Large single Parent Family getting Debt free

smallholdingsister

Um Suki I think you were replying to smodlet while quoting my post.

stoplurking

Hi Kim

I've been following your thread from the start and have really enjoyed hearing all about your plans and the achievements of your smart little ones. Just delurking to say I hope the summer hols with the kiddies are going well and No8 is cooking along nicely. Wishing you happy days and lots of opportunities to put your feet up and enjoy your babies. X

suki1964

smallholdingsister wrote: »

Um Suki I think you were replying to smodlet while quoting my post.

Darn it. Using me phone. Quoting etc is a nightmare. Apologies. I hold me hands up and apologies

Smallholdinh, you've seen me on here long enough to know I'm. I troll


Kimplus8. I posted the other night these exact words " whilst I'm really enjoying the love fest on here, is this really a debt free diary". Milasavesmoney will attest to that

The reason on my head was, no it's not a debt free diary, more like a mooloos adventures and it didn't belong here on the debt free board

That's MY opinion

Five hours laters I re read the post, thought it may. It have come across how it was meant and so deleted it

Smoelet was the one who wouldn't let it go and wound everyone up I was straight on admitting I had deleted it, he then went on at me personally so of course I retaliated.

Twice or three time now I have said it was me who deleted the post, and still he wouldn't let it lie

Now what you do in your life is up to you. Your choices. I personally felt that this diary wasn't in keeping with this particular forum

I have no personal beef with you. You do as you see fit with your finances However I did get wound up with the posters to this thread belittling others on their threads. That when I bit. If you want to slag others, keep it to pm or keep quiet

Id you are a prolific posted you need to be consistent. You can not be on one board !!!!!ing about one thing and doing the same yourself on another board. You and smoldet gave off about DKLS in not so nice terms because you were called out on what you posted. That's not been the first occasion either so please don't make yourselves out to be so innocent

Now I've had my say as to why I made the comment I then chose to delete that others won't let rest. I will say no more unless it's by pm

Smallholding, apologies again for misquoting

Kim, good luck with no 8

Smodlet, just because someone doesn't have the same view as you doesn't mean they are a troll

Smodlet

What on earth? Was this... addressing me about PM-ing people? Since I have sent no PMs to anyone about this (I have not even been on here and why would anyone bother?) I have no idea to what this refers (plus, I thought the whole point of PMs was to be private. So how would they know?) Does not even seem to know my gender so really not credible... If PMs are not private, I think we need to know but also think that is b*ll*cks.

Kim, I am so sorry one troll has done this to your thread but hope it will just go away if we ignore it long enough. Why does there always have to be one?

What the heck, let's not let one... spoil our fun. How are all the cool people doing? If nothing else, smallholdingsister has come to talk to us, thank you, babe.

suki1964

Smodlet wrote: »

What on earth? Was this... addressing me about PM-ing people? Since I have sent no PMs to anyone about this (I have not even been on here and why would anyone bother?) I have no idea to what this refers (plus, I thought the whole point of PMs was to be private. So how would they know?) Does not even seem to know my gender so really not credible... If PMs are not private, I think we need to know but also think that is b*ll*cks.

Kim, I am so sorry one troll has done this to your thread but hope it will just go away if we ignore it long enough. Why does there always have to be one?

What the heck, let's not let one... spoil our fun. How are all the cool people doing? If nothing else, smallholdingsister has come to talk to us, thank you, babe.

Smoldet, why again are you muddying the waters?

No one can see your pms. Yet anyone clicking on your profile activity can see if you are online, what thread you are reading or replying to or if you are in pm. So don't do all this ' I think we should know if pms are not private '

Do you actually know what a troll is?

Will you also if you wish to appear to have the upper hand desist from calling me it, troll, her and she? I at least have the manners to address you by your moniker on here instead of what I actually would like to call you, so grow up and learn some manners are you seriously a middle aged woman? You sound like a petulant child

As for someone who reminds others of the forum "rules", perhaps you need to be mindful of them when replying to others? Your posts are totally littered with swear words, not just on this thread but others. Female you may be, a lady you are not

Now seeing as you don't have the neck to take this to pm, this "troll" who's been helping on the forums for over 10 years with over 17000 thanks for her help and advice I will now stick you on ignore

kimplus8

suki1964 wrote: »

Darn it. Using me phone. Quoting etc is a nightmare. Apologies. I hold me hands up and apologies

Smallholdinh, you've seen me on here long enough to know I'm. I troll


Kimplus8. I posted the other night these exact words " whilst I'm really enjoying the love fest on here, is this really a debt free diary". Milasavesmoney will attest to that

The reason on my head was, no it's not a debt free diary, more like a mooloos adventures and it didn't belong here on the debt free board

That's MY opinion

Five hours laters I re read the post, thought it may. It have come across how it was meant and so deleted it

Smoelet was the one who wouldn't let it go and wound everyone up I was straight on admitting I had deleted it, he then went on at me personally so of course I retaliated.

