Official Trying to Conceive - Thread 13

PrettyKittyKat

KatieBee If you OV a week early I would expect AF to be a week early too. I have been getting spotting prior to AF on a few cycles since coming off the pill. Do you use an app? If you updated when you OV that would presumably update when AF is due. Fingers crossed it doesn’t develop into AF for you.

Selement Everything is crossed for you! I agree with the others to get a digital, especially if you think you may be later than 3 weeks. Keep us updated! If you want any second opinions pop a picture of the test on.

RambosMum It is totally understandable why you would be getting cold feet when you had an experience like that last time. Have you asked your Doctor if you can elect for a Csection given your previous injuries? I follow a woman on IG who developed a mental health condition with her first pregnancy where you have an irrational fear of child birth. She is pregnant with her second and she is going to hypnobirthing sessions and said they have helped her massively. She had an elective Csection last time and has the option of an elective csection this time. Maybe doing a little research into your options should you become pregnant again may help you.

Tasha-Debt welcome to the thread! Everyone is so lovely in here! I am sorry to hear of your MC. I don’t have personal experience of clomid but know people that have used it and been successful. Is this your first cycle using clomid?

selement

Took the digital - it says pregnant 1-2 weeks so it must have happened on that one day we dtd lol. What are the chances?
It's very weird not talking to anyone about this other than online! I haven't told my husband yet as he left for work before I did tests and I didnt want to message him the news. He'll be home soon... bit nervous about telling him. He knew this could happen of course but we'd both discounted this month and although he wants a baby he is more nervous about the idea than me...

Please move me to thread graduates i guess then! Baby dust to everyone xx

wifeforlife

Over joyed for you selement, there is no doubt a feeling of so many mixed emotions and this will continue but enjoy telling your DH this wonderful news. Wishing you a safe & healthy pregnancy

So I haven't really been online in a couple of weeks, I wasn't having any symptoms, I was torturing myself reading and just decided to unplug.

So today I have finally had a period, this is the 1st since the coil was removed in early January so I can finally ask PKK to add me to list, today is CD1

Celepie

CONGRATS SELEMENT! Delighted for you! Fingers crossed for a very boring and straight forward nine months xxx

Toots14

Congratulations selement! I hope you have a happy and healthy 9 months. Lovely to see a BFP on the thread. 7DPO here, not much to happening to symptom spot. I don't like testing early but will maybe do one Monday or Tuesday as I have a tattoo booked on Friday and you need to give 48 hours notice to cancel it.

Rambo, I know how you feel. I was having doubts about trying for No.2. We have such a sorted routine and I'm finally use to being back at work and DD is settled in nursery. I also had a terrible experience in labour but I requested a debrief which really put my mind at ease. I've had it confirmed that we will have a planned section if I fall pregnant again. It was the only way DH was happy to have another. He was really affected by my labour and genuinely thought I wasn't going to make it so I really had to put his mind at rest.

HappyLassie13

Ah Selement I am so happy for you! Let us know how it goes telling the Husband tonight, I love hearing how (usually the man in the relationship) reacts to the news.

Tryingin2018

Lovely to read stuff like this. congrats!

Munchkin84

Congratulations Selement x

selement

Since Happylassie asked...
My husband did freak out a bit (to be fair I did in the morning) because we had been expecting to start trying again in may. He is pleased and said I'd made his day but obviously it's a or to think about! And then we had to go out and see friends and I had to make him promise not to tell them yet as the day we find out us maybe a bit soon! They are good friends so might tell them before 12 week scan though

Cheeky_Monkey

Congratulations selement. I'm very happy for you and your husband :j