Concerned For A Widowed Friend

suki1964

Tbh , even though I'm not a pippa or Kate lookalike , I don't find it a problem telling anyone to **** off out of my face

I've never needed back up,,secret recordings,,witnesses.

If the above doesn't work, a knee aimed in the right place works just as well




In all seriousness, it's easy enough to move unwanted attention away, as long as it is unwanted attention.


Sending out mixed messages is where you have problems



I'm not belittling those that do really have looney toons stalking them, but those are rare scenarios. To me, as this reads, the friend hasn't got the balls to say **** off, and is actually relishing in being the talk of the pub

Peter333

LilElvis wrote: »

You need to pay more attention!

She doesn't look like Kate - it's the sister, Pippa, the one with the photogenic !!!!.

:T

Oh yes of course! My mistake!

It's THIS one that bluelass looks like... (allegedly...)



I must say, Kate looks better than Pippa. It's hard to believe Pippa is younger than Kate.

gettingtheresometime

Mojisola wrote: »

No, I've read bluelass's other threads - the scenarios are still ones that someone will experience and may benefit from reading about on here.

Ive got it wrong it's not The Archers Bluelass wants to work for, it's the MSE dilemma posting team

gettingtheresometime

PS does anyone really find Pippa pretty?

Peter333

gettingtheresometime wrote: »

PS does anyone really find Pippa pretty?

She's OK, but not that great looking IMO. She looks 5 years older than Kate, and is over-rated IMO.

It really annoyed me when everyone made a massive fuss of her butt on her SISTER'S wedding day. I don't think she's all that at all.

Jojo_the_Tightfisted

bluelass wrote: »

She is 37 and will be 38 later this year like myself so she and myself cannot understand why he thinks she would have any interest in him whatsoever.

Quite right, whyever would anybody your age or income bracket be in a relationship with an [STRIKE]poorer[/STRIKE] older man?

:think:



I'd definitely relocate to a slightly classier drinking establishment, though. It sounds as if the Queen Vic would be an Oasis of calm and normality. Have you considered upgrading to a Wetherspoons?

duchy

bluelass wrote: »

Just to update my friend did the necessary with me as a witness and recorded the conversation on her phone.
His answer wasn't nice he told my friend widow women who go out socialising look like they are up for it and he thought she wanted a replacement.
He swore at me too and said it was none of my business and called my friend a skank.
He also told her to watch out for herself in future which she took as a threat.
This evening she told me she is going to the local community centre tomorrow to speak to an officers who do a fortnightly advice drop in just in case.

That's what you get when you try to publicly humiliate someone instead of using a bit of tact.

It's really extraordinary that two middleaged self proclaimed "attractive" women are either so in experienced or so socially in adept that they can't deal with tactfully telling a man they aren't interested (most women learn this in their teens)...........or maybe they are drama llamas

pigpen

bluelass wrote: »

Just to update my friend did the necessary with me as a witness and recorded the conversation on her phone.
His answer wasn't nice he told my friend widow women who go out socialising look like they are up for it and he thought she wanted a replacement.
He swore at me too and said it was none of my business and called my friend a skank.
He also told her to watch out for herself in future which she took as a threat.
This evening she told me she is going to the local community centre tomorrow to speak to an officers who do a fortnightly advice drop in just in case.

See... we already told you that...

So she threatened him, illegally recorded a conversation and is going to police because he 'threatened' her.. maybe he meant she shouldnt be so skanky because others might get the wrong message and think she was 'up for it' when she is just leading them on... yeah, good luck with that!

Maybe she was being a skank and waving her knickers.. it is bit of a buzz getting attention.. so maybe she was actually leading him on a bit..

Anyway... its none of your business..

Arent we due a new busybody thread?? this ones a bit boring