i am okay. I have had the following payouts today

    20p top cashback
    1.28 off curious cat
    and qmee about 80p.
    Prolific has being quiet today.
  • db2016
    db2016 Posts: 343 Forumite
    Seventh Anniversary 100 Posts Name Dropper
    mate, guy to guy, if its that many "split / get backs" especially in that short time..


    sorry to say i'd say its a flogging dead horse situ!



    i'd leave it, and just be you.. something will come along without effort when its ready.

    just do "you" first. works best imo.


    the best encounters we have are ones that are unplanned and not sought out!
  • efes_shareholder
    efes_shareholder Posts: 1,687 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Name Dropper
    As someone who went back to a toxic ex too many times you have to know when you are done and walk away

    It's like relighting a ciggerette - its never the same
  • Scott-Weiland
    Scott-Weiland Posts: 481 Forumite
    Yeah you guys are both right I have being today and had well injections in my back we were text this morning. Since i got home nothing, and i would of thought she cared obviously not.
  • efes_shareholder
    efes_shareholder Posts: 1,687 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Name Dropper
    Hope you are ok

    I'm learning as I get older and wiser to watch what people do and not what they say
  • efes_shareholder
    efes_shareholder Posts: 1,687 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Name Dropper
    Hope you are ok

    I'm learning as I get older and wiser to watch what people do and not what they say
  • Scott-Weiland
    Scott-Weiland Posts: 481 Forumite
    Yeah i am okay just sore that but hay ho given a few days my back pain should ease.

    Not a truer word said on the ladies front efes
  • Seasidegal58
    Seasidegal58 Posts: 6,017 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Name Dropper Photogenic
    How are you Scott?
    Finally Debt Free! - July 2016 🌟
    Finished Emergency Fund- £10,000 April 2017
    🌟
    RETIRED: MAY 2021!!!!😀🎆
    My diary: “Seasidegal's Scrimpy Retirement Diary!”
  • Yeah i am okay just plodding along nothing really too report i will post up when i get off nights
  • Good to hear from you Scott and looking forward to your post.
    Finally Debt Free! - July 2016 🌟
    Finished Emergency Fund- £10,000 April 2017
    🌟
    RETIRED: MAY 2021!!!!😀🎆
    My diary: “Seasidegal's Scrimpy Retirement Diary!”
Meet your Ambassadors

🚀 Getting Started

Hi new member!

Our Getting Started Guide will help you get the most out of the Forum

Categories

  • All Categories
  • 351K Banking & Borrowing
  • 253.1K Reduce Debt & Boost Income
  • 453.6K Spending & Discounts
  • 244K Work, Benefits & Business
  • 598.8K Mortgages, Homes & Bills
  • 176.9K Life & Family
  • 257.3K Travel & Transport
  • 1.5M Hobbies & Leisure
  • 16.1K Discuss & Feedback
  • 37.6K Read-Only Boards

Is this how you want to be seen?

We see you are using a default avatar. It takes only a few seconds to pick a picture.