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Official Trying to Conceive - Thread 13

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  • Hello all,

    I'm a newbie to this thread, can I please join? I have been TTC for just over a year now but only in the last month have started to get a bit panicy that it isn't going to happen for me.

    I have downloaded the Ovia app so have been tracking my cycle on there.

    According to Ovia I am on cycle day 23 and it is 3 days until testing.

    Hope you don't mind me joining?

    Thanks xx
  • Milliebob
    Milliebob Posts: 248 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture
    My gosh people! I go away for two weeks and there are FIVE BFPS!!!! Congratulations! Clearly I should go on holiday more often.

    As you know I got AF on the 4th day of my holiday. It was horrendous, it was late, and came completely out of the blue. I was in a shopping mall in Las Vegas and it just WOOSH appeared. I had to run to a bathroom and ask my mum to go buy me some new knickers and shorts. Mortifying.

    But other than that I had a wonderful holiday. Didn't want to come back home to face our problems. I work in retail and got the news the day I left that they are closing our branch. SIL had a baby girl also the day we left. And I have my infertility tests at the hospital on Tues.

    Lots to be occupying my mind.
    Happiness can be found in even the darkest of places, if one only remembers to turn on the light - Albus Dumbledore
    Happy Comper since Dec 2013
    Baby #1 Sept 2012
    Wedding 21st May 2015
    TTC Baby #2 since 5/15
  • Glad you had a good holiday Millie. Sorry to hear about the AF mishap, I'm sure Vegas has seen worse though ;)

    Good luck with your tests on Tuesday.

    Will you be moved to another branch with your job? Hope it isn't too stressful
  • sexymouse
    sexymouse Posts: 6,131 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Name Dropper Photogenic
    Two Week Wait (BFP Hopefuls)
    CD17 sexymouse - 3DPO :cool:
    CD21 Alex_88 - 7DPO :cool:


    "If in doubt - BD" Zone

    CD10 angel11 - Awaiting ov :o
    CD11 athensgeorgia - Awaiting ov :o
    CD11 newthrift - Awaiting ov :o
    CD12 Milliebob - Awaiting ov :o
    CD15 VicVics86 - Awaiting ov :o
    CD18 big5 - Awaiting ov :o
    CD20 little angel - Awaiting ov :o
    CD21 easilydistracted - Awaiting ov :o
    CD21 midget_1907 - Awaiting ov :o
    CD23 ButterflyBabe - Awaiting ov :o
    CD28 Slinky_Selina - Awaiting ov :o
    CD31 Meepmeep - Awaiting ov :o
    CD45 the_insider - Awaiting ov :o
    CD95 clarabell19894 - Awaiting ov :o

    "Wine and Chocolate" zone



    Those we haven't heard from in a while

    chocolatelover93
    pinkmagpie

    Those with * sometimes uses conceive plus/preseed.
    The names in blue has a link to their Fertility Friend chart.
    When posting updates, can you please do them in Magenta so it's easy to spot. This thread is all about support, so remember to click thanks on as many posts as you can! It makes us all feel loved.

    For those posting on smartphones or tablets the code for magenta is
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    Please let me know if anything needs editing (including the zone you are in) and I will try to keep up.
    Enjoy the little things, for one day you may look back and realize they were the big things.
    I married Moon 8/4/2011, baby boy born 26/9/2012, Angel Baby Poppy born 8/11/15, Rainbow baby boy born 11/2/2017
  • sexymouse
    sexymouse Posts: 6,131 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Name Dropper Photogenic
    Two Week Wait (BFP Hopefuls)
    CD18 sexymouse - 4DPO :cool:
    CD22 Alex_88 - 8DPO :cool:


    "If in doubt - BD" Zone

    CD11 angel11 - Awaiting ov :o
    CD12 athensgeorgia - Awaiting ov :o
    CD12 newthrift - Awaiting ov :o
    CD13 Milliebob - Awaiting ov :o
    CD16 VicVics86 - Awaiting ov :o
    CD19 big5 - Awaiting ov :o
    CD21 little angel - Awaiting ov :o
    CD22 easilydistracted - Awaiting ov :o
    CD22 midget_1907 - Awaiting ov :o
    CD24 ButterflyBabe - Awaiting ov :o
    CD29 Slinky_Selina - Awaiting ov :o
    CD32 Meepmeep - Awaiting ov :o
    CD46 the_insider - Awaiting ov :o
    CD96 clarabell19894 - Awaiting ov :o

    "Wine and Chocolate" zone



    Those we haven't heard from in a while

    chocolatelover93
    pinkmagpie

    Those with * sometimes uses conceive plus/preseed.
    The names in blue has a link to their Fertility Friend chart.
    When posting updates, can you please do them in Magenta so it's easy to spot. This thread is all about support, so remember to click thanks on as many posts as you can! It makes us all feel loved.

    For those posting on smartphones or tablets the code for magenta is
    ([ )COLOR="magenta"( ] )your text ( [ )/COLOR ( ] ) (lose the round bracket)

    Please let me know if anything needs editing (including the zone you are in) and I will try to keep up.
    Enjoy the little things, for one day you may look back and realize they were the big things.
    I married Moon 8/4/2011, baby boy born 26/9/2012, Angel Baby Poppy born 8/11/15, Rainbow baby boy born 11/2/2017
  • big5
    big5 Posts: 370 Forumite
    Welcome ButterflyBabe!

    Argh Millie, hate it when AF does that kind of thing! At least you were somewhere that had toilets and clothes available! Glad you had a good time otherwise. Will be thinking of you on Tuesday.
  • Sending hugs to those who've had bad news. Congratulations to all the recent bfps especially mancmama! Good luck to all. Not sure I'm going to have much luck this month- was trying to do the SMEP plan but poor OH was ill, even enthusiastic flashing around the house wouldn't do it :rotfl: I'm currently at peak fertility according to my possibility not very accurate app and now I'm ill. No wonder the poor chap didn't want to do it, I can't think of anything I less fancy doing right now :/
    Saving for a deposit. £5440 of £11000 saved so far:j
  • angel11
    angel11 Posts: 411 Forumite
    Millie sorry the witch got you & to hear about your job worries :(

    Welcome butterfly

    Easily hope you're feeling better soon

    Not much to report from me, been lax temping & tracking this cycle & actually feeling pretty relaxed about it.

    Hope you're all enjoying the bank holiday
  • ButterflyBabe
    ButterflyBabe Posts: 73 Forumite
    edited 2 May 2016 at 1:38PM
    I'm a little confused and hope someone can help me. I haven't got a clue how many days PO I am. All I know is that I am currently on CD25 and Ovia predicted my fertile window was between day 9 and day 14 but I have no idea when I OV.

    This is the first month I've been tracking on Ovia so I guess all I can do once i enter my next cycle is moniter my body a bit better.

    AF is due on Friday and Ovia says I can test from tomorrow. Should i test tomorrow or wait until after Friday?

    Sorry for being so vague but I am just getting my head around this whole TTC thing.

    BB xx
  • newthrift
    newthrift Posts: 1,252 Forumite
    Tenth Anniversary Combo Breaker
    Easily hope you feel better soon, think there is a lot of bugs about at the mo. You have a to love a bit of random flashing round the house to try and get the mood going :p
    Butterfly welcome :-) the only way to know when you defiantly OV'D is to temp I think (I have never done this but I know the other lovelies will be able to advise you better on that)! I use ovia also and I track via my CM - isn't always over accurate but we are going for a more laid back approach at the min. I would suggest waiting until at least Friday when AF is due before testing.

    We have been BD'ing and DH is happy to go for it every other day over the next two weeks + predicted OV day from both apps. Might have to get my nice underwear out to spice it up a little so it doesn't feel like we are just DTD.
    Christmas is the most magical time of the year :santa2:
    Mum to two boys :heartpuls
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