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xmas/ birthday presents
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I'm sure a token amount, say £20 or similar would be fine.0
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Bear in mind when her money runs out she could be moved to somewhere not as nice as where she is now. Wouldn't you rather she has a bit longer in a nicer place?Unless I say otherwise 'you' means the general you not you specifically.0
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thanks for the link but i couldn't get it workDid you read the link ?
Giving away huge sums of money will be seen as deprivation of capital
Buying expensive gifts for family members will be seen as deprivation of capital
Tell grandma, that all that hard work and rainy day saving is for the rainy day that's here and now. She's in a care home. It's raining. She needs to fund it
This has only become a problem the last few months as she has moved but hay we are all learning.0 -
We are hoping that will not happen as with the sale of the house she has about 4 years in this home without her savings so maybe we are looking to far aheadBear in mind when her money runs out she could be moved to somewhere not as nice as where she is now. Wouldn't you rather she has a bit longer in a nicer place?0 -
Thank you. Not sure what happened there0 -
Phil, if grandma was reliant on the state for here care, she would be allowed less then £25 a week for personal spending
That's for everything, the hair cuts, the mags, the biscuits and cakes she loves, her birthday and Christmas pressie money
Is that what you want for her?
Insist she keeps hold of her money and let it pay for the care she needs, and the care you would like to see her receive0 -
Deliberate deprivation of assets is where you have intentionally
decreased your overall assets, in order to reduce the amount you are
charged towards your care and support. this is not what she is doing she would be horrified to think this it what she done because its not0 -
Deliberate deprivation of assets is where you have intentionally
decreased your overall assets, in order to reduce the amount you are
charged towards your care and support. this is not what she is doing she would be horrified to think this it what she done because its not
Giving large sums of money to family IS deprivation of capital. That is how it is viewed - that money is to pay for her care, not her grandchildren's extravagant tastes.0 -
Deliberate deprivation of assets is where you have intentionally
decreased your overall assets, in order to reduce the amount you are
charged towards your care and support. this is not what she is doing she would be horrified to think this it what she done because its not
If she gives large gifts to anybody it can be considered to be deprivation of capital. 'Intentional' may be open to interpretation, but it will be the council's interpretation which matters, not your mother's.
To avoid the risk it will be much safer for her to reduce the gift level to below £100 (my guestimate of what would be accepted from my time working for DWP).
Assuming the sale of the house goes through this is all likely to be academic anyway isn't it as her savings would be above the threshold?
To the OP - if you expect a simple answer to a question, without judgemental responses, I think you have already realised you are on the wrong board!0
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