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Unsureandscared
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I'm 95% sure I need/want to end my 9 year relationship but I'm so scared and don't know how to actually say the words?! Any thoughts or advice would help
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You need to talk to whoever you have a relationship with, instead of on here to try and get your post count up.
Shameful.0 -
DomRavioli wrote: »You need to talk to whoever you have a relationship with, instead of on here to try and get your post count up.
Shameful.
I can only see one shameful thing here and it is not the OP.
OP, you do have the option to simply say "It's over" and walk away. Do you feel as though you are lacking the strength to do so?0 -
What happened to giving new posters a chance? The only post that is shameful, is no:2.
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I think that's it, lacking in strength and courage.
I will ignore post 2!0 -
Unsureandscared wrote: »I'm 95% sure I need/want to end my 9 year relationship but I'm so scared and don't know how to actually say the words?! Any thoughts or advice would help
Does your partner have a clue that things aren't right?
Are the problems with the relationship things that could be fixed if you worked on them together?0 -
Is it going to come out of the blue or have you both discussed your relationship problems previously? This will likely have some bearing on how you start the conversation and what you need to say.0
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Unsureandscared wrote: »I'm 95% sure I need/want to end my 9 year relationship but I'm so scared and don't know how to actually say the words?! Any thoughts or advice would help
what do you want to say?
write it down, then practice saying it out loud to yourself.0 -
Unsureandscared wrote: »I'm 95% sure I need/want to end my 9 year relationship but I'm so scared and don't know how to actually say the words?! Any thoughts or advice would help
Where about in the relationship are you? Married? Kids?DomRavioli wrote: »You need to talk to whoever you have a relationship with, instead of on here to try and get your post count up.
Shameful.
What are you talking about?
It's a new poster with 1 or 2 posts! How can they be trying to get their post count up?!Georgiegirl256 wrote: »What happened to giving new posters a chance? The only post that is shameful, is no:2.
I agree!You didn't, did you? :rotfl::rotfl:0 -
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Tell him/her "I think it is all over between us - we really need to talk".0
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