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Is it weird wanting to not be single?

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  • catoutthebag
    catoutthebag Posts: 2,216 Forumite
    paddyrg wrote: »
    Pretty much everyone wants to be at some level in relationship, not that unusual ;-)

    Not if you check the opposing thread to this..or are they anomalies?
  • pigpen
    pigpen Posts: 41,152 Forumite
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    catoutthebag wrote: »
    Unless you're 15 now, that's highly unusual. Did you go from one to another like a yo yo or have you been with one person?


    That could be taken as a very rude question..

    I've actually been with 2 people.. one abusive @$$hole for far far too long and the second for the last 7 years (on thursday ;) )
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  • prosaver
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    pigpen wrote: »
    That could be taken as a very rude question..

    I've actually been with 2 people.. one abusive @$$hole for far far too long and the second for the last 7 years (on thursday ;) )
    dont worry its not youse's
    https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_seven-year_itch
    “Life isn't about finding yourself. Life is about creating yourself.”
    ― George Bernard Shaw
  • catoutthebag
    catoutthebag Posts: 2,216 Forumite
    Was there no time off between the two so you could be yourself and recover or was the second one a rebound?
  • catoutthebag
    catoutthebag Posts: 2,216 Forumite
    OK so you're very young. That explains it.
  • FBaby
    FBaby Posts: 18,374 Forumite
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    I'm a feisty independent woman, always will be, but ever since I can remember, I wanted to be in a committed relationship. I wasn't for the most part of my life, and even though I always find happiness and contentment without a partner, there was always missing. Meeting my partner confirmed this. We have both remained very independent, much more than the average couple, but are totally committed to each other and since sharing my life with him, I have felt totally fulfilled.

    Really no right or wrong about it, and I really don't believe that it is about dependency, it is just that some people are happier sharing their life with someone else whilst other aren't.
  • pigpen
    pigpen Posts: 41,152 Forumite
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    catoutthebag wrote: »
    OK so you're very young. That explains it.



    no.. dont be ridiculous.. my oldest child is 25 this year.. (though of course i had him when i was 3)

    catoutthebag wrote: »
    Was there no time off between the two so you could be yourself and recover or was the second one a rebound?


    and.. mind your own business.. :p haha ..
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  • pigpen
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    prosaver wrote: »
    dont worry its not youse's
    https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_seven-year_itch

    Best get it treated.. we don't have that in our house.. regularly debugged :p
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  • amistupid
    amistupid Posts: 55,997 Forumite
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    Judi wrote: »

    Dunno what i'd do at my age if i was single again.

    A bit of do it yourself. ;):)
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  • Katgrit
    Katgrit Posts: 555 Forumite
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    edited 20 March 2016 at 6:07PM
    What a strange thread.

    Is it wierd to want to be the same as the majority of people out there? Erm.....no!

    *off to start a thread "Is it normal to want to have a head".*
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