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Looking for a bit of help and guidance

I have managed to accrue quite an amount of debt, not through any particular way just through my bad management of finance and overspending when we don't have it.

I am married and have 2 children, the debts are in my name only

Currently I am meeting payments on all debtors but by the end of this month my overdraft will be maxed. So in effect I'm using credit to pay credit.

I'm probably going to need to do a cash transfer to clear my od to keep us going while I get a plan together to keep things going.

We have a mortgage and I cannot risk our family home.

What info do people need in order to provide some advice?

I've started having health issues connected to the worries around this, my wife is aware.
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  • marcsshell
    marcsshell Posts: 163 Forumite
    Hi,
    Try posting a SOA so people can see what you income and expenditure is and offer ways you can cut down.
  • ClaretBob
    ClaretBob Posts: 31 Forumite
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    Sorry what's SOA?
  • sourcrates
    sourcrates Posts: 31,597 Ambassador
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    ClaretBob wrote: »
    Sorry what's SOA?



    Statement of affairs - http://www.stoozing.com/calculator/soa.php
    I’m a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on the Debt free wannabe, Credit file and ratings, and Bankruptcy and living with it boards. If you need any help on these boards, do let me know. Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any posts you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button, or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own and not the official line of MoneySavingExpert.For free non-judgemental debt advice, contact either Stepchange, National Debtline, or CitizensAdviceBureaux.Link to SOA Calculator- https://www.stoozing.com/soa.php The "provit letter" is here-https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/2607247/letter-when-you-know-nothing-about-about-the-debt-aka-prove-it-letter
  • marcsshell
    marcsshell Posts: 163 Forumite
    sourcrates wrote: »

    What sourcrates said lol. Was just about to post the link myself.
  • ClaretBob
    ClaretBob Posts: 31 Forumite
    Tenth Anniversary 10 Posts Combo Breaker
    Statement of Affairs and Personal Balance Sheet

    Household Information

    Number of adults in household........... 2
    Number of children in household......... 2
    Number of cars owned.................... 2

    Monthly Income Details

    Monthly income after tax................ 2070
    Partners monthly income after tax....... 0
    Benefits................................ 0
    Other income............................ 0
    Total monthly income.................... 2070


    Monthly Expense Details

    Mortgage................................ 577
    Secured/HP loan repayments.............. 185
    Rent.................................... 0
    Management charge (leasehold property).. 0
    Council tax............................. 109
    Electricity............................. 75
    Gas..................................... 75
    Oil..................................... 0
    Water rates............................. 36
    Telephone (land line)................... 0
    Mobile phone............................ 30
    TV Licence.............................. 14
    Satellite/Cable TV...................... 28
    Internet Services....................... 0
    Groceries etc. ......................... 150
    Clothing................................ 50
    Petrol/diesel........................... 80
    Road tax................................ 0
    Car Insurance........................... 25
    Car maintenance (including MOT)......... 0
    Car parking............................. 0
    Other travel............................ 0
    Childcare/nursery....................... 0
    Other child related expenses............ 50
    Medical (prescriptions, dentist etc).... 15
    Pet insurance/vet bills................. 0
    Buildings insurance..................... 10
    Contents insurance...................... 10
    Life assurance ......................... 0
    Other insurance......................... 0
    Presents (birthday, christmas etc)...... 20
    Haircuts................................ 5
    Entertainment........................... 80
    Holiday................................. 0
    Emergency fund.......................... 0
    Total monthly expenses.................. 1624



    Assets

    Cash.................................... 0
    House value (Gross)..................... 135000
    Shares and bonds........................ 0
    Car(s).................................. 0
    Other assets............................ 0
    Total Assets............................ 135000



    Secured & HP Debts

    Description....................Debt......Monthly...APR
    Mortgage...................... 109000...(577)......4.3
    Hire Purchase (HP) debt ...... 7000.....(149)......0<
    (Unnamed debt).................350......(36).......0
    Total secured & HP debts...... 116350....-.........-


    Unsecured Debts
    Description....................Debt......Monthly...APR
    Loan...........................10900.....215.......6.9
    Virgin ........................1900......25........0
    Halifax .......................1700......17........0
    Overdraft .....................1700......0.........0
    Total unsecured debts..........16200.....257.......-



    Monthly Budget Summary

    Total monthly income.................... 2,070
    Expenses (including HP & secured debts). 1,624
    Available for debt repayments........... 446
    Monthly UNsecured debt repayments....... 257
    Amount left after debt repayments....... 189


    Personal Balance Sheet Summary
    Total assets (things you own)........... 135,000
    Total HP & Secured debt................. -116,350
    Total Unsecured debt.................... -16,200
    Net Assets.............................. 2,450


    Created using the SOA calculator at https://www.stoozing.com.
    Reproduced on Moneysavingexpert with permission, using other browser.
  • marcsshell
    marcsshell Posts: 163 Forumite
    Household Information[/b]
    Number of adults in household........... 2
    Number of children in household......... 2
    Number of cars owned.................... 2 Could you get rid of one of the cars?

