We’d like to remind Forumites to please avoid political debate on the Forum.

This is to keep it a safe and useful space for MoneySaving discussions. Threads that are – or become – political in nature may be removed in line with the Forum’s rules. Thank you for your understanding.

📨 Have you signed up to the Forum's new Email Digest yet? Get a selection of trending threads sent straight to your inbox daily, weekly or monthly!
The Forum now has a brand new text editor, adding a bunch of handy features to use when creating posts. Read more in our how-to guide

Compensation for post traumatic strwss

13567

Comments

  • fairy_lights
    fairy_lights Posts: 9,220 Forumite
    That sounds like a horrific thing to witness but I'm surprised that both you and your partner have been left unable to work because of it. Surely getting back to the normality of the workplace and the support of your colleagues would be beneficial?
  • richardw
    richardw Posts: 19,470 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Name Dropper
    If the police weren't there, but the captain was arrested for murder, who arrested the captain?
    Posts are not advice and must not be relied upon.
  • phatbear
    phatbear Posts: 4,061 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Photogenic Name Dropper
    richardw wrote: »
    If the police weren't there, but the captain was arrested for murder, who arrested the captain?

    As the captain of a vessel he could arrest himself
    Live each day like its your last because one day you'll be right
  • Gloomendoom
    Gloomendoom Posts: 16,551 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    Surely the captain would only have been charged with murder if he intentionally killed the swimmer.
  • Bogalot
    Bogalot Posts: 1,102 Forumite
    Surely the captain would only have been charged with murder if he intentionally killed the swimmer.

    And any such charge would be in the public arena.
  • Surely the captain would only have been charged with murder if he intentionally killed the swimmer.

    Perhaps there is more to it. Perhaps he DID intend to kill the swimmer.
  • eDicky
    eDicky Posts: 6,835 Forumite
    Ninth Anniversary 1,000 Posts Name Dropper
    Surely the captain would only have been charged with murder if he intentionally killed the swimmer.
    British and similar legal norms don't apply in Turkey, and there may be a lesser charge equivalent to manslaughter applied that was conveyed to the OP as 'murder'. We don't know.
    Evolution, not revolution
  • eDicky
    eDicky Posts: 6,835 Forumite
    Ninth Anniversary 1,000 Posts Name Dropper
    Loisreid wrote: »
    we don't know who we hit, one newspaper wanted to put that we hit someone on holiday ( tourist ) another one was a Syrian refugee.
    The corpse would have been in a swimsuit (or naked if lost) if it was a tourist, or fully clothed if a refugee/migrant, who may have been already dead (drowned). The death of a tourist in this way is unlikely to have gone totally unreported in their home country, but perhaps not internationally.

    Witnessing a violent death is never pleasant, but it's pointless to dwell on the gory details and delay getting back to your normal life and livelihood. It may help to focus some compassion on the victim and his family and the 'captain' boat driver who has lost his freedom and probably his job as a result of his negligence, instead of being mired in your own negative emotions.

    As for any form of compensation for your inability to earn a living normally for a month, this is probably an extreme reaction in Turkish eyes. The only chance may be to appeal to the hotel that you'll be forced to publicize it unless they make a better offer, a kind of blackmail perhaps...
    Evolution, not revolution
  • Browntoa
    Browntoa Posts: 49,620 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Name Dropper Photogenic
    Ex forum ambassador

    Long term forum member
  • richardw
    richardw Posts: 19,470 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Name Dropper
    Post #10 mentions Turkey.
    Posts are not advice and must not be relied upon.
This discussion has been closed.
Meet your Ambassadors

🚀 Getting Started

Hi new member!

Our Getting Started Guide will help you get the most out of the Forum

Categories

  • All Categories
  • 353.6K Banking & Borrowing
  • 254.2K Reduce Debt & Boost Income
  • 455.1K Spending & Discounts
  • 246.7K Work, Benefits & Business
  • 603K Mortgages, Homes & Bills
  • 178.1K Life & Family
  • 260.7K Travel & Transport
  • 1.5M Hobbies & Leisure
  • 16K Discuss & Feedback
  • 37.7K Read-Only Boards

Is this how you want to be seen?

We see you are using a default avatar. It takes only a few seconds to pick a picture.