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Official Trying to Conceive - Thread 13

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  • Cd1 is here :-( doing everything to the letter with no joy is so hard to take!
  • Celepie
    Celepie Posts: 134 Forumite
    Sorry about AF, Trying :(

    I'm on 9dpo today but 0 symptoms so not overly hopeful and have mentally moved on and am thinking about next cycle now. So annoyed. I thought after our chem preg cycle 1, getting pg again would be a breeze, but as you say, it's so disappointing to do everything spot-on and it not work.
  • skimper
    skimper Posts: 372 Forumite
    Tenth Anniversary 100 Posts Combo Breaker
    Negative test on Sunday and expected AF on Monday. On Monday night I got some very light red blood when I wiped, so expected AF to come today. Still no sign of her so took a test this morning and still negative. So not too sure what's happening.
  • KatieBee123
    KatieBee123 Posts: 114 Forumite
    Hi all!

    Cd14 today, I had this weird feeling last night we Bd and I just felt like that was it, if I am gunna get a BFP it will be from this time, I have no idea why, I do not even know if I am oving as I am part of the non opk trial group, hard to explain but like I said I just felt this feeling so time will tell. Probably all in my head the same as every previous month lol I am off on holiday next week and due on the last week of holiday but I am hoping to be so preoccupied I will not be SSing and testing stupidly early. This my cycle ranging anything from 27-31 days who knows when AF is actually due!


    congratulations munchkin! Fingers crossed for a lovely 9 months!

    Skinper - I was the same last cycle! It is horrible because you just want AF to show if it is gunna show not linger :/

    Trying - I know what you mean. Are you doing opks?

    Xx
  • Zeni
    Zeni Posts: 424 Forumite
    CD1 expected as think I messed up my OV days as my clearblue digi broken so had to get a new one. Weirdly I'm ok about this today, been talking to my friend who just had her baby 3 months premature and shes really going through it. Makes me realise that even once you get pregnant hurdles will still exist to test you and if she can have a positive spirit about what she's going through right now so can I about this.
    Swagbuckling since Aug 2016 - Earnings so far.. £55.
  • Celepie
    Celepie Posts: 134 Forumite
    Hi all!

    Cd14 today, I had this weird feeling last night we Bd and I just felt like that was it, if I am gunna get a BFP it will be from this time, I have no idea why, I do not even know if I am oving as I am part of the non opk trial group, hard to explain but like I said I just felt this feeling so time will tell. Probably all in my head the same as every previous month lol I am off on holiday next week and due on the last week of holiday but I am hoping to be so preoccupied I will not be SSing and testing stupidly early. This my cycle ranging anything from 27-31 days who knows when AF is actually due!


    congratulations munchkin! Fingers crossed for a lovely 9 months!

    Skinper - I was the same last cycle! It is horrible because you just want AF to show if it is gunna show not linger :/

    Trying - I know what you mean. Are you doing opks?

    Xx

    I had that feeling cycle 1! It was weird. We had sex like five times during fertile window but there was one time we did it where instantly afterwards I was like 'This is the one'. And we did conceive that cycle (although it was a chem preg in the end) so who knows! I haven't felt like that since though :(

    Anecdotally, that day was O-2, which we actually haven't hit in any cycle since (usually done O-3, O-1 and O) so I'm going to make sure we hit O-2 next cycle!
  • skimper
    skimper Posts: 372 Forumite
    Tenth Anniversary 100 Posts Combo Breaker
    Looks like AF has started! Always the way when I write a post to have a moan she turns up! So I'm cd1 today.

    We've started on a bit of a health kick, were both a little over weight which can only help with trying to conceive.
  • We have come to the realisation that unfortunately we will not conceive during may as my fertile window is bang on with OH's 12 hour nightshifts that he's been asked to do. So once AF is gone from this cycle, next cycle will just be as and when and AF will show at the end.

    Roll on June! ha ha
  • PrettyKittyKat
    PrettyKittyKat Posts: 1,270 Forumite
    Two Week Wait (BFP Hopefuls)

    CD47 wifeforlife
    CD41 PrettyKittyKat
    CD27 Celepie (10dpo)

    "If in doubt - BD" Zone

    "Wine and Chocolate" zone
    CD15 KatieBee123
    CD6 HappyLassie13
    CD2 Tryingin2018
    CD2 Zeni
    CD2 Skimper

    Those we haven't heard from in a while:
    Nanyco
    CamelLady
    athensgeorgia
    SlothSocks

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  • PrettyKittyKat
    PrettyKittyKat Posts: 1,270 Forumite
    Happylassie13 We had the same realistion a couple of months ago. It has actually been good to have a little break. It means we are both ready and raring to go again! We just need to stupid cycle to sort itself out. CD41 today and still no sign or symptoms of AF. Last cycle lasted 49 days so it looks like I am heading for that again!

    Did someone mention there were some herbal remedies meant to regulate and shorten your cycle? Given it's my second long one in a row I think this is something I need to consider!
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