    Monthly Income Details

    Monthly income after tax................ 2070
    Partners monthly income after tax....... 0 Does your wife work?
    Benefits................................ 0 Are you entitled to any child benefits?
    Other income............................ 0
    Total monthly income.................... 2070


    Monthly Expense Details

    Mortgage................................ 577
    Secured/HP loan repayments.............. 185
    Rent.................................... 0
    Management charge (leasehold property).. 0
    Council tax............................. 109
    Electricity............................. 75 Price comparison to see if you can get you gas and electric down. I did pay around £70 for both gas and electricity combined
    Gas..................................... 75
    Oil..................................... 0
    Water rates............................. 36
    Telephone (land line)................... 0
    Mobile phone............................ 30 Look at getting sim only deal
    TV Licence.............................. 14
    Satellite/Cable TV...................... 28
    Internet Services....................... 0
    Groceries etc. ......................... 150 Is this correct?
    Clothing................................ 50
    Petrol/diesel........................... 80
    Road tax................................ 0
    Car Insurance........................... 25
    Car maintenance (including MOT)......... 0
    Car parking............................. 0
    Other travel............................ 0
    Childcare/nursery....................... 0
    Other child related expenses............ 50
    Medical (prescriptions, dentist etc).... 15
    Pet insurance/vet bills................. 0
    Buildings insurance..................... 10
    Contents insurance...................... 10
    Life assurance ......................... 0 Should have this
    Other insurance......................... 0
    Presents (birthday, christmas etc)...... 20
    Haircuts................................ 5
    Entertainment........................... 80 Seems quite high.
    Holiday................................. 0
    Emergency fund.......................... 0
    Total monthly expenses.................. 1624



    Assets

    Cash.................................... 0
    House value (Gross)..................... 135000
    Shares and bonds........................ 0
    Car(s).................................. 0
    Other assets............................ 0
    Total Assets............................ 135000



    Secured & HP Debts

    Description....................Debt......Monthly...APR
    Mortgage...................... 109000...(577)......4.3 Could you get a lower rate? Again I changed rate recently and saved around£50 pm
    Hire Purchase (HP) debt ...... 7000.....(149)......0<
    (Unnamed debt).................350......(36).......0
    Total secured & HP debts...... 116350....-.........-


    Unsecured Debts
    Description....................Debt......Monthly...APR
    Loan...........................10900.....215.......6.9
    Virgin ........................1900......25........0
    Halifax .......................1700......17........0
    Overdraft .....................1700......0.........0
    Total unsecured debts..........16200.....257.......-



    Monthly Budget Summary

    Total monthly income.................... 2,070
    Expenses (including HP & secured debts). 1,624
    Available for debt repayments........... 446
    Monthly UNsecured debt repayments....... 257
    Amount left after debt repayments....... 189


    Personal Balance Sheet Summary
    Total assets (things you own)........... 135,000
    Total HP & Secured debt................. -116,350
    Total Unsecured debt.................... -16,200
    Net Assets.............................. 2,450


    Created using the SOA calculator at https://www.stoozing.com.
    Reproduced on Moneysavingexpert with permission, using other browser.
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  • ClaretBob
    ClaretBob Posts: 31 Forumite
    Tenth Anniversary 10 Posts Combo Breaker
    Hi,

    Thanks for your feedback. I can't switch my mortgage to a new deal yet. It's ran on to the standard rate but due to fairly high ltv the fixed rates are higher than the standard. Will look in as soon as poss.

    My mobile phone runs out in September and won't be renewed so that will go.

    Entertainment at 80 for the month, that's for the 4 of us, maybe a dinner out once a month and bits and bats here and there. Is that a lot?

    My wife does work part time, by the time she pays her car, bills and childcare. She has nothing to contribute unfortunately

    Thanks
  • ClaretBob
    ClaretBob Posts: 31 Forumite
    Tenth Anniversary 10 Posts Combo Breaker
    edited 4 June 2016 at 2:31PM
    Sorry missed some of your points. Unfortunately we do need 2 cars, we work in opposite directions and she needs a car to be able to do the school run and nursery drops.