Twice or three time now I have said it was me who deleted the post, and still he wouldn't let it lie

Now what you do in your life is up to you. Your choices. I personally felt that this diary wasn't in keeping with this particular forum

I have no personal beef with you. You do as you see fit with your finances However I did get wound up with the posters to this thread belittling others on their threads. That when I bit. If you want to slag others, keep it to pm or keep quiet

Id you are a prolific posted you need to be consistent. You can not be on one board !!!!!ing about one thing and doing the same yourself on another board. You and smoldet gave off about DKLS in not so nice terms because you were called out on what you posted. That's not been the first occasion either so please don't make yourselves out to be so innocent

Now I've had my say as to why I made the comment I then chose to delete that others won't let rest. I will say no more unless it's by pm

Smallholding, apologies again for misquoting

Kim, good luck with no 8

Smodlet, just because someone doesn't have the same view as you doesn't mean they are a troll

I wasn't called out on anything to do with DKLS so I have no idea what that's about unless you are referring to Smodlet there too??
I posted about not receiving £30,000 in child related benefits and someone reposted from my SOA including my HB which to my knowledge is not a child related benefit, otherwise I have no idea what you are on about.

kimplus8

stoplurking wrote: »

Hi Kim

I've been following your thread from the start and have really enjoyed hearing all about your plans and the achievements of your smart little ones. Just delurking to say I hope the summer hols with the kiddies are going well and No8 is cooking along nicely. Wishing you happy days and lots of opportunities to put your feet up and enjoy your babies. X

Thankyou this means a lot. No opportunity to put my feet up but lots to be thankful for- the kids are full of energy and it wears me out but it's worth every second.
Much love
K+8

kimplus8

Smodlet wrote: »

What on earth? Was this... addressing me about PM-ing people? Since I have sent no PMs to anyone about this (I have not even been on here and why would anyone bother?) I have no idea to what this refers (plus, I thought the whole point of PMs was to be private. So how would they know?) Does not even seem to know my gender so really not credible... If PMs are not private, I think we need to know but also think that is b*ll*cks.

Kim, I am so sorry one troll has done this to your thread but hope it will just go away if we ignore it long enough. Why does there always have to be one?

What the heck, let's not let one... spoil our fun. How are all the cool people doing? If nothing else, smallholdingsister has come to talk to us, thank you, babe.

No need to apologise smodlet-
You carry on

kimplus8

NSD again today, plus I sorted out all of my debt paperwork- I just have 2 creditors to chase now for actual amounts. Eon were fantastic today and have adjusted my direct debit as it partially included monies owed from previous tenant by mistake- that was a pleasant surprise :-)
I cooked a lovely mince veg and gravy dish with new pots, the kids demolished it and wanted seconds- always the sign of a good meal
We have off its again tomorrow, I have £10 left until Friday so I may walk the kids to the local shop to get something tomorrow, I'm thinking crumpets and Nutella as a treat. We are currently Amazon priming to death as its free for a month so watching as much as we can for free!!!
They are reading their books for the free reading scheme and are almost ready to hand back to the library and take out something else :-)
I have horrific heartburn so have hardly eaten today but I just can't face eating anything when I feel so rough!
I'm calling up my last two creditors tomorrow to chase up these amounts and then I'll set a Paying off target- it's making me feel sick to think about it but I just have to do it!
I've just signed up to two free online courses, one in health and nutrition and the other in inclusion in education, if I'm on may leave then I'm gonna just crack on a get online courses finished and pack out my CV.

milasavesmoney

I lived on liquid lemon Mylanta antacid for months with my third baby. Oh the heartburn!!
Great work on your debt paperwork! Nice that you got the balance straitened out with Eon and it was less than you thought!

I've been very sick with a sinus infection and have slept for days. I've been reading here everyday and keeping up with you all. Have you ordered the pool? I was thinking you must be getting really close to Babyboy's due date now.

How you posted the ex's stuff back? Please tell me you have. Or you could just give it to a charity shop and burn the rest. Unless there is anything you could hock.

Suki, I felt like you were only questioning whether this diary should be in the debt free diary section when you originally posted. Your post was fine to ask that question. The thing is, I've seen diaries posted in the middle of the OSMS board and no one seemed in the least to think it was out of place. I read several long timers on debt free and they talk about whatever is going on in their lives and some only talley up at month's end. So I could/can not work out what made you feel this one is not appropriate there. A lot of the things you have since referred to are unknown to me (I don't follow on many of the other sites) but nevertheless this is where Kim is in life and where she needs to be encouraged forward to a safer place.
One of the things we do, and I've read many of your posts and know you do this all the time, is support those who have found themselves in a hard place and want to have a safe place to come to talk and work their way out. Kim is so close to her delivery and has so many balls up in the air all at once, I have felt a special pull to be a listening caring ear. So has Smodlet. We have tried our best to lighten her load just now at this time in her life. We have done it in a silly loving way. I don't think there is one set route out of debt circumstances. We have been gentle here because it has called for gentleness.
I think Smod was feeling a bit protective of Kim and felt she needed to rally to her aid over your post. We did not read it the same way but Suki, that's the problem with written text. It can be taken different ways. You removed it because you felt it might be taken as criticism and I thank you for that because Smod did take it that way.
I'm asking that each of us take a step back and realize a misunderstanding started this and it's just really escalated from there. Please please let's not let it go any further.
I've chosen to write here instead of PMing everyone because I would be saying the same to everyone . I value each of you who read this. Bright and brilliant people who have been down at one time or another and made it through. Let us be helpful to those still in the mire.
That's the beauty of these diaries.