Hidden debt from husband
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Every relationship is different and some people respond to money/ debt issues more favourably than others.
If you decide not to tell you must learn not to witter about this constantly, that will make you Ill
One addition - you mentioned potentially buying a house in future (using money for a deposit) in your opening post. Having recently gone through a new mortgage application, I can tell you that your financial habits are absolutely laid bare in the process these days and there's no hiding place for outstanding debt. If you do decide to deal with it without telling him I'd strongly advise getting everything in order before going for a mortgage.
Honesty is the best policy, not only will it save you a lot of worry but he married you, for better or for worse.
I realise in retrospect that it was one of the stupidest things I did aside from getting into trouble as I did
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