Jealousy What To Do?

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My husband has a friend he has known for a few years now and I have met him twice. Recently this friend suggested meeting up with himself and his wife on Saturday nights which I don't really have any problem with. However she is very large and not good on her feet because of her obesity and my hubs friend has told him previously how attractive I am which is a nice complement. Last week when he saw my husband he asked him to tell me not to wear skinny jeans or heels because his wife cant wear those sort of things and will feel left out. My hubby thought that was out of order and told him so. She is older than me at 55 and I don't want to make her feel bad but I wont look older or bigger than what I am. What do others think? socialise with them or avoid. And no im not trolling or full of myself.
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  • CruisingSaver
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    I know its half term but this isn't even a half decent wind up!
  • bluelass
    bluelass Posts: 586 Forumite
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    mellymoo74 wrote: »
    i dont say this lightly

    !!!! off bluelass
    Was there a need for that language melly?.
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  • breaking_free
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    bluelass wrote: »
    And no im not trolling or full of myself.

    Oh yes you are. Sad, sad individual.
    "The problem with Internet quotes is that you can't always depend on their accuracy" - Abraham Lincoln, 1864
  • LilElvis
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    Yes, yes we all know that you look like Pippa Middleton, or rather think you do. I doubt Pippa's idea of classy dressing is a pair of stretch denims teamed with stilettos.

    Yes, you are trolling.

    Yes, you are full of yourself (proof being your Pippa self-description)

    Looking forward to hearing more from you later, sometime around gin o'clock.
  • tomtontom
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    mellymoo74 wrote: »
    i dont say this lightly

    !!!! off bluelass

    If ever there was a case of saying what everyone is thinking, this is it!

    :iloveyou:
  • Petra_70
    Petra_70 Posts: 619 Forumite
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    I know EXACTLY how you feel bluelass. And I would say the posters dissing you on here are jealous of you too.

    I am such a stunning and beautiful and attractive woman that every woman I know actually hates me.

    All their husbands stare at me, and constantly wish their wife looked like me. I know this, because all the men tell me... They say 'Petra you are a Goddess.... every man should have a wife who looks like you; you utter Princess!'

    I look like Marilyn Monroe actually. Stunning figure, beautiful face, large-ish boobs, but with natural blonde hair.

    Women glare at me in public, because their men just stare at me. They also throw money at me, and diamonds, and they follow me home, and ask me out.

    I have had 4 cars bought for me, and 2 houses; just this past 6 months alone. Sometimes it gets a bit much, as I get frustrated by the utter jealousy of the men's wives.

    And at work, all the men fancy me, and the women hate me, but it's OK, because I don't have to do anything. All the men do my work.

    One of my managers just bought me a villa in Rome actually, because he is so in love with me.

    Sheeeeesh, what us stunningly beautiful and sexy ladies have to tolerate.


    ;)
  • PasturesNew
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    It's not your fault she ate all the pies.

    You therefore shouldn't be punished.

    It's not as if you "owe" her anything, or she's been a lifelong friend.

    Life's too short for people with nothing better to do than whine about stuff like that.
  • Petra_70
    Petra_70 Posts: 619 Forumite
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    It's not your fault she ate all the pies.

    You therefore shouldn't be punished.

    It's not as if you "owe" her anything, or she's been a lifelong friend.

    Life's too short for people with nothing better to do than whine about stuff like that.

    You don't actually think this dilemma is real do you?! :rotfl:
  • bluelass
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    It's not your fault she ate all the pies.

    You therefore shouldn't be punished.

    It's not as if you "owe" her anything, or she's been a lifelong friend.

    Life's too short for people with nothing better to do than whine about stuff like that.
    Thanks pasturesnew.
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  • bluelass
    bluelass Posts: 586 Forumite
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    I don't always wear jeans and I have kitten heel courts not Essex girl stillettoes. And im don't live under a bridge eating worms thanks.
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