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i have been banned from tesco

hi i would just like a bit of advice please i will try to make a long story shortish going back to either two years could be a bit less i was with my husband in tesco shopping when he thought he would do something clever not as well as food essentials he decided he would put reduced stickers over the already reduced items he had picked up i decided to go sit in the car while he paid after a long while a supervisor who i know came out and said he was in the office i stayed in the car naturally he had been caught well police called ordered to pay 70 pound fine and banned well he said his fault what i am getting to is i kept going into tesco shopping over the months either on my own or with any of my three boys we hadnt told them about what had happened everything was fine until monday gone my 12 yr old wanted a dvd so my husband parked in carpark while we went in my 18 yr old was with us i had told him what had happened but not to mention anything well we were in tesco with shopping basket picking up couple of bits son got dvd but i noticed it was two pounds dearer than it should be we walked towards the manager who was a few feet away when i asked him to chech price but then he said i want a word with you he said i have just been told you have been banned for over 12 months i told him no he said i could pay for my goods and i told him to go look it up he said ok but he could not have had time to look my son went outside upset because he knew nothing about it i went up to the woman who had told the manager i was banned and asked her why say that she told me my husband was told both of us were banned first i heard but i have been going in for months walking past these people and all of a sudden this happens in front of customers and staff some of who were grinning can they do this to me without notice
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  • ViolaLass
    ViolaLass Posts: 5,764 Forumite
    You might have more luck if you post this in a more appropriate section. This section is about pensions.

    Maybe the shopping forum?
  • elsien
    elsien Posts: 36,344 Forumite
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    It's their store. They can serve or not serve whoever they like for whatever reason they choose.
    All shall be well, and all shall be well, and all manner of things shall be well.

    Pedant alert - it's could have, not could of.
  • Browntoa
    Browntoa Posts: 49,611 Forumite
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    Moved to correct area of the forum

    As pointed out , they can ban whoever they like

    Maybe your husband neglected to tell you you were both banned
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  • mije1983
    mije1983 Posts: 3,665 Forumite
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    edited 27 October 2016 at 9:55PM
    elsien wrote: »
    It's their store. They can serve or not serve whoever they like for whatever reason they choose.

    As long as it is not one of the protected reasons like race/religion etc


    Also OP, it may help next time you make a post to try and use paragraphs and punctuation. A wall of text can be quite difficult to read and will put off some possibly helpful posters from replying.
  • daytona0
    daytona0 Posts: 2,358 Forumite
    edited 27 October 2016 at 9:58PM
    Your English is sadly quite poor so I'm struggling to follow precisely what happened. It seems to me like your husband plastered reduced barcodes over items which were not supposed to be reduced?

    Also, i note this part of your post:
    i decided to go sit in the car while he paid

    So you were with your husband until it came to paying! There is almost 0% chance that you weren't aware of what he was doing, therefore you would be equally as guilty! The ban is correct. Move on and stop trying to con supermarkets. And I apologise if you are actually innocent (but they can ban you just the same), but even so you need to have some words with the hubby then :)

    (as for your son, yes that is sad that he was so upset. But you only have your husband to blame for all of that! If you are truly innocent then you should be having a go at him ;) )
  • marliepanda
    marliepanda Posts: 7,186 Forumite
    Half of it makes very little sense but from what I gather.

    Husband was trying to steal from Tesco, by placing stickers on things to make them cheaper. Assuming he had also stolen the stickers to do this as they aren't exactly things you have in your back pocket, so there was a planned element.

    You knew but didn't stop him and instead sat in the car.

    Now Tesco don't want your money as you are associated with your thieving husband and were a party to the initial theft.

    Son is upset that his dad is a thief and his mum has no morals.

    Other customers were grinning at the Jeremy Kyle situation going on live.

    Tesco are somehow to blame.
  • I am sorry, but it seems like justice to me. You didn't stop your husband putting stickers on things fraudulently. You didn't immediately walk off or insist he put the goods down/remove the stickers so yes, you were party to his actions.

    Personally, someone who did that kind of stupid thing, I wouldn't want to be with, in any way. I can't quite see this attitude being a one off.

    My ex once was persuaded to lend his car to someone who was going to take some benches from the garden of an empty house. He told me. I immediately said if he did that neither the car nor he would ever come near the house again (and the car was registered to me but it wouldn't have altered my decision if it hadn't been).

    He didn't lend his car to this thieving idiot. But it also gave me pause for thought that my ex would even think this was a possible thing to do.

    I'm not just moralising.., in your situation it was a very stupid thing for your husband to do.., and for you to not stop him. You could have done.
  • warby68
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    edited 28 October 2016 at 5:02AM
    Shop elsewhere and shop honestly.

    You both being banned and husband not telling you sounds far more plausible than Tesco randomly deciding to retrospectively ban you on a particular visit.

    You had quite a lot of 'brass neck' to keep shopping there anyway !

    Leaving your sons open to embarrassment is also on you both really.
  • Sorry but I agree with the others and also suspect that your husband failed to tell you that you were also banned.

    Shop elsewhere, but stop thieving.
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  • Browntoa
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    It was always going to be an epic fail

    Reductions are done with a handheld unit that produces a new barcode sticker , purely Sticking a false sticker on the front would have been a red flag to the till
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