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Dancing in the Rain

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  • I agree on the eyeshadow and the home. It's also hard when you have a careless thirty something daughter in residence.

    I'm with INOD on this, I have a 14yr old DD and an annoying DH - I seem to be the only one who can wash up, clean the litter trays, empty the bins etc

    I keep dreaming of living on my own:rotfl:

    I didn't mind doing all the housework when I worked part time and had the kids but now I am full time surely it needs to change!!

    What I find works for me is doing everything that needs doing before I sit down because once I'm down that's it for the evening so as soon as I get in from work I walk the dogs, feed them, wash up, clean cat litter trays and maybe put a load of washing on and then I sit down for a coffee and a read of the paper.
    I also find washing up every night helps with the state of the kitchen, I don't wash up absolutely everything, just enough to fill the drainer every night and by mid week I am basically up to date.

    Hope you manage to get your eyeshadow.
  • JoJoC
    JoJoC Posts: 1,836 Forumite
    Hi DIA - I've been a bit missing in action this week with it being the school holidays, so just catching up.

    Sounds like you've had a few ups and downs since I last checked in. Hope your health concern isn't too concerning, and that the washing is being kept at bay! I'm impressed with your positive attitude - "Instead of moaning about the dishes, why don't i just wash them?".

    I love this, so simple (borderline obvious) but I do need to tell myself things like this more.

    Hope you have a lovely weekend!
    CC1: £4481.14/ £5031.14 (12% paid off, £600) | CC2:£3307/ £3807 (14.4% paid off, £550) | Loan: £10,528.20/ £15,792.30((33% paid off, £5,264))

    July debt total: £24,630.44 | New debt total: £18,316.34 | Total debt paid: £6,414.10 (26%)
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  • doingitanyway
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    Thanks JoJo. Thanks all your positive vibes and have a lovely weekend yourself.;)

    A good day, busy again. Work is not easy but it is rewarding and I am lucky to have a job I enjoy.

    Other than work I submitted 2 inquiry forms re PPI. :)

    I sent an email re a meeting to discuss a new private venture in 2018.:)

    I spent £10 on lunch and coffees and a piece of cake. Crazy behaviour, especially when I am almost overdrawn.:o

    I phoned and checked I was still in credit and not at risk of going overdrawn.

    Pay day soon. I will be in the 4,000s but if I scrimped a little, along with a few hundred due from teaching I could be in the 3,000s and that would be so nice. Not sure because this month has been tight. If I do it I will have to make this month a game with lots of NSDs and YS shopping and focus on the gym to keep my spirits up.

    I might join the turtle challenge for November to keep me on track. I can then splurge a little in the lead-up to Christmas.

    I’ll have to think about it some more and draw up a budget for the month to see where I am

    One things for sure I will buy a kettle and some eyeshadow. Priorities ;)

    Happy weekend everyone :)
    If you have built castles in the air, your work should not be lost; that is where they should be. Now put the foundations under them

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    Buffer fund 0/100
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  • doingitanyway
    doingitanyway Posts: 10,062 Forumite
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    What I find works for me is doing everything that needs doing before I sit down because once I'm down that's it for the evening so as soon as I get in from work I walk the dogs, feed them, wash up, clean cat litter trays and maybe put a load of washing on and then I sit down for a coffee and a read of the paper.
    I also find washing up every night helps with the state of the kitchen, I don't wash up absolutely everything, just enough to fill the drainer every night and by mid week I am basically up to date.

    Hope you manage to get your eyeshadow.
    Thanks Eager Elephant :)
    If you have built castles in the air, your work should not be lost; that is where they should be. Now put the foundations under them

    Emergency fund 800/1000
    Buffer fund 0/100
    Debt Free (again) 25/072025
  • beanielou
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    Have a good weekend.
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  • System
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    Good luck with PPI , I am still astounded that I had it .

    I love your diverse priorities.

    Enjoy your weekend.
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  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 95,751 Ambassador
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    No PPI for me as yet.
    Oh well.
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    "A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.

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  • doingitanyway
    doingitanyway Posts: 10,062 Forumite
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    beanielou wrote: »
    No PPI for me as yet.
    Oh well.
    I'm convinced I have never had it but giving it a try just so I know I have explored all options. I guess it is more likely than winning the lottery, especially as I never do it :)
    If you have built castles in the air, your work should not be lost; that is where they should be. Now put the foundations under them

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  • JoJoC
    JoJoC Posts: 1,836 Forumite
    Fingers crossed on the PPI! Hope you enjoyed your cake :)
    CC1: £4481.14/ £5031.14 (12% paid off, £600) | CC2:£3307/ £3807 (14.4% paid off, £550) | Loan: £10,528.20/ £15,792.30((33% paid off, £5,264))

    July debt total: £24,630.44 | New debt total: £18,316.34 | Total debt paid: £6,414.10 (26%)
    *My debt busting and savings diary*
  • doingitanyway
    doingitanyway Posts: 10,062 Forumite
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    edited 21 October 2017 at 11:28AM
    Morning campers,

    I am setting a £10 budget for food for next week. I fortunately have lots of tea and coffee and eggs so this is achievable. Lunches will be leftovers and breakfasts will be scrambled eggs and salsa. Off to soak some beans…;)

    Smoky black beans with cauliflower rice, salsa, and avocado

    Smoked fish, a fried egg, black bean burger and salsa and greens.

    Ham salad

    Egg fried quinoa

    Ham and lentil soup

    Black bean burger with tahini lemon sauce and raw veggies

    Thai veggies, cauliflower rice, quinoa


    For the next week I have most of the above and I am trying to go very low on the shopping so I only need to buy:-

    Coconut oil 2.50
    Avocado 2
    Fruit 2
    Onions 50
    [STRIKE]Tomatoes 2[/STRIKE]
    [STRIKE]Frozen peas 1.50[/STRIKE]
    Rocket 1
    Clothes wash 2.00

    £10 total spend :T
    If you have built castles in the air, your work should not be lost; that is where they should be. Now put the foundations under them

    Emergency fund 800/1000
    Buffer fund 0/100
    Debt Free (again) 25/072025
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