    I should also note that my wage figure is net after deductions. I currently pay 151 to student loan, and 243 as childcare direct to nursery.

    My student loan payment should end in October.
  • ClaretBob wrote: »
    Statement of Affairs and Personal Balance Sheet

    Household Information

    Number of adults in household........... 2
    Number of children in household......... 2
    Number of cars owned.................... 2

    Monthly Income Details

    Monthly income after tax................ 2070
    Partners monthly income after tax....... 0
    Benefits................................ 0
    Other income............................ 0
    Total monthly income.................... 2070


    Monthly Expense Details

    Mortgage................................ 577
    Secured/HP loan repayments.............. 185
    Rent.................................... 0
    Management charge (leasehold property).. 0
    Council tax............................. 109 - If this is over 10 months, switching to 12 months will reduce it to £90-83.
    Electricity............................. 75 - This seems high. Try a comparison site gor a better deal.
    Gas..................................... 75 - This seems high. Try a comparison site gor a better deal.
    Oil..................................... 0
    Water rates............................. 36
    Telephone (land line)................... 0
    Mobile phone............................ 30 - How many phones?
    TV Licence.............................. 14
    Satellite/Cable TV...................... 28 - Get rid ASAP, and go Freeview/Freesat.
    Internet Services....................... 0
    Groceries etc. ......................... 150
    Clothing................................ 50
    Petrol/diesel........................... 80
    Road tax................................ 0
    Car Insurance........................... 25
    Car maintenance (including MOT)......... 0
    Car parking............................. 0
    Other travel............................ 0
    Childcare/nursery....................... 0
    Other child related expenses............ 50
    Medical (prescriptions, dentist etc).... 15
    Pet insurance/vet bills................. 0
    Buildings insurance..................... 10
    Contents insurance...................... 10
    Life assurance ......................... 0
    Other insurance......................... 0
    Presents (birthday, christmas etc)...... 20
    Haircuts................................ 5
    Entertainment........................... 80
    Holiday................................. 0
    Emergency fund.......................... 0 - You need something in here, especially as you are a householder.

    Total monthly expenses.................. 1624



    Assets

    Cash.................................... 0
    House value (Gross)..................... 135000
    Shares and bonds........................ 0
    Car(s).................................. 0 - Two cars, and they're not worth anything :huh:
    Other assets............................ 0
    Total Assets............................ 135000



    Secured & HP Debts

    Description....................Debt......Monthly...APR
    Mortgage...................... 109000...(577)......4.3
    Hire Purchase (HP) debt ...... 7000.....(149)......0<
    (Unnamed debt).................350......(36).......0
    Total secured & HP debts...... 116350....-.........-


    Unsecured Debts
    Description....................Debt......Monthly...APR
    Loan...........................10900.....215.......6.9
    Virgin ........................1900......25........0
    Halifax .......................1700......17........0
    Overdraft .....................1700......0.........0
    Total unsecured debts..........16200.....257.......-



    Monthly Budget Summary

    Total monthly income.................... 2,070
    Expenses (including HP & secured debts). 1,624
    Available for debt repayments........... 446
    Monthly UNsecured debt repayments....... 257
    Amount left after debt repayments....... 189


    Personal Balance Sheet Summary
    Total assets (things you own)........... 135,000
    Total HP & Secured debt................. -116,350
    Total Unsecured debt.................... -16,200
    Net Assets.............................. 2,450


    Created using the SOA calculator at https://www.stoozing.com.
    Reproduced on Moneysavingexpert with permission, using other browser.

    Are Virgin, Halifax and the overdraft really 0%?
  • Dobbibill
    Dobbibill Posts: 4,194 Ambassador
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    ClaretBob wrote: »


    Monthly Budget Summary

    Total monthly income.................... 2,070
    Expenses (including HP & secured debts). 1,624
    Available for debt repayments........... 446
    Monthly UNsecured debt repayments....... 257
    Amount left after debt repayments....... 189

    [/i]

    If your SOA is correct then you should not be faced with the OD being maxed out, it should be improving by this much each month.

    Now you have something to work with, keep a spending diary and see if there is anything you have missed on your SOA like parking, coffee or a sandwich at work, picking up bread/milk on the way home. The little things add up so quickly, it's surprising.

    Don't worry, it's rarely spot on first time, but it does give you a good starting base.

    The only other thing I would add is if/when you look to change providers for anything use TCB. I have saved loads doing car insurance, home insurance etc.
    I’m a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on the Budgeting & Bank Accounts, Credit Cards, Credit File & Ratings and Energy boards. If you need any help on these boards, do let me know. Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any posts you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button, or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own and not the official line of MoneySavingExpert.

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