Contact order

tomtontom

This all gives me the creeps. House a tip, can't be bothered to meet with social services, plan of attack ...

As a third party, I would have concerns.

Ronnierhino7

Obviously no one is willing to help I will find the answers my self thanks again bye

Ronnierhino7

tomtontom wrote: »

This all gives me the creeps. House a tip, can't be bothered to meet with social services, plan of attack ...

As a third party, I would have concerns.

Good for you but you don't know me if it bothers you that much go to your local police I will happy to give you any details you want I got nothing to hide
funny how fathers how can't be bothered with there kids get less stick for ones that want to do some good to there own kids

heartbreak_star

If you chuck your toys like that in court, you don't stand a chance.

HBS x

GwylimT

Ronnierhino7 wrote: »

Basicly most of it was about me not engaging with social services not going to meetings, not doing the triple p course etc only reason I never went as we split up and most of the meeting was about her and the kids so pointless me going as it wasn't about me.

Oh, so the fact that it wasn't about you means you couldn't be bothered. As it concerned your daughter and her mother, it clearly wasn't worth attending.

Ronnierhino7

I always like how people judge you on these forums instead of helping people is it any wonder people commit suicide, people would rather dig up about things instead of answering the original question and for your information I think I have handled my self professionally and have been quite calm, sometimes people don't hearing the truth on these forums.

I know I am no angel but I not a risk or a danger to my child and I will fight this end of

Ronnierhino7

GwylimT wrote: »

Oh, so the fact that it wasn't about you means you couldn't be bothered. As it concerned your daughter and her mother, it clearly wasn't worth attending.

More of a case of working and couldnt get the time off and most of the meetings were not about me so don't see the need of me sitting there for a hour wasting my time.

TBagpuss

OP, I strongly recommend that you do see a solicitor, if only to get some initial advice about your options.

You would need to satisfy a court that it was in your daughter's best interests to move on to unsupervised contact - as your family has had previous dealings with social services, it it probable that the court may ask for a s.7 report from social services, rather than a report from Cafcass, within any proceedings, which would give some history.

Is it Social Services who are supervising your contact? If so, have you asked them whether they have seen the contact as positive and whether they would support it moving on? What about your child's mum - is she likely to support contact moving on?

GwylimT

Ronnierhino7 wrote: »

More of a case of working and couldnt get the time off and most of the meetings were not about me so don't see the need of me sitting there for a hour wasting my time.

I'm sorry you feel supporting your daughter and her mother is a waste of time, most people would consider it a necessity.

euronorris

Those meetings were about your child, and the mother of your child. They would not have been a waste of time. They were important.


Your non attendance, and the comments you've made about them 'not being about you' and 'being a waste of time', would've only served to confirm SS thoughts and fears about you.


If you're going to have any hope of fighting this and gaining unsupervised access to your daughter, then you are going to have to be willing to attend such meetings, and miss the time off work to do so. You're also going to have to be able to withstand comments that may well be far more upsetting/provocative than those on this thread without reacting in a negative manner.


Your reactions on this thread have been very immature so far. If that is the attitude that you have taken with SS and the Mother of your child, then it is no wonder that you have not got the result you were hoping for.


Doing the same thing and expecting a different result is madness. If you want the result to be different, you're going to have to make some changes.