Every Little Interests The Elite

LEJC

bcw123 wrote: »

good morning from dull and damp e/surrey Lets have a HAPPY DAY just some new glitches instead of info on death of people and pets

Walk a day in my shoes......

LEJC

Good morning all....
I'm trying.....

Enterprise_1701C

LEJC wrote: »

Good morning all....
I'm trying.....

I will resist the obvious answer

Hope you succeed.

hornetgirl

(((x))) LEJC

purpledonkey

Enterprise_1701C wrote: »

I think you are on the wrong thread, this thread is about life in general, not just glitches.

And this classic gif! Morning all :wave:

underperky

Good morning ...I have ordered the magnesium oil that op advised about

it arrives tomorrow

I am looking forward to using for some added pain relief ..thanks to op

chandlerscroft

Enterprise_1701C wrote: »

It was Melody, she posted on FB basically saying goodbye Can't remember who, but someone managed to get her details and the ambulance got there too late, she took her own life

Yes sorry I did know that it's a year ago isn't it, I wonder how the kids are doing now.

Tinyshoes

Morning.

Might make you smile my bed has collapsed one side (not mine may I add ) only being held up by the stash underneath it. :eek: :rotfl:

I thought would be good idea while dd1 here if her and Teeny slept with me as we don't have the bunks anymore. Mr TS was happy to sleep downstairs. Only trouble is other two DDs thought they would join us too this morning. Eldest two were the side it has broken.

I need to not have good ideas like this again....hope my stash is not squashed I'm not moving it until Mr TS can try and repair it later he has had to go to work. I think it has just missed the hair dye crate that would have been a bit messy. :rotfl:

rose28454

Enterprise_1701C wrote: »

I really do not know what to say to this. You get everything thrown at you

I think you need to get someone independent to talk to your fil, someone that he is not emotionally attached to. I think that is going to be the only way to get him to say what he wants. It could be that he simply does not want to live alone, or it could be that he is being pressurised, but you need to get to the bottom of what HE wants. Does he realise his wife may be coming home in the near future?

My in-laws live in their own house but have my youngest brother in law living at home still. I see a lot of evidence that they could not manage without him, it could be that it is getting to be a struggle for your father in law. As for him not eating, could it simply be that he could not remember eating his dinner, or could not tell them what he had?

All I can say is you need to make the right decision for HIM, not for anyone else concerned.

Thats exactly it. I do think my bil is putting pressure on him but tonights meeting is just with bil and possible sil. Then we will go and see fil tommorow. I did think about calling in the social worker.

LEJC

Sorry all it's been a long night....
DS has finally left for his exam although whether he makes it to the end is anyone's guess.

The past 5 months have been hell...and I thank you for sharing it with me and when needed lifting my spirits.
I really have tried to take a positive approach to our situation but at times its been sooo hard
I've had some happy days and yep I carry on as normal on the face of it to most people .....but actually inside my heart is ripped in pieces...its a very slow process to mend and there will always be the scars of what has happened.

the wounds of our hurt have been weeping recently and for me it's about putting my DS first in the hope we can get him through his exams....

I would love a truly happy day